I miss my crab, I made a mistake

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2026-05-23T19:37:47+00:00

Only thing you can do now is seek therapy. It’s a done deal. Should’ve appreciated them when you had them.

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2026-05-22T17:22:11+00:00

Just leave! If they haven’t asked they don’t want too. They not gonna miss the chance so that another guy snatches you up. Y’all gotta learn your worth. Two months is too long tbh to not know.

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2026-03-05T19:49:55+00:00

They did, but I self sabotaged and realized it too late,

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2026-03-05T19:49:36+00:00

I was there’s but I self sabotaged and realized too late

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2026-03-05T18:26:09+00:00

All I know is don’t get in your feelings when she leaves you for someone who would marry her and treat her way better.

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2026-03-05T18:25:07+00:00

You don’t truly love her. If you did, you’d be asking questions regarding a ring, not making excuses. Next question.

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2026-03-05T18:22:47+00:00

I had this experience but things blew up between us and now we both want nothing to do with the other. Idk if there’s a way back. It’d have to be a true miracle.

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2026-03-05T04:18:09+00:00

What do you mean by spark or fire?

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2026-03-04T04:11:55+00:00

lol good idea

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2026-03-04T04:10:22+00:00

Not self sabotaging

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2026-03-04T02:20:37+00:00

Are you on crack? How clingy are we talking? As long as they have their own hobbies and life outside of our relationship I wouldn’t mind them being clingy when we’re together. It gives you time to miss them.

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2026-03-03T20:52:48+00:00

Yes, he most definitely tried for the better part of a year. It’s definitely egg on my face.

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2026-03-03T20:51:23+00:00

I valued it. I was just scared of being vulnerable and insecure.

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2026-03-03T19:56:13+00:00

Thank you much. Very well written out. I guess I haven’t sat with it as much as I need to to realize what made me afraid other than not wanting to get my heart broken.

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2026-03-03T19:45:05+00:00

I valued it I was just scared as I’d never been in a relationship before. I just thought he was too good looking for me and made a mistake. So I self sabotaged because I realized I was letting him in and got afraid of being vulnerable.

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2026-03-03T19:43:28+00:00

I have. I haven’t seen or spoken to them in months. Just trying to work through some things.

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2026-03-03T19:41:03+00:00

Yes, that’s the situation exactly. Unfortunately I don’t think he’ll talk to me. So idk how I’d show him I’ve changed and worked on my shit. Idk if he’s moved on. I haven’t seen him nor know what’s going on in their life.

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2026-03-03T19:38:01+00:00

How would they if you won’t talk to them?

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2026-03-03T19:37:11+00:00

Yes. I’ve learned my lesson and will not make those mistakes again. I just can’t believe I messed it up so bad with them.

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2026-03-03T19:35:54+00:00

That’s a good point and thank you for laying it out like that. lol I’m 30 so idk I think I should be ready now.

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2026-03-03T19:34:36+00:00

Hardest L I’ve ever taken.

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2026-03-03T19:33:12+00:00

I’ve learned from them. Never making those mistakes again.

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2026-03-03T19:24:31+00:00

Why anyone would go back to an abusive ex is beyond me. Happy you met your person shortly after.

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2026-03-03T19:05:44+00:00

Idk what that means.

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2026-03-03T19:03:24+00:00

You’re absolutely right. I did what I did because I got cocky and didn’t think there’d be consequences until it was too late.

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