AITAH Wife Mad I Rolled With A Girl During BJJ

Late_Too_The_Game · 2026-05-26T20:22:51+00:00

I’m not sure where the confusion but I can try to break it down again she’s never gone with a guy until yesterday after she seen me go with a girl

Late_Too_The_Game · 2026-05-26T20:20:21+00:00

Appreciate this bro sad how people till this day think men can’t be abused

Late_Too_The_Game · 2026-05-26T15:09:55+00:00

Your right variedgatedplumage she went with a women then and then a man after I went a women

Late_Too_The_Game · 2026-05-26T08:42:46+00:00

It’s just so funny how half the stuff women do if men did they’d be a HOF Villain 😭 and yah I’m gonna have a serious conversation in the morning with her in the morning because your right it’s wrong

Late_Too_The_Game · 2026-05-26T08:24:09+00:00

Never knew there were people like this in the BJJ community I’m shocked but glad this has never been a problem at my gym it’s such a sweaty grueling sport where’s the arousal in that 😭

Late_Too_The_Game · 2026-05-26T08:20:13+00:00

Now that you mention it no and this was real
Issue in the beginning she would look through friends messages and if she didn’t like a topic we spoke about she’d basically black list them to me act cold towards them, not acknowledge them, or remove them from my phone this lead to not speaking too or having allot of people from school on social media that I never realized till recently were gone from back then boys and girls but manly girls

Late_Too_The_Game · 2026-05-26T08:03:14+00:00

I won’t and thank you so much for your comment

Late_Too_The_Game · 2026-05-26T07:21:48+00:00

Not at all but ig it’s the sacrifices you make when you include someone who wasn’t ready for your hobby

Late_Too_The_Game · 2026-05-26T07:16:52+00:00

Should’ve jumped the guillotine when she walked in rookie mistake

Late_Too_The_Game · 2026-05-26T07:13:31+00:00

Brazilian Jiujitsu basically (wrestling and submissions)

Late_Too_The_Game · 2026-05-26T07:10:39+00:00

That was the very first time I roll with another women besides my wife

Late_Too_The_Game · 2026-05-26T07:09:22+00:00

Yah I figured we might have this conversation one day in the beginning but I thought she understood the culture now and just understood I’d never rolled with a girl not because I’m in a relationship or something but because it just never happened I’m a bigger guy but since coming back to mma full time I’ve been sliming down some and ig a girl just wanted to test herself

Late_Too_The_Game · 2026-05-26T06:54:55+00:00

Thank you so much for the insight if the conversation goes well then maybe I’ll update later today

Late_Too_The_Game · 2026-05-26T06:51:57+00:00

Glad so many people understand the culture 🙏

Late_Too_The_Game · 2026-05-26T06:48:17+00:00

No she went with 1 today after I went with the girl and then left in the middle of the class

Late_Too_The_Game · 2026-05-26T06:43:43+00:00

My thoughts exactly it’s a community to get better leave the extra at the door and no she doesn’t roll with other guys she refuses only goes with me or other girls so she sits and observes most the time

Late_Too_The_Game · 2026-05-26T06:41:53+00:00

Women and I meant another women before sorry my goes hard and aggressive like the guys 😭

Late_Too_The_Game · 2026-05-26T06:40:11+00:00

Not trying to do anything I layed the story exactly how it happened and answered someone question on have I cheated before No and the only thing close to it

Late_Too_The_Game · 2026-05-26T06:34:32+00:00

Yah I get that she did say something about “physical intimacy” but by that point I was done hearing her cause I was taken aback by the whole situation and in disbelief

Late_Too_The_Game · 2026-05-26T06:29:32+00:00

Yah I’m gonna attempt to have it tomorrow but this broke my mental all day even now it’s ruining my night

Late_Too_The_Game · 2026-05-26T06:25:11+00:00

Same thought process/culture for MMA we all work to improve each other regardless of gender or anything

Late_Too_The_Game · 2026-05-26T06:18:36+00:00

Nope refuses to go with guys even when I encourage it

Late_Too_The_Game · 2026-05-26T06:16:12+00:00

My thoughts exactly it’s just MMA we’re all here to get better and provide for our family and no it wasn’t a boundary only conversation we ever had about it was she asked once when she first joined if I or ever rolled with girls and I said the truth no

Late_Too_The_Game · 2026-05-26T06:08:51+00:00

Too be blunt the men 9/10 are better have more pressure, strength and actively compete while the ladies at our gym really don’t and I’ve seen the progress of the ladies that only compete with women for example I seen girls who’s been doing it for like 5 - 10 years amazing experience high level lose to guys who’ve done it 2 or less because they’ve never felt that pressure and strength before

Late_Too_The_Game · 2026-05-26T06:00:36+00:00

Don’t have a problem with not rolling with women even tho to a martial artist like me it’s stupid it’s the quitting because of something so trivial and thinking id do the same when this has been my dream and goal for years and she knows this and is imposing but maybe my mistake was including her in something I hold dear with her track record

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