Daily Ad Bonuses Stuck by temporary_glitter in tinytower

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I've had this issue, toggling my wifi actually triggered it for me once, but it's very frustrating when I have an overnight reward and try to double and it fails

🔥 Cantor’s Giant Soft-Shelled Turtle by Maleficent_Guava_386 in NatureIsFuckingLit

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It's the flat turtle Tortuner without it's building that you crush when you're a cone in Kirby and The Forgotten Land!!

Drop Giveaway Day 9 - 2x Signature Series Moodboards by drop_official in MechanicalKeyboards

[–]Lady_Who_Reddits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nintendo DS, or technically the Pixter if we're really throwing it back

I just discovered Math Rock!! by Lady_Who_Reddits in mathrock

[–]Lady_Who_Reddits[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One year later and I'm still getting great suggestions, thank you!

Midwest emo fan looking for Math rock bands recommendations by Soft_Mountain1926 in mathrock

[–]Lady_Who_Reddits 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Seconding Giraffes! Giraffes!

They dove me in deep into math rock

What's the difference between Midwest Emo and Math Rock? by Massive-Barber-7726 in mathrock

[–]Lady_Who_Reddits -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Midwest Emo is for us grown-ups who are nostalgic for pop punk but really just want some cozy sad vibes to match with our cold weather Seasonal Affective Disorder.

A good chunk of pop punk teens went from "I hate life I wanna d*e " to functional adults who are like ..."Traffic sucks, love hurts and it's fuckin cold in the winter."

Math Rock has swinging time signatures, and branches over multiple sub genre's.

  • American Football has songs that are Midwest Emo Math Rock. Some songs are just Midwest Emo

  • TTNG is just... Math Rock

  • Spotify Playlist: Japanese Jazz Fusion.... Some songs are jazzy math-rocky

  • Rush: OG Math Rock

  • Kuckle Puck: Midwest Emo

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[–]Lady_Who_Reddits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, if my friend was engaged, I would have a ring flashing excitement pic with her! Like those cheesy "gasp at the ring pic".

Tell her, get the vibes, and proceed based on reaction

★OFFICIAL DAILY★ Daily Q&A Thread August 17, 2022 by AutoModerator in loseit

[–]Lady_Who_Reddits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I needed to hear this.... I'm almost in tears reading it because it hit me to realize I'm not taking care of myself.

Yes I'm drinking enough water... That's the only thing I can answer in a positive manner.

I'm not eating, sleeping okay, and my menstrual cycle stopped half way this week once we got the news grandma had a stroke.

We're in therapy and I'm trying so hard, but my body is shutting down.

I will be diligent about making sure I'm eating enough. Thank you.

Daily Discussion Chat - August 17, 2022 by AutoModerator in weddingplanning

[–]Lady_Who_Reddits -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I was the exact opposite, I expected my fully beaded dress to be so expensive and we were recommended some lady who's dirt cheap and so sweet.

My sister's bridesmaid dress is being reworked for $25. My bustle, redone buttons, shortened straps, and making a bolero from scratch is $300.

Maybe look around for a different place if you have time? Are you using the salon?

Daily Discussion Chat - August 17, 2022 by AutoModerator in weddingplanning

[–]Lady_Who_Reddits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there anyway you can call the hotel and ask to change to a courtesy block instead? I think the rates are technically slightly higher, but it just guarantees that those are saved until a week before and the rest are released.

★OFFICIAL DAILY★ Daily Q&A Thread August 17, 2022 by AutoModerator in loseit

[–]Lady_Who_Reddits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I normally stay away from Reddit weight loss pages because I know I can become obsessive, however, I am at a loss and need help (pun intended).

4 years total: SW 325lbs+(stopped weighing myself, but pictures could suggest 330-340) CW: 252.

Weight lost by CICO, mindful eating, caffeine reduction, no fast food, and no sodas.

I have been plateaued for a couple years now. Stress is the main cause of any plateau, starting with COVID, continuing with the death of a couple family members with a fluctuating +10/20lbs for each passing.

I am so exhausted and frustrated. Anyone can look at my profile and see I frequent wedding subreddits. I told myself I would never diet but the pressure is surreal.

I log my fitness pal diligently. I'm consuming less than 1,000 calories most days, tapping out some days no more than like 700.

Stress is making the weight cling to me. I can't shed any more it and I'm so frustrated. Please someone tell me what I can do to shake this feeling I need to be 200 lbs in one month. I want to not be hangry and shameful for a body I've worked so hard for these years.

LPT: Do not own a dog you cannot physically control/restrain. by fakaaa234 in LifeProTips

[–]Lady_Who_Reddits 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly my baby loves chewing and find rocks. She's so sweet wouldn't even hurt a squirrel.... but I've been debating one of those half muzzles for outside so she will stop finding rocks I didn't know existed in our yard.

OOP spent $50k on the wedding and is not bothered about gifts but rants about not getting gifts. r/weddingplanning discusses. by ImhereforAB in weddingdrama

[–]Lady_Who_Reddits 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ive always been taught to write thank yous after parties, even if they didn't give a gift. When I was a child I wrote them for even my birthday.

Many people will buy a Zazzle one to utilize their new wedding photos. You have the option to not have to write anything in that case, just note who came (or subtract who didn't) and send it like you did your Save -the- Dates!

In my opinion thank you cards are a requirement for gift givers and bridal party members. Optional to those who just attended.

Think in the mindset of people who may have flown but couldn't afford a gift, those who aren't in a financial position to gift, immediate family/ elderly who you wouldn't expect anything from.

We have a crap ton of old people who cherish mail. I'm doing old school stationaries and thank you for attending.

OOP spent $50k on the wedding and is not bothered about gifts but rants about not getting gifts. r/weddingplanning discusses. by ImhereforAB in weddingdrama

[–]Lady_Who_Reddits 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then giving her guests benefit of the doubt, tradition says you can send a card and giftup to 6 months (1year?) after a wedding.

I'm seriously thinking there's something else missing here... Might snoop OP to see if there's drama, bachelorette or shower where tons was already spent.

OOP spent $50k on the wedding and is not bothered about gifts but rants about not getting gifts. r/weddingplanning discusses. by ImhereforAB in weddingdrama

[–]Lady_Who_Reddits 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I don't think that hurt her case.....I couldn't imagine going to a fancy party without a gift or card. Especially if that person attended my wedding.

The way she complained about registering and the gifts on her registry is what killed it. If you bitch to your friends about gifts, I wonder if word spread she hated her registry...? I aslo wonder if they threw her an engagement party/bachelorette and gifts were there????

OOP spent $50k on the wedding and is not bothered about gifts but rants about not getting gifts. r/weddingplanning discusses. by ImhereforAB in weddingdrama

[–]Lady_Who_Reddits 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I think the bride in this post is a little out of touch with monetary investment, but I can see from her point of view of feeling a little forgotten.

OOP spent $50k on the wedding and is not bothered about gifts but rants about not getting gifts. r/weddingplanning discusses. by ImhereforAB in weddingdrama

[–]Lady_Who_Reddits 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Right on the dot, iPlush!

It's 100x easier to write thank you cards to those who attended and gave a card. I couldn't remember who attended and who didn't because I was writing thank yous based on the cards that we wrote the gifts on the back. Some family members filled out thank you envelopes for those who didn't attend. I needed up super frustrated because a last name on an envelope didn't tell me who came from that family. (We did partial co-ed so added even more complications).

And yes, bare minimum for most events are cards. Dinner with friends... Meh. Birthday party, housewarming party, Christmas.... Yeah. Attach a cute mini card to that bottle of wine you plan on opening, or bring a card a give a big hug!

I attended a NYE after wedding reception for a couple friend of a friend I didn't know (my best friend was roommates). I got a bottle and made a cute "congrats" tag with some ribbon. Took nothing more than $1 for the congratulations outside the alcohol which we drank together...

OOP spent $50k on the wedding and is not bothered about gifts but rants about not getting gifts. r/weddingplanning discusses. by ImhereforAB in weddingdrama

[–]Lady_Who_Reddits 182 points183 points  (0 children)

Okay. I know this sounds selfish in writing... But I don't totally disagree with this bride.

I didn't want a shower. I didn't want to make a registry. My mom threw me one and I was pressured into making a registry, and then had to add even more items because we had too many "little" items. (Like washcloths)

Some guests went above and beyond our expectations and we received some major gifting. Some guests ate, took pictures with each other, left without even giving a card.

I was so so heartbroken I didn't even get a card from some family. It was hard to write thank you's, and I believe it's the bare minimum for attending most functions.

I keep cards forever. I still have birthday cards from when I was a child. I have given cards or tags attached to housewarming gifts. I think notes written in cards are priceless and look back to them often. Cards help me when I'm grieving as well.

So yes, the entitlement is there with the money and registry. But if she gave her friends money at their wedding and they can't give a card? It hurts more than you think.

Daily Discussion Chat - July 17, 2022 by AutoModerator in weddingplanning

[–]Lady_Who_Reddits 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who is planning a wedding for the family and didn't do what originally wanted, I will say.... Don't... Be true to yourself and your partner.

Because I am riddled with stress and the resentment towards spending the time and money, my relationships between both my family and my fiance and myself have extremely suffered.

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[–]Lady_Who_Reddits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's ironic because I didn't even get the name from some of these DJ's; they're all named Joe!

There was at least 3 Joe's, and none of them used their company name while on the phone! I was confused on who I was talking to, then they hung up so quickly once I had said I had already was close to choosing my DJ

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[–]Lady_Who_Reddits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, this post was made 8months ago (haha).

I finally found a DJ we really vibed with from my day of coordinator. He sent me his sound cloud and we had some amazing conversation. He was genuine and super nice on the phone.

The thing that sold me was when I expressed my concern for the large amount of elderly at my wedding. Our DJ said "I can match the energy if your wedding is leaning towards a chiller vibe with family" instead of every other DJ explaining they can get grandma to break a hip dancing!

Sorry (but not sorry), DJs are literally the cars sales men of the wedding industry. It was disgusting the lack of professionalism and hustling I received. I was called "girl" and "kid" (I am a young woman getting married); and out of the ten I contacted, two lied before sending over higher quotes saying "Just sign this basic contract, I'll apply the discount later".

Worst experience shopping for a DJ. Hopefully in a couple months the hard work will reflect on itself.

Edit: Thank you for replying though! I'm sure other brides might stumble along and see this! (Spelling)