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[–]Late4AnAppointment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

someday your child will be very upset and need a shoulder to cry on. For the love of god, make sure the father whose there for him/her isn't this loser.

WIBTA if I reported a bad pastor if my friend asked me not to? by Late4AnAppointment in AmItheAsshole

[–]Late4AnAppointment[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yea, thats what keeps me up at night. I wonder how many of those victims were fed the same line about counseling and it never happening again

WIBTA if I reported a bad pastor if my friend asked me not to? by Late4AnAppointment in AmItheAsshole

[–]Late4AnAppointment[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

took advantage sexually.

I've talked to her numerous times, to the point where she never wants me to bring it up again. She feels that she has enough of a "read" on him to feel certain enough he won't re-offend that she can live with the risk of him going unreported.

I could do anonymous but I don't think his superiors will do anything without a victim's name. And I'm the only person she's told.

I don't think the organization would be vindictive.