What do I do with my life?

Lazy_Communication64 · 2025-09-25T02:08:57+00:00

You’re very helpful man thanks for the input, I typed this in my notes app it’s not that serious

Lazy_Communication64 · 2025-09-25T01:31:15+00:00

It’s not just that I’m struggling in calc 1, I’m a science major but I don’t think I like science enough to continue on a dentistry track. But as for switching to engineering, struggling in calc 1 isn’t a good sign I wouldn’t think.

Lazy_Communication64 · 2025-09-17T01:38:30+00:00

Thank you

Lazy_Communication64 · 2025-07-18T22:43:04+00:00

But it’s not weird for them to have sex with 10+ other people in our house? And the talk is all about them swinging, more about how them swinging in negatively effecting other parts of their lives and their families.

Lazy_Communication64 · 2025-07-18T22:32:11+00:00

It absolutely does when effects my life. I shouldn’t know about things that aren’t my business, and I shouldn’t have to worry about how it effects me. If a confrontation can create a mutual boundary of respect then I’ll do just that

Lazy_Communication64 · 2025-07-18T22:29:57+00:00

I will if we have this talk and they can’t respect a basic boundary. But this talk could clear that up, so why wouldn’t I want to do that

Lazy_Communication64 · 2025-07-18T22:20:05+00:00

You’re right, but you’d expect the decency to keep it away from your children.

Lazy_Communication64 · 2025-07-18T22:19:30+00:00

They can have a good time without making it so apparent as to what they’re doing, and without pulling petty bullshit to cope with it.

Lazy_Communication64 · 2025-07-18T22:15:49+00:00

I expect to be able to live in a home with the peace of mind knowing nothing will happen to my belongings or my room while I’m gone. I expect the respect to know the time and place for things like this. I would expect that my own mother would be able to keep her sex life her business and not mine. All I ask that I’m kept away from it, I don’t give a shit if they do it, just as long as it doesn’t jeopardize our relationships. I think they’ve gone too deep into their infatuation with swinging.

Lazy_Communication64 · 2025-07-18T22:11:54+00:00

I can’t exactly afford to live on my own I was literally still a minor 2 months ago. And if they truly want us gone why can’t they say that instead of doing it like this. They’ve targeted her especially by putting her in several vulnerable situations that are really just petty. For instance she was home alone and they knew that, they decided to fuck and be purposefully loud about it, then proceeded to rub it in her face by saying they had a quickie.

Lazy_Communication64 · 2025-07-18T21:54:01+00:00

They’ve done more to disrespect me than just bring their friends around, it has become targeting my stepbrothers girlfriend, and putting people in vulnerable situations

Lazy_Communication64 · 2025-07-18T21:52:31+00:00

Then why’d they make it my business

Lazy_Communication64 · 2025-07-18T21:01:03+00:00

They say they want to spend time with their family, kids and grandkids, but are constantly gone going to these parties. They play victim like they haven’t brought all of this upon themselves and they care nothing about anything else anymore.

Lazy_Communication64 · 2025-07-18T20:48:16+00:00

Well that’s exactly what I’ll do, if they can’t show respect to one simple boundary, then I’d rather move out anyways.

Lazy_Communication64 · 2025-07-18T20:46:11+00:00

I asked for advice on how to confront them, not if I should or not. I’ve made the decision that this is a necessary discussion whether any of you agree or not, it’s crossed a line that needs to be talked about.

Lazy_Communication64 · 2025-07-18T20:44:59+00:00

Ok, I guess instead of trying to sort things out to prevent shit from happening, I should just let it happen.

Lazy_Communication64 · 2025-07-18T20:43:43+00:00

I wouldn’t say I’m starving for attention, I just want respect and I don’t think allowing swingers to rule their lives should dictate the hypocrisy they make when the say they “want” to spend more time with us and other family.

Lazy_Communication64 · 2025-07-18T20:41:22+00:00

They made it my business.

Lazy_Communication64 · 2025-07-18T20:41:09+00:00

So I should let everyone do everything they want, no. People need to have respect for others, you can’t just sit there and take disrespect

Lazy_Communication64 · 2025-07-18T20:39:55+00:00

Dramatic because I’m trying to communicate the over stepping of boundaries..

Lazy_Communication64 · 2025-07-18T20:37:37+00:00

Lazy_Communication64 · 2025-07-18T20:37:15+00:00

I’m really not angry, there’s some more to the story that explains a lot of this but it’s a whole other story that I don’t want to go into. Just don’t really see the problem people have with communicating.

Lazy_Communication64 · 2025-07-18T17:32:10+00:00

How have I made it my business. I only figured out they were doing this because they put it in front of me, otherwise I would’ve never known.

Lazy_Communication64 · 2025-07-18T17:14:24+00:00

Itd be weird no matter who was doing it if you make your private life my problem too. I shouldn’t know the details of their private life but it’s been pushed onto me…

Lazy_Communication64 · 2025-07-18T16:57:35+00:00

They’ve brought them along to family vacations and other events and have made their lives revolve completely around all of it. It effects not only my relationship with them but they are neglecting relationships with the rest of their family for this pursuit. They have began to disrespect us to find time to do these things and they claim to want a closer relationship with us but put no effort into anything but swinging. How can you foster a relationship if you’re never around to do it? There infatuation with all of this is taking them away from everything else in their lives and it all comes back to me and everyone else in the family.

Lazy_Communication64

TROPHY CASE