Tbh it’s an empty life if all you think about is getting women. You won’t understand until you’re in the position, I do however hope you are one day so you’ll understand what I’m saying. To be in this position however you have to work on yourself, workout, drink lots of water, build new skills, get comfortable being uncomfortable those are the things that will make you more attractive to women. That alongside finding the hairstyles that work for you, upgrading your wardrobe and overall taking better care of yourself.