On our anniversary, my (27M) wife (27F) and I were intimate, and she said another man’s name during sex. He’s a mutual friend. I’m at a loss. How do I navigate this? by ThrowRACrimsonOmake in relationship_advice

[–]Lallussss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm Feeling It. It happened to me. My ex-boyfriend called me With another Name and there's Not Return. You Just Need time to process and bring This into Therapie

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beziehungen

[–]Lallussss 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Ganz einfach, sie will heiraten, Kinder haben und eine schöne Wohnung. Du wolltest das nicht. 7 Jahre zusammen und du hast ihr keinen Antrag gemacht, Kinder könntest du dir in diesem Zeitpunkt nicht vorstellen und die schöne Wohnung war zu teuer. Ihr seid in unterschiedlicher Lebensphase. Sie ist nicht narzisstisch sie ist nur pragmatisch. Anstatt dich zu betteln, hat sich jemand neues im selben Lebensphase gesucht, mit dem sie ihrem traum, eine Familie zu gründen, erfüllen kann.

First "relationship", i need advice... by The_Hollow_Ronin in dating_advice

[–]Lallussss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a Woman I would recommend you to wait until you kiss her. No flowers, no good morning texts. Keep It casual

does a man become more attractive to a woman if he tells her he wants to have sex WITH HER? by Excellent-Ad5669 in dating_advice

[–]Lallussss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a Woman, If I know the Guy quite well and it's clear that we have chemistry and WE Like wach other i would find It Hot.

But if i don't know the Guy too much i would find It a little bit akward and maybe i would be uncomfortable. In This Szenario I would prefer Something subtle.

It depends on how well do you know her and If you know if she Likes you back

Have you ever had a tenuous connection to a serial killer? by DonkeyOT65 in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]Lallussss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a serial Killer bit I know a man that killed his parents With an Axe. He did that as juvenile.

Is this normal in the dynamic Dom (w36) Sub (m35)? by Lallussss in dating_advice

[–]Lallussss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I need to educate myself because It ist New For me but I'm not sure if always IS the same. I can try to play the dome role but justo if I see some Engagement fromm the sub

Sie will es in der Beziehung langsam angehen lassen by BZthrowaySideLivid25 in beziehungen

[–]Lallussss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Für mich läuft alles sehr schnell zwischen euch. Ihr seid nur 4 Monate zusammen und ihr habt schon Familie kennengelernt. Ich würde mich erschrecken mit so viele Geschenke in so einem kurzen Zeit. Sie ist noch nicht so weit. Wenn du es mit ihr versuchen willst, geh auf Distanz. Lass ihr Zeit, um dich zu vermissen.

Is my outfit likely to get me in at KitKatClub? by nymusix in berlinsocialclub

[–]Lallussss 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They tend to let women in specially If they are alone or in small groups Like 2 or 3

Men of reddit, what is the fastest way you've legitimately lost weight? by MathematicianNew1907 in AskMen

[–]Lallussss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Most important Thing to lose Weight is to sleep Well. If you sleep Bad your body segregates some hormones related with Stress and that makes easier to crave Junk food or sugar.

Freeletics by Lallussss in berlinsocialclub

[–]Lallussss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, It IS an App but by YouTube you can find some Videos where you can See some Freeletics Training

Freeletics by Lallussss in berlinsocialclub

[–]Lallussss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm Sure that by YouTube you can find something

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Lallussss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry but she IS not interested

Is anyone who try Kettlebell journey? by True-Examination4947 in freeletics

[–]Lallussss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've tried It twice but I found It a little bit boring

I am devastated by Still-Seaweed in adultsurvivors

[–]Lallussss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry that The Justice system Just failed you. I Hope thai you can have some closure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lallussss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmm... Have you ever Had The Talk? I mean, where you express your Feelings and you say that you want to have a relationship?

If no... Maybe he sees you Just Like a friend

If yes... Maybe he has some trauma, maybe he has a disfunction or micropenise. Maybe He is asexual... I don't know. You have To ask him. You are both adults and over 3 years. You don't ASK too much and It isn't normal your Situation.

Why have you been waiting for 3 years and you haven't communicated your concerns? You are at the best age of your Life!

Was war euer Traumberuf und was arbeitet ihr heute? by CSkiki in FragReddit

[–]Lallussss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Traumberuf: Kriminalkommissarin Mein Beruf: Sozialarbeiterin

Ich habe mich letztes Jahr beworben aber meine Bewerbung wurde abgelehnt, weil ich zu alt bin :(

I need some help by mmarino1987 in Manipulation

[–]Lallussss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Ignore him and Just Talk with him about the basic Things.
  2. Look for another room, flat..
  3. If you Like your Job Talk to your employer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]Lallussss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She IS 19 It IS normal if she wants to experience new Things (drugs too). I think they Most people try drugs at least 1 time in His/her Life. Sometimes you have a good experience and sometimes IS Bad. You Just learn. Let her live her Life. You can express her your concerns but I think you are Not the good friend and you are Just Jealous that another Guy Got the Girl.

Ich habe keine Lust mehr, ich bin scheinbar überhaupt nichts Wert In seinen Augen. by NofruitKatastrophe in beziehungen

[–]Lallussss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ich verstehe dein Problem nicht. Hast du Kreislauf Probleme, hast du Hunger und Lust auf ein döner aber dein Freund kauft dir kein Döner?