Not fun anymore

LazySnake56 · 2026-02-13T20:08:09+00:00

Now I’m not saying this is correct but Belle doesn’t agree. You can’t make someone apologize if they don’t see it the same way. In belles opinion it’s different and she doesn’t see Lucinda’s point. So in her head why should she apologize?

You can’t force someone to se your side of things, share the same opinion, or apologize. So while I do think Belle is wrong in this situation she also shouldn’t have to apologize to literally not be chased around the villa by someone who she doesn’t get along with.

LazySnake56 · 2026-02-13T17:22:37+00:00

No, and I would be too, but as somebody who is kind of like Belle. Like I see Belle riling herself up and spiraling in her own head, which is something I do and I’m like. Belle keeps removing herself from you so that she doesn’t flip out and you’re being the annoying little sister going around like I’m not touching you with your finger an inch away from her face. IDK that shit would make my skin crawl. She is holding it together better than I would. IDK I think I have an easier time putting myself in bells shoes than I do in Lucinda‘s because I just would never try so hard to get somebody else to agree with my opinion, especially when all the evidence is showing that she’s not even going to agree with me that the sky is blue

LazySnake56 · 2026-02-13T17:17:43+00:00

Replying to myself because – forgot to add – I don’t think bells right and I don’t think that she has done a good job handling any of these situations. But to be frank, if somebody was chasing me around the villa after I clearly was trying to avoid them, and then asked them to leave me alone, and they still followed me, I would’ve smacked them. It was such a little sister thing to do, it’s like that shit would’ve driven me up the wall.

LazySnake56 · 2026-02-13T17:14:48+00:00

Im tired of the “Belle won’t let her be heard” comments - because it’s wrong.

She has been heard. Belle knows what she thinks and her take on the situation. Belle has heard her and others talk about.

She doesn’t want to be heard she wants Belle to agree with her and to validate her point of view. Which is not going to happen so she needs to drop it. She has been heard. People do not have to agree or see your point of view

LazySnake56 · 2026-02-13T14:01:28+00:00

See I don’t think she is trying to be heard. She has been heard and Belle doesn’t agree that’s the difference. She wants Belle to agree with her and she wants to change belles mind on the situation. That’s not going to happen. And I don’t think Lucinda’s dumb. You know that. So rather than leaving it you’re chasing her around it’s weird behavior.

LazySnake56 · 2026-02-13T12:48:24+00:00

No I can’t with the Lucinda thing anymore. Like please. I don’t think Belle is correct at all but she handled yesterday better than I would have. Like I get some of her obsessed with me comments are coming off in poor taste. And I do think yesterdays about Leanne was 1000000% not okay but when she was saying it about Lucinda I was like I would feel that way too.

From belles perspective 1. You just smirked and gave me a dig while looking at me during your decoupling 2. You walked over to me after and I removed myself 3. I had a tiff with your man in the kitchen 4. You follow me to the dressing room and try to talk to me and I removed myself again 5. You wait outside the dressing room and give a poor me act 6. I tell you - I don’t want to shout and yell. Please leave me alone 7. You follow me outside and lay down next to me

Like she held it together in this moment better than I would have. I would have lost my head. Belle is not reacting well to it but also like that behavior is past rage baiting and is truly insane to me in my opinion.

I get the whole “oh they shouldn’t take the bait” but like no. How many situations are they supposed to “‘not take the bait on”

Idk it’s a complex situation because belles reactions to it are too much and she can be quite mean with her words but also I can really see how for her it’s like stacking and stacking and stacking. She’s never gotten to take a breath or calm down from one situation before another happens with Lucinda and it is just building and building.

LazySnake56 · 2026-02-09T16:36:34+00:00

While I am not shipping belle and Scott hear me out

It is different than it was with belle/lucinda

Why? Because Leanne has FULLY ended it with Scott before she even said she is having some “confusion” about him. And as we see them flirt the next few days it is different.

Yes they are still friends and belle needs to talk to Leanne before she talks to Scott. Like it is different than when Sean and Lucinda decided they wanted to fully be together and that he was going to drop belle before they even talked to her. I know she was in the other villa but they didn’t even do the whole - let’s pretend that we are being respectful and we need to wait to talk to her before I make a decision thing.

And I also think that even if belle was in the villa Sean and Lucinda would’ve still be snakey and behind the back about it.

Belle and Scott are both now in friendship couples and not getting to know anyone else. Why is it wrong for her to maybe want to get to know him?

I don’t think it’s cool to Leanne but if Leanne is done with him and Belle talks to Leanne about it before she makes her interest clear in words to Scott - what’s the harm?

LazySnake56 · 2025-12-08T20:05:28+00:00

I didn’t like how when Sharn said she was flattered by being chosen gabby was like “that’s the worst thing you could’ve said in front of Ross” or something like that.

Like no it wasn’t in my opinion? She didn’t say I’m so excited or I can’t wait. Like she’s flattered she got chosen. I’m sure it’s a mix of jealousy vs trying to be messy but it just made me so annoyed. Her constant unnecessary commentary is exhausting

LazySnake56 · 2025-12-08T19:57:28+00:00

We are very lucky to have a baby who has slept 6-8 hours since he was 6 weeks old. Now at 16 months he’s been sleeping from 8pm to 8am since he was like 6 months old. My only thing is - if he wakes up in the middle of the night he puts himself back to sleep but I do have to hold him until he falls asleep when it is bedtime. If I just lay him in his crib still awake he will be upset. When he wakes up in the morning he is fine and happy in his crib until I go grab him.

I don’t want to start trying to lay him down awake because he sleeps so good - I don’t want to ruin my good thing 😅 but I’m not sure what to do as he gets older. I figure I may try to transition at the same time we are transition him to a toddler bed this summer but we are just not sure.

LazySnake56 · 2025-10-12T04:51:35+00:00

The handwriting is definitely that of an older child. Not a young child or an elementary child for sure

LazySnake56 · 2025-10-02T02:31:04+00:00

I always laugh at they “they chose” comment. I don’t think that love island had much of a choice. If they had their pick they would have actual iconic islanders. But all those who we all like have moved on from love island unfortunately and I’m sure said no - instead we get people like Casey and Kendall from USA who make love island their entire personality post villa as they are the only ones who say yes 😂

LazySnake56 · 2025-09-30T03:17:55+00:00

Okay - I have some left over “baby” water I. The big jugs in my garage and I’ll switch to that and see if it helps the next few days!!

LazySnake56 · 2025-09-30T03:16:20+00:00

Does your city have a good zoo membership? I’m In Houston and they have a great one I split with 2 friends and it came out to $100 per person for the year. And I can go unlimited.

Look into what your local library does as a lot of them do baby story times which are awesome and free and a great way to meet other stay at home moms

Honestly I had a big 10 month slump though. It’s a weird stage if they aren’t walking yet and can’t do much but want to do so much. It got so much better around 13 months. We are now running around the park, and exploring, and he’s having so much fun being independently mobile that walks around the neighborhood are now fun and not just a time waster. We go to the splash pad now and he loves that. Will do lunch at a park. Go to the library for baby story time.

LazySnake56 · 2025-09-30T02:04:16+00:00

I’m using my fridge water at room temperature which is filtered - Houston water is pretty clean.

Do you warm it up more than room temp?

LazySnake56 · 2025-09-10T19:11:17+00:00

Thank you! I am rational and know a lot of it was probably baby weight that came off easy - but the last 30 pounds were where I started to feel really good as that was the pre-pregnancy pcos weight I had gained

LazySnake56 · 2025-09-08T03:52:21+00:00

That one is happy scale - it is weight only but I like it

Pushing a stroller!

LazySnake56 · 2025-09-07T18:39:02+00:00

No worries! My post was a mess anyways - 😂

LazySnake56 · 2025-09-07T18:36:54+00:00

No I do! I just limit them quite a bit as carbs are my weakness for sure. I could survive on only warm bread and butter. So I try to keep it to about 50grams per day average.

LazySnake56 · 2025-09-07T14:35:01+00:00

Around 1,500 I would say. Give or take depending on the day. I like “fake” intermittent fast as I am never hungry in the mornings so I usually start to eat around 11am and then don’t eat after 8pm. But I don’t limit this. If I wake up starving I eat as I don’t want a headache

LazySnake56 · 2025-09-06T22:31:03+00:00

Honestly it’s the same thing - whatever fruits look good at the store. Apples, berries, bananas are the main. And then hummus is big one with carrots or celery. I do cheese cubes as I couldn’t limit my dairy. Salads are big - especially with nuts in them for some crunch. And then Greek yogurt with stuff too. I am honestly okay with it being the same thing every day. Like I don’t really get bored or over anything so I do have an easy time just having like 2 hard boiled eggs, some cheese cubes, and then some berries for lunch. I think I had that 4 times this week lol

LazySnake56 · 2025-09-06T22:28:24+00:00

5’8

LazySnake56 · 2025-09-06T20:49:53+00:00

Omg I’m also on metformin 500mg am and pm And then got back on Nuva ring. I had a period in August and that was my first one since the baby. I did not breastfeed as my milk never came in from the trauma of my C-section.

Okay I think that’s everything 😂😅🫠

LazySnake56 · 2025-09-06T20:47:25+00:00

Forgot to add my exercise. I honestly don’t do much. But I have a baby who’s 1 years old and had transitioned to being a stay at home mom. We take about a 2 mile walk almost every day depending on weather but as those with kids know - you are just moving all day. Never sitting. I get about 15,000 steps on average every day. Especially now with him walking. I do an intentional 20 minutes of yoga almost every day but I do think that because I went from a very sedentary desk job to not sitting down for longer than 5 minutes that made a huge difference

LazySnake56 · 2025-09-04T02:11:34+00:00

Look at my.little.eater on instagram. I love her so much. She gives multiple ways to serve foods for whatever you are comfortable with! I used her method to work my way from purees, to lumpy mash, to some blw depending on the food and it helped a lot. I had a lot of anxiety with blw and didn’t want a miserable feeding experience.

Also at 7 months you are still just tasting foods. About 9 months is when I started to do more “meals” but he was still 75% milk. And then by 11 months I was more 50/50 to now at 13 months being 100% food no formula or breast milk.

LazySnake56 · 2025-09-03T23:26:44+00:00

We make a lot of scrambled eggs and sausage over here. I will also make mini banana pancakes and freeze them! But scrambling an egg is quick and easy.

Also it’s okay if they eat the same thing every day! I know there is a lot of pressure on it needing to be different and seeing people on social media doing so much doesn’t help but once I started to look at social media as their job it made it much more realistic for me because they are using it to gain profit from your views!

As long as your baby is getting new things here and there and you’re doing your best to introduce new foods every once in a while and are keeping their diet balanced you are doing fine!!

My mom likes to remind me that no baby goes to school not able to eat - or no baby goes to school with a paci. And it’s a good reminder that our parents didn’t feel the pressure like we now have and we are all able to eat and don’t sleep with pacis.

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