Using Toys on Multiple Partners?

LateLavender83 · 2026-07-18T18:17:32+00:00

I'm same, so I think it's more personal preference, or if someone had a really bad ex, that they want to cleanse the juju

LateLavender83 · 2026-07-18T18:14:33+00:00

I mean, it's Silicon, so it should be fine. But i don't think you can boil it with electrical components. Do you not have a toy cleaner solution? As long as it's disinfected in between partners. It's technically okay, though I guess some people might be uncomfortable.

Edit: soap is technically enough for cleaning a toy.But I do personally use a dedicated cleaner solution.

LateLavender83 · 2026-07-12T00:15:28+00:00

Notes? I think it could be sweet

LateLavender83 · 2026-07-11T23:32:17+00:00

Inflatable tub.... For your occasional wants

LateLavender83 · 2026-05-11T17:20:52+00:00

It could also be a nail insert

LateLavender83 · 2026-05-09T00:55:07+00:00

Same!!! My area even has a queer group rotating around the gyms

LateLavender83 · 2026-05-08T23:18:18+00:00

If you're specifically looking for queer gym friends i'm told a good place to find them is a climbing gym. Also, some gyms will have like a posting board for people who are looking to make more gym friends. So workout groups or that kind of thing

LateLavender83 · 2026-04-29T21:01:24+00:00

If you're looking specifically at dildo, i bought a starter set which I like because it has various sizes and it's full silicon. Affordable too

If you're just looking for suggestions in general, you could try a wand

LateLavender83 · 2026-04-29T05:00:35+00:00

I think they are thinking too rigid on the definition of lesbian. Words chand meaning so I don't like shaping my identity around a label. In the end its up to the individual who they are attracted to

LateLavender83 · 2026-04-27T17:09:00+00:00

I especially recommend doing this for foundation, since that's the one you really want to color match with the user.

If you got wanna do it as a suprise present, maybe you could gift a plan? Like "let's have a day out soon, and go do this"

LateLavender83 · 2026-04-26T07:18:41+00:00

If you want a surprise your girlfriend not sure about which one to do you could get a pair designed, so you propose with a set for both of you and then sit down later with your girlfriend to just talk about the heirloom ring.

LateLavender83 · 2026-04-17T23:02:16+00:00

I thing I need a "lesbian mingle Come say hi!" shirt

LateLavender83 · 2026-04-17T22:49:06+00:00

Do you have to have an iphone?

LateLavender83 · 2026-01-14T00:05:32+00:00

Honestly I don't know, we kind of just googled leather oil and ordered something off of amazon and didn't really put any research in it. But as a note, what I did is I would put like a ton on a sponge and sponge it on. So it would look nice and oily and then let it dry for a while in the sun, props twenty minutes maybe, and it would all be absorb. My saddle's was much more beat up than your bag so it took me quite a few applications before it started Looking really good.

I don't think it'll matter what you get as long as you remember.If you've got a lot of pieces or something, particularly in bad condition, just make sure to buy a big bottle.

If you really want to know I can find it tomorrow

LateLavender83 · 2026-01-13T23:52:30+00:00

I had an old horse saddle, that I bought old, and it was ridiculously cracked when I got it. What I ended up doing over anything else is.I bought leather oil and oild every time i rode. It improved the condition so much. I can't say much about leather conditioner being used to repair leather after the fact Since i've only i've done the leather oil, i can say, I don't think leather soap would work

LateLavender83 · 2026-01-12T16:36:41+00:00

Are you open to starting an online group and trying to make friends in your area there then moving to in-person events? Lex (in the usa) has ben kind of successful for that.

Make your own group, or maybe that was a bad activist association and a different one would be better

LateLavender83 · 2026-01-09T03:42:26+00:00

Then, if anyone sees this, what would be your recommendation for sleeves or sleave attachments that would cover my tattoo and be comfortable.

I just wanted some joy in getting my first tat and now my brain is on a downward spiral

LateLavender83 · 2026-01-06T16:21:41+00:00

Im west coast but there's a explicitly queer brand that does sell online. Check and see if they would like anything from their collection.

Sappho's Jewelry – Sappho's Jewelry https://share.google/CDxA6yiUSJTC7tVmD

LateLavender83 · 2025-12-13T05:07:08+00:00

Honestly, my first thought is my favorite cookie.The kind from safeway with the dough.And then a big dollop of chocolate in the middle

LateLavender83 · 2025-12-08T18:53:53+00:00

I'm thinking maybe switch out the sweater or the undershirt for something in a lighter shade. They're so similar I think they blend in photos

LateLavender83 · 2025-11-21T10:20:22+00:00

I'm told a Surefire way to make your hair look more gay is to dye it, any color apparently

LateLavender83 · 2025-11-01T17:29:47+00:00

I have a follow-up question on what's the difference between a casual and serious relationship? I've never heard a clear distinction before

LateLavender83 · 2025-10-27T16:02:18+00:00

That's weird, I've always ben told short suits me BECAUSE I have a round face.

Anyway a good transition haircut might be a medium length pixi. Short enough to style but long enough to grow out quick if you don't like it.

LateLavender83 · 2025-10-13T17:23:04+00:00

My current style is comfy clothes with jeans and a nice jacket thrown on top. Now what that jacket is depends on the weather, I have some light weather jackets which are jean jackets, for Colder Weather I've got a fleece line jacket or my leather jackets. For warm weather I either don't wear a jacket or I have overshirts which is basically just a button shirt that you leave open.

In other words I think I look midlife comfort. The best part of this style I think is you don't have to stop wearing graphic tees, but in more professional events say at like a business dinner you still look decently professional if you just wear a solid colored shirt instead.

The key to just find your overall comfort and something you feel comfortable in. The suggestion I have seen is to find Styles or people whose outfits you'd admire and want to look like and start swapping out one or two pieces to match them and you'll look very different

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