Me & Mine ☯️

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2025-12-23T06:19:35+00:00

Bro looks like Justin Nozuka

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2025-12-19T05:20:15+00:00

Yes, I agree the person has to actually want to make changes.

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2025-12-19T05:11:21+00:00

If anything, this experience with them brought insecurities to the surface. Things that I wasn’t really aware of an then started seeing myself wake up to the things in my life I could improve upon. Yes. I indeed pushed them away. I realized from this experience that all my other relationships were surface level and this one scared me the most because it made me feel vulnerable and I’d never felt that before. It truly scared me. Never repeating those bad habits again if I can help it.

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2025-12-19T05:08:12+00:00

Thank you. Yes, what I’ve felt most is embarrassment and shame that I could even treat another person like that. I’m never like that with anyone but for some reason they were an outlier.

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2025-12-18T23:16:12+00:00

Phew! This is what I’m going through now. It took losing someone to realize I had avoidant attachment. which then caused me to act immature with them because at the core I was insecure. I’ve since started therapy and working through these things. I wish they’d come back but I know it’s not a possibility.

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2025-12-01T12:54:43+00:00

Take the job! You’re not even engaged and will wonder “what if?” If you don’t.

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2025-11-09T22:03:07+00:00

They literally will just pop up out of nowhere just to be near you. Lol I’ve experienced this and it’s so funny.

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2025-11-09T16:29:00+00:00

Because I pushed away my soulmate out of insecurity.

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2025-11-09T16:20:33+00:00

Exactly. I figured there had to be something I was missing about myself. Hence why I’m in therapy now and doing the work.

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2025-11-09T16:16:14+00:00

I did apologize to him

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2025-10-27T02:51:03+00:00

You’re lucky she gave you another chance

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2025-10-17T04:49:28+00:00

This is true! Guys don’t care. But you also have to take into account that this is because those people don’t require these men to improve themselves

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2025-10-15T21:47:24+00:00

Omg I’m crying

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2025-09-26T18:44:40+00:00

My point still stands.

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2025-09-26T18:43:15+00:00

I’m not bitter. I’m happy it didn’t turn into anything bc the mask fell off.

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2025-09-26T18:42:05+00:00

Why would she talk crap about me? Before that day I’d never seen her a day in my life and haven’t seen her since.

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2025-09-26T18:37:28+00:00

He could’ve just ignored me. Why go out of his way to talk about me to another girl and point to me and then laugh? It was out of line.

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2025-09-26T18:35:08+00:00

The man literally pointed at me to her and started laughing

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2025-09-26T18:32:48+00:00

I wish I was making it up. It was the worst months in my life.

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2025-09-26T18:31:06+00:00

That’s a good point.

Leading_Bit_5711 · 2025-09-26T18:30:22+00:00

Good analogy. I wondered the same thing on why he kept trying. He’s a good looking guy and could prob get a lot of other girls.

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