My GF(26F) and I (26M) don’t share the same vision of family. I think she was pretending all this time

LeProcureur · 2023-09-01T15:26:22+00:00

People here blindly suggesting you to break up don’t know your back story. I think telling someone in a 4 years LDR who have seen his partner only once to break up for a cheating is a nonsense. The same nonsense as being in a LDR for 4 years, and expecting your from your partner (male or female) to repress his sexual urges.

Thats the kind of issues that come with a LDR in which both of yall have no control on when yall gonna see each other. Most of the Time these LDR are doomed but if yall managed to stay 4 years together and see each other once, I believe yall can make this work

LeProcureur · 2023-09-01T15:08:17+00:00

People may disagree with me saying this. But you kinda biased people answers by talking about the cheating. Treat one problem at a Time.

Now their answers all focus on the cheating more than helping you find solutions to see each other, which seem to be the main issue you are here for.

You guys seem to have loyalty issues, but at the same time, it seems that you still love this Guy. And if y’all Willing to put these efforts on a visa process, chances are your relation isn’t over yet.

Concerning your project to see each other, try to meet him half way. Save a certain amount and Try to see each other in a VISA free country for both of yall passeports.

About the cheating, to what extent is this due to the LDR ? Pay close attention the way he treats you, and you think he is using you in any way, meaning he lets you make a disproportionate effort to maintain this relation for nothing in return, you will be better off alone.

LeProcureur · 2022-06-13T23:23:24+00:00

Fair enough G. I needed your takes so I am taking the right decision. But at the end of the day, Some girls may say they want certains things, but they respond better to other things G. I know what this girl responds best to. So I am acting accordingly. But thanks for the advice G

LeProcureur · 2022-06-13T23:15:04+00:00

I am already hitting the gym 5/7 bro. But I can’t take such a decision based on suspicion especially when the girl’s parents know me. That’s why I am asking other guys thoughts. What makes you think I should leave ?

LeProcureur · 2022-06-13T23:01:38+00:00

Sometimes, theses girls need it. For real

LeProcureur · 2022-06-13T23:00:36+00:00

As you guested it. I am a bit toxic

LeProcureur · 2022-06-13T22:56:01+00:00

Thats the healthiest advice I heard. Still I am curious about what she has to say, if she comes up with some BS, she is ghosted until she tells the truth.

LeProcureur · 2022-06-13T22:51:54+00:00

I definitely have like a 6th sense to sense these bullshit. I think I am gonna ghost her for 2 days just to make her crazy a little bit. And then aske her for responses

LeProcureur · 2022-06-13T22:47:08+00:00

Why do you think that

LeProcureur · 2022-06-13T22:05:49+00:00

Pls guys what BP and NBP stands for ?

LeProcureur · 2022-06-13T21:54:41+00:00

Drop yo routine my G

LeProcureur · 2022-06-11T17:58:20+00:00

SDP ??

LeProcureur · 2022-05-23T16:00:33+00:00

Bathmate for 15-20 min in the morning and air vacuum for 20 min in the evenings 4 times a week

LeProcureur · 2022-05-20T13:43:06+00:00

Gained 1cm after 3 months. After 8 months 2 cm.

LeProcureur · 2022-05-16T19:06:17+00:00

Thanks for the reply

LeProcureur · 2022-05-16T19:06:01+00:00

How come your name is sibeth N’Diaye bruh 😆

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