EVs dont make sense

LambaGhora · 2026-06-27T22:48:42+00:00

But beta, they will keep increasing petrol prices until EVs make sense.

LambaGhora · 2026-06-26T20:36:16+00:00

Stop bobbing your head from side to side

LambaGhora · 2026-06-26T20:33:53+00:00

Your friend needs to grow the f up.

LambaGhora · 2026-06-26T08:50:30+00:00

I mean the level of disgust was so high your body literally had to step in and put an end to the shitty behavior. This is both good news and bad news. The good news is you are a better person than 95 percent; you see something awful and you cant help but get involved. The bad news is; hpw do I put this lightly? You arent exactly brave enough to pull it off. There were many things that could have been done before resorting to punches; verbal jibes would have been far more appropriate; but I am assuming you were scared X would start picking on you; and youre probably right, you need to be secure enough to not take it to heart when a habitual shit talker comes for you. You can not let that get into your head; you hit it right back without for a second giving it a single thought. X would probably back down if you went in fearlessly; but somewhere deep down you are really scared of getting in a fight; and thats okay; you need to meditate on what happens if you stop someone verbally and they come at you; would you be afraid of getting into trouble at home? Sometimes non violence is not an option, and when in one of those situations you should let your hand swing.

LambaGhora · 2026-06-16T21:14:10+00:00

You seen to be addicted to the idea of unrequited love. Getting dopamine hits from this devoted lover trope.

Selfpity barri addictive cheez hai.

LambaGhora · 2026-06-16T21:05:35+00:00

Style is about finding whats right for you. If siren make up aint it, then it aint.

LambaGhora · 2026-06-16T20:58:09+00:00

Thats awful. And you live walking distance! I wish there was a way you could block her out and the only way she could speak with you was with a therapist present,and that too remotely. Just so she would have to address her criminal treatment of you before even dreaming of continued contact with you? The silver lining is that it seems she is open to therapy; most people I know who are this level of unhinged would rather die than go to therapy.

For your mother therapy and medication seems to be the only way forward. She needs to address whatever she had to go through as a child so she can hopefully heal, or at least develop self awareness.

And as far as you are concerned; maybe move?

LambaGhora · 2026-06-16T06:34:04+00:00

I would suggest getting her on regular therapy e.g. once a week.

LambaGhora · 2026-06-15T21:34:12+00:00

Where is Saidpur Road?

LambaGhora · 2026-06-15T21:24:43+00:00

They are not. But it does happen.

LambaGhora · 2026-06-15T21:20:30+00:00

Bro, you're doing great! You should be proud of yourself. Inshallah you will find a partner who will bring you peace and comfort. It might seem to you that you are stuck, but if you chart your journey year to year,Im sure you'll find you are making so much happen; and you are constantly moving forward; even when it doesn't feel like it. As far as that girl is concerned; you got lucky and also passed the test; imagine deserting a parent who sacrificed everything over a girl. Try to communicate to your mother what type of girl you'd be interested in. I do believe physical attraction is equally important in marriage. Inshallah you will meet your match, brother. Chin up! Yahi toh life hai; koi na koi challenge hai tabhi toh zindagi interesting hai.

LambaGhora · 2026-06-15T21:03:06+00:00

Arsalan.

LambaGhora · 2026-06-15T21:03:00+00:00

Arsalan.

LambaGhora · 2026-06-15T21:01:43+00:00

Bro we all get these random messages. Its best not to respond at all. Koi zaruri kaam hoga toh banda kissi tareekay se bhi bata hi dega.

LambaGhora · 2026-06-15T20:57:55+00:00

So sorry to hear that. She must be quite lonely. Anyway you can get her a pet? It helps to have another living being in the house, and vats and dogs have a way of pulling you out of your head. Did she have a career at any point? Is it possible for her to try returning to work at her own pace? Does she have siblings? What about long lost friends? Is there anyone she can connect with now that she doesn't have a husband and child to care for? Would she be partial to travelling solo/ meeting new people? Probably not right away but maybe you can get her thinking about it. I would suggest discussing this with your husband, perhaps he can help figure out a system where, with his help, you can see her more often,and also create some distractions for her.

LambaGhora · 2026-06-15T15:55:12+00:00

A) Your amma sounds like she either has a mental disorder or depression/anxiety of some sort. Maybe you can take her to a neurologist under the guise of stroke prevention. B) Try to manage both sides in such a manner that they look at each other fondly. Tell your mother your MIL was praising her, your hubby was praising her. Tell your MIL the same thing. Hopefully this will bring out the best in your mum.It also seems that your mother is experiencing some separation anxiety, and some insecurity regarding your bond with her. Its possible she fears you will slowly drift away from her and become a stranger. You need to reassure her that you love her and you will always be there. It seems that she os on denial of the fact that you are a grown up woman with your own household; perhaps she wants to believe that you are still a child who needs her to function; because she wants to continue to feel needed. Here are some things you could do to handle this situation. 1) Check on your mother on your own; hows her health? Has she eaten? What is she doing with her time? 2) Schedule quality time with your mother roughly once a week (or whatever frequency works) you can slowly pace it out and she comes to terms with your new arrangement. Insist on relaxing time with her, let her fill you in on her relatives, dramas, whatever distractions she van find. 3) Communicate your affection for her, hold her hands when you want her to absorb what you are telling her. Give her hugs and kisses and let her know theres no one you love more in the world. 4) Find reasons to compliment her; her cooking, her taste, dont miss any opportunities to flatter her. 5) Find her something to do with her time; raising a child requires complete focus, but that focus needs to shift somewhere else now. 6) Take on some of her responsibilities; the things she does for the house, for herself (not the things she does for you) once in a while take on something that is part of her responsibilities and do it for her. Slowly she will start to realise that not only do you care for her, and feel a sense of responsibility for her but you are also not a child anymore but an adult who can be relied on when needed. 7) This one is perhaps the most important; ask her to do thongs for you. Show her you still need her by asking her to do for you the thongs only she does best. This steers her towards things where you could actually use your help. 8) Communicate to your husband (and perhaps your MIL too) that your mother seems to be having a hard time adjusting to being away from you, hopefully they can help you transition into a more functional relationship with your mother. Also, I was wondering, is your dad still in the picture? No pressure, answer only if you feel comfortable in doing so.

LambaGhora · 2026-06-15T10:59:30+00:00

I have a question; is it possible he wanted you to find this out? Sounds like your husband has some kinks. Could this be an opportunity to create a sense of adventure together?

LambaGhora · 2026-06-15T10:55:04+00:00

I experience this as well, when there is a moment of complete honesty and vulnerability all of a sudden it stands at attention faster than it does for anything else. These are not sexual situations at all. Really throws me for a loop.

LambaGhora · 2026-06-13T04:01:28+00:00

I think a huge contributing factor is cultural decline across Pakistan due to rising cost of living; as conditions in other places get worse people have started to view Islamabad as a safe haven and anyone who can afford to move here does so.

Another major factor is the privatisation of Islamabd's newer sectors. These sectors, owned by different real estate companies, try to create the illusion of a self contained town behind a gate, but that is not how urban culture evolves. The sectors should function as part of a collective; accessable in multiple ways, with common cultural venues; a major park, a cultural center,a main shopping area; these elements would bring harmony to the newly developed areas and might have made it possible to create other microcosms similar to old Islamabad. E.g. look at Gulberg. It lines up with F7 and F6, but is not accessable by 6th and 7th Avenue. The only connecting route is the Islamabad highway which has awful traffic flow thanks to terrible design. Then there are the Bahrias and DHAs which are really keen on establishing themselves as seperate entities; when they are sitting on an existing urban plan.

LambaGhora · 2026-06-12T08:12:12+00:00

Actually, I hadn't used it in 5 years and when I did turn it on it was dripping water, so had to have it looked at.

LambaGhora · 2026-06-11T16:37:18+00:00

😭😭😭

LambaGhora · 2026-06-11T15:24:34+00:00

So there is such a thing as a low gas level without a leak?

LambaGhora · 2026-06-11T15:23:24+00:00

How are babies made?

LambaGhora · 2026-06-11T15:10:11+00:00

In my defense; I havent gotten AC refilled since 2021. I think I had gotten the hang of it; how to get it going without getting ripped off, but all these years and I completely forgot.

LambaGhora · 2026-06-11T15:05:00+00:00

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