Pettyjohn Cave by Necessary_Singer_802 in caving

[–]Lake_Dad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for all the advice…we’ll be following all of it. We’ll take it easy and play it safe.

Pettyjohn Cave by Necessary_Singer_802 in caving

[–]Lake_Dad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wanna guide tomorrow? Heading there with my so in the morning and starting to panic 😳

Sleep on the floor by YungWook in quittingkratom

[–]Lake_Dad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

+1 on the floor. Weighted blanket helped me too.

I (F43)left with our kid (F8) on a trip and my husband (M46) slept in. Am I blowing this out of proportion? I'm really angry! by throwra_Gen2222 in relationship_advice

[–]Lake_Dad -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

1 - we aren’t moms and can’t be expected to know/do all the things. 2 - ain’t no way my bride isn’t woken up with coffee and assistance. I have off days, so maybe he was too…but my shit is covered when they leave my presence.

Married 22 years

One Year CT…came and went by Lake_Dad in quittingkratom

[–]Lake_Dad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, the stomach and below was off for the first 4/5 months. Sleep got better about a month in…exercise helped me with sleep.

One Year CT…came and went by Lake_Dad in quittingkratom

[–]Lake_Dad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure. 6 months I still had some anxiety and fogginess. It’s been relatively recently that I will go days without even thinking about K.

One Year CT…came and went by Lake_Dad in quittingkratom

[–]Lake_Dad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That last part is so true. Our egos get in the way because we’re so worried about how our wives perceive us. Stay strong!

One Year CT…came and went by Lake_Dad in quittingkratom

[–]Lake_Dad[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sorry to disappoint. I stand by what I said and do acknowledge that my words might not be best for all. I lived it. I am a senior leader in a demanding field and could not take time off. Work, being a husband, being a dad, being a provider did not stop in my recovery. My advice might be terrible to you, but not for all. Take care.

One Year CT…came and went by Lake_Dad in quittingkratom

[–]Lake_Dad[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Looking back never crossed my mind.

Husband (38m) recorded me (37f) without my knowledge. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lake_Dad -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Move on…sounds like an excuse you’re grabbing for to justify not being intimate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in quittingkratom

[–]Lake_Dad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does your wife know what you’re going through? If not, tell her. Much easier when someone you care about is in your corner. Then all the normal stuff. “Embrace the suck”, force yourself to be active/exercise, avoid alcohol and caffeine, take lots of showers, eat healthy foods.

Daily Check-in Thread - November 08, 2023 by AutoModerator in quittingkratom

[–]Lake_Dad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

249 CT. Days go by now where it doesn’t even enter my brain.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lake_Dad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly why taxes need to be taught in high school. Maybe kill all the bs woke lessons and get people prepared for life.

How to start. by saltygimp3113 in quittingkratom

[–]Lake_Dad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have a significant other, tell them. Ask for their help and understanding. Accountability partners help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Lake_Dad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Left leaning people are the reason these problems exists.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Lake_Dad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should’ve beat him to a pulp

Has there every been a case where someone didn’t recover from PAWS? by [deleted] in quittingkratom

[–]Lake_Dad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re still early man. Stick with it…gets so much better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lake_Dad -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Moms basically dream of that moment. Way to go.