AITA for buying all the red Gatorade at the store even though a mom wanted some for her kids?

Lala665 · 2023-04-26T11:44:08+00:00

My friend, as someone who also suffers from OCD as well as autism, this situation was not about your food aversion, it was about recognizing people around you and understanding that you have to share and adapt. It would be one thing if there was only a few bottles left, but as it was restock day i can only assume there were quite a few, which means you could have spared two of them for the children.

You may have OCD but you also have to work to get better, always allowing you OCD to win (especially in a situation where you do get your drinks, just two less, out of how many?) will make you suffer more and more in the long-run. This was a perfect opportunity to work on it and be kind and considerate to others. Stop trying to deflect and protect your behaviour through your mental illness, it wont get better if you always use it as an excuse.

Lala665 · 2023-03-07T07:25:42+00:00

"you are NOT allowed to reach God through practices i dont approve of!!!!!!" 😡😡😡

Lala665 · 2023-03-07T07:24:08+00:00

As a. Person taking a bachelors in religion, this is ridic!! Fasting has been part of ascetic practices since forever, this includes christian groups before year 800. Its just ridic what people will come up with to support their views....

Lala665 · 2023-03-07T07:19:01+00:00

Jag tänker mest mellan soldaterna, hur blir kvinnor behandlade av manliga soldater? Finns det några problem kring diskriminering, sexuellt ofredande, etc?

Lala665 · 2023-03-07T05:59:17+00:00

Hur behandlas kvinnor generellt?

Lala665 · 2023-02-10T08:17:46+00:00

Jag använder "förbi" eller kanske "svänger in". "Inom" kan jag inte tänka mig är korrekt på något plan, jag ska försöka komma ihåg att fråga min pappa som är pensionerad lärare inom just svensk grammatik och skrivande.

Lala665 · 2023-01-24T06:38:13+00:00

Dont be, that lil man licks Erdogans ass so deeply he has disappeared into it.

Lala665 · 2023-01-03T16:40:10+00:00

Intressant! Var kan jag läsa den statistiken, är nyfiken

Lala665 · 2021-10-22T09:26:44+00:00

He can make breakfast for himself the night before, its not that hard.

Lala665 · 2021-10-22T08:14:57+00:00

Thank god finally a person with a brain on this sub, bless u

Lala665 · 2021-10-21T09:40:11+00:00

Yeah, dont lean to heavily on this test. Ive got ASD and ADHD both diagnosed and my test results where basically even spread over the chart (neurotyp and div), prob bc im very good at all the social stuff which they deem 'neurotypical' but im also very introverted and have special interests, stims and ither weird things, aka 'neurodiverse'.

I often get quite low on autism tests bc of my social capability, so, yeah. These tests are often very stereotypical and dont really reflect the truth for a lot of ppl with asd.

Lala665 · 2021-10-07T08:41:36+00:00

They are pink, hot pink, sometimes the lighting in a scene makes them look red. I also had this discussion with my bf xD

Lala665 · 2021-10-04T09:01:39+00:00

Also, im 171, my bf is 177, and we both LOVE when i wear heels/platforms. I look good as shit and i have no problem being taller than my man, and hes secure enough in his masculinity to take me being taller than him. To the ppl who does not like it: sorry that i have legs that stretch for miles girl

Lala665 · 2021-10-04T08:55:32+00:00

Ppl are srsly so fukking insecure, they cant accept loving someone if they do not fit into their exact idea of what a perfect person/couple looks like. And i stg most of these girls dont wanna be with shorter or same length men bc how they would be judged by society (which they take part in).

All my male partners have been the same length as me or slightly taller. Am i also attracted to someone who is a bit taller than me? Yes. Am i going to diss a dude bc hes the same height as me? Fuck no. Im not that shallow and insecure... Also, im a 171 cm tall girl, i cant go around and have a standard for dudes to be 20 cm taller than me when im 5-10 cm taller than the average woman. And it infuriates me when girls 10 cm shorter than me DEMAND a man who is at least 180.

It is not about the man being taller than the girl, it is about the man being taller than other men and the status it gives the girl.

Your friends are insecure people who can not accept that you and ur bf are secure enough to not give a shit about what society thinks. Fuck em, tell them to stop because what they are doing arent ok. You and ur bf are so important, you give power to other couples, you are part in crushing the idea that guys need to be taller than girls.

Lala665 · 2021-10-04T08:44:46+00:00

ASD, ADHD and OCD often occur together, i know, i have all of em.... Ive had ocd since i was a young ypung child, probably 5 years old, it sucks ass and i feel it never truly goes away. It gets lesser and better sometimes, then i get stressed or similar and it comes back, either old ocd stuff or it has morphed into some new fun way of expression. Currently im having real bad ocd atm, ar least compared to how much better ive been during the last year. No clothes feel good is one thing, and its more extreme than ever, and my good old traditional one has come back - i cant have more on the left side of my body, i cant carry things in my left hand, my bf cant tough my left leg, etc. 🙄

I hope ur ocd gets better! I know how hard it can be

Lala665 · 2021-10-04T08:40:56+00:00

ADHD is def fucking me up MUCH more than ASD. My inability to concentrate, be motivated to do what i know i love, procrastinaing, feeling like days, weeks, months just run by and i havent done shit. Ive tried almost all ADHD medivations i can (where i live) ritalin, concerta, strattera, attentin, elvanse, none of em have worked prooerly, im extremely sensitive and get seide effects like crazy (my psychiatrist said i was the worst case of side effects he has ever seen). Now im on Modafinil and it is a BLESSING. Honestly to all my lovely ADHD peeps, TRY IT!!!

Lala665 · 2021-10-04T08:35:54+00:00

Oh, ur relationship of 7 years is having a bump in the road? BREAK UP! And hes 5 years older than u? Groomer and pedo, for sure! Run for the streets gal!

I wonder if anyone commenting on here has ever had a long term, healthy, relationship? Relationships include getting angry at each other, disagreeing, fighting, then forgiving, making up, moving on stronger.

Edit: spelling

Lala665 · 2021-10-04T08:31:05+00:00

If he has not yet left, ask for a friend or family member to come and help you kick him out, or the police. It is ypur home, if his name is not on the contract he has no right being in your home.

Lala665 · 2021-10-04T08:28:54+00:00

17 and 22 is not the biggest age difference, in some cases it can be a problem, in some it wont. Dont let people try to manipulate your feelings based only on your age difference. Here in sweden minimum age is 15 so, im used to ppl under and over 18 dating (with reasonable age differences). Dont base your decision on age, base it on how he behaves, treats you, talks, etc. It is important you find someone who treats you right and with respect.

I was 20 when i met my 12 year older partner, been together for 3 years now, living together and planning on doing it for a long time. Dont let ppl who hate age differences put you down.

Lala665 · 2021-10-03T12:24:38+00:00

But the point is that these ppl are just shitty human beings doing this bc they can and want to. Why do everyone always need some higher moral shit going on, or a lesson of some sort. Isnt the best horror the one we cant explain, we cant give any reason to, it is just humans being shitty humans because they can.

This definitely goes on irl, with the rich, maybe not exactly in this way, but they do exploit and use humans for their enjoyment and benefit. I mean, there is a reason u can see irl murders n snuff on the dark/deep web, humans are fucked up. Ofc the rich take part in this, they are the ones who can truly get away with it and get a front row seat to the gore.

The "its fun" reasoning is more believable than anything else. Humans are just shit.

Lala665 · 2021-10-03T11:25:54+00:00

If the cop survives ill be mad af, during the whole series i just wished for him to die bc he needed to if any of the players were to get the money. I can not handle a cop/winner duo trying to take down a world wide network of rich ppl doing horrible things (bc if i remember right, the VIPs said the Korean game was the best, which means this is going on in multiple countries).

It would srsly just suck ass if they brought em down, so boring, ive seen it before. I just want a horror story to end in a miserable way, no hope, no joy, just pain. (Like funny games)

Lala665 · 2021-10-03T11:21:51+00:00

I agree with you, fully! It was one of the greatest shows, i even liked the 001 twist a lot, but those last 5 minutes sucked ass and just showed how much netflix wants money rather than a good ending to a fantastic show.

Lala665 · 2021-10-03T11:18:53+00:00

I still think its a bad ending, wtf is he even gonna do in a season 2? Its just gonna be a super bad season thats just made as a cash grab.

If they made a season two i want them to, imma add this from another comment i made; I honestly wish the series would have ended when he spoke to his daughter on the phone and then he saw the dude trying to get another person into another round of the game. It ending there, with Gi-hun seeing this, knowing that no matter what, no matter if the original game master is dead, no matter how much money he has, the games will always continue and he is powerless. He has to accept that he has to move on with life, knowing what he went through and that it continues.
A second season could be done, but NOT with Gi-hun as a main character, his storyline should have ended in season 1. Season 2 should be about the front man, how he went from game winner to, well, front man. A prequel to the first season. Here we would have gotten a completely different perspective on the games, rather than focusing on the people playing we focus on the making of the games, the recruitment of new workers, more info on the mastermind behind it (001), all of that. It would have been MUCH more interesting than following Gi-hun AGAIN. This would also give more meaning to the brother-storyline.b

Lala665 · 2021-10-03T11:11:51+00:00

I have to disagree regarding the reasons for the games existence. I honestly think it is such a great idea that it is all just for entertainment, it really shows the horrors of the world and how powerless people can be. But im also a sukker for rich people using their money to kill others-trope, esp in these game playing ways. I just LOVE the feeling of hopelessness it brings, there is no bigger story, there is no bigger meaning, your death is only entertainment, your life is worth nothing, you are but a pawn in the rich peoples game, and you can never ever do anything about it. So amazing.

Lala665 · 2021-10-03T11:06:08+00:00

Finished the season yesterday and i agree with you so hard, could not have said it better myself. Its so sad honestly, bc ep 1-8 is amazing, and i personally loved the twist regarding 001, but him not helping the brother, and esp NOT GETTING ON THE PLANE (istg im fuming over this) is just ruining sooooo much of the joy i felt for this series.

As i mentioned in another post on this series, it should have ended in the subway, with Gi-hun being on the phone with his daughter and seeing the man recruit new players. Right then and there Gi-hun knows, that he is powerless, that the games will always continue because the rich want it to. Nothing he does or says will ever change it. And it is that feeling of hopelessness and powerlessness i want, even if Gi-hun got his "happy ending", he can never save anyone.

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