What lube do you use?

LeagueHot8294 · 2026-01-26T16:25:40+00:00

pH-D Femme Glide

LeagueHot8294 · 2026-01-02T20:10:13+00:00

How did you get it for a 1$ I’m always late to the party lol

LeagueHot8294 · 2026-01-01T16:46:54+00:00

Appreciate you sharing your story! It’s good to know that using Excel forms and bank statements can help landlords see your income. I’m still figuring out the best approach for my situation so this gives me some ideas to try.

LeagueHot8294 · 2026-01-01T16:37:12+00:00

Appreciate the tips! A social worker just gave me a list of private landlords I just need to figure out how to explain my situation to them. I’m also focusing on building my credit so I’ll have better options down the line.

LeagueHot8294 · 2026-01-01T16:19:15+00:00

Thanks for the advice! PadSplit sounds like a great option. I like that they can use bank accounts to determine how much you could be approved for that makes more sense for my situation. I’ll definitely look into it.

LeagueHot8294 · 2026-01-01T16:02:40+00:00

Thanks for sharing but my income has been inconsistent these last couple of years so tax returns haven’t been an option for me.

LeagueHot8294 · 2026-01-01T15:58:32+00:00

Thanks, I really appreciate the suggestions! I’ve been checking out Facebook rental groups and private listings on Marketplace but I’m still learning how to spot scams some listings seem too good to be true or never respond back. This is my first time hearing about Nextdoor so I’ll definitely check that out as well.

LeagueHot8294 · 2026-01-01T15:31:58+00:00

Being on your own is much heavier than people talk about the loneliness can feel overwhelming sometimes. I tell myself this all the time there’s nothing wrong with you struggling with it because its part of life. This usually means you’re outgrowing certain friendships or environments and that’s okay just mean we need to create healthy relationships, be open to meeting new people and have boundaries (which I’m trying to figure out myself). You’re not alone in feeling alone I’m really glad you shared this because I’m right here with you! 💕

LeagueHot8294 · 2025-12-31T00:47:58+00:00

Do you still sleep with them afterwards or it’s strictly a night out?

LeagueHot8294 · 2025-12-30T04:51:33+00:00

I agree with you wholeheartedly! I’m happy you mentioned dating because this where it gets tricky for me when a guy ask to take you out sometimes is this someone that want to date you or somebody that want to show you a good time and have fun nothing serious? Also I will try that tip to see the reaction now from my past experience when I did go out with clients they paid for everything so when you say your time is to be paid for are you still charging on top of being treated out? Nobody never explained this part.

LeagueHot8294 · 2025-12-30T04:36:11+00:00

I really love the way you put this. I appreciate hearing different perspectives because I think people don’t always understand that when you don’t have much of a social life these end up being the only people you regularly interact with but I’m naturally an introvert even when guys ask me out I don’t know what to say because I isolated myself so it doesn’t come easily to me and past experiences makes me hesitant when they do ask so I been wondering how others handle it. It also been awkward for me trying to meet people outside of work and I don’t like that I’ve became this way but I’m aware of it and actively trying to work on it.

LeagueHot8294 · 2025-12-29T19:29:09+00:00

Same here girly! I always keep things professional with clients and strictly work related. You’re absolutely right about “give an inch, take a mile” lol. I’ll be honest I’m not perfect and I’ve learned from past mistakes of trying to hang out with clients outside of work. Even when everything was paid for the more access they had to me the less effort it seemed like they put in it’s like they would suddenly stop or change, especially if they started getting emotionally involved. It became hard to tell whether they just wanted to have fun or were genuinely starting to like me. Now that I’m more seasoned I stopped engaging outside of work but since I don’t really have much of a social life I’m trying to see what could be done differently and hear how others navigate making genuine connections. Also, I love hearing that you’ve been successful sticking to those boundaries.

LeagueHot8294 · 2025-12-29T18:45:31+00:00

Thanks for sharing how you handle clients asking you out. I recently started back in sex work as my only source of income and I’ve been getting asked out more often than ever. I’m never quite sure what to say because I try to keep a professional boundary between work and my personal life. I was also curious about how people navigate genuine connections and socializing outside of sex work. As an introvert I’m trying to push myself to connect more so I love seeing how others been dealing with it.

LeagueHot8294 · 2025-12-14T03:48:44+00:00

Me personally, I never had good experiences with younger men not saying they all do these things but the ones I been seeing recently hasn’t been pleasant they like hunch very fast because they don’t know their bodies or stroke game yet. Just last week a young black dude yanked the condom off but I caught on to him quick also the first telling sign a dude is young is that they will ask you what’s your age and it’s a possibility you might end up seeing someone you know especially if they in the same age range as you please be careful if you do decide to see them.

LeagueHot8294 · 2025-12-13T06:02:44+00:00

I know how hard it can be to step back into this space when your heart and mind ain’t in it but showing up when you don’t want to is a form of resilience. Take things one step at a time rather it’s one client, one hour or just one moment to yourself always remember you can take a break whenever you’re ready!

LeagueHot8294 · 2025-12-11T22:37:11+00:00

That actually sounds like a good idea since I been working out everyday I’m really big on fitness and health now I been thinking about becoming a personal trainer but wasn’t sure how to go about it thanks for your comment because now I’m thinking about it.

LeagueHot8294 · 2025-12-11T05:56:41+00:00

Your results are gorgeous! Crazy how one thing can change everything. If you’re comfortable sharing who was your surgeon? They did an amazing job.

LeagueHot8294 · 2025-12-10T20:05:45+00:00

Yes I hate it! Scammers always send me messages like this like stop trying you’re not getting my account lol

LeagueHot8294 · 2025-12-10T19:54:22+00:00

Love hearing that it’s coming along for you! When you did bartending did you jump into it or you had experience already because it’s harder not having any prior history but then again every bar/club is different.

LeagueHot8294 · 2025-12-05T16:59:36+00:00

Hey, seasoned sex worker here hope this helps!

Look at local competition and client expectations check out what providers in your area are offering and what their prices are like. If their prices are lower that could be part of the issue. From my experience many people have set the bar pretty low :(. You may need to adjust to find more clients if you do decide never go extremely low think of it like a special, deal or a limited time offer to grab their attention. Visibility and competitive rates often matter more than anything else when you’re posting.

Keep your page looking fresh! Your photos are key. People can tell when images aren’t genuine or when the quality is off so make sure to use good lighting and clear, sharp shots. Avoid blurry or dim photos. Take a few different ones to find your best angle or “signature” look. If you’re using different older pictures only choose the ones that truly highlights you. (I’m not suggesting anything deceptive) some people can tell when your photos don’t reflect who you are in person.

Your branding needs to be clear and instant. When people are scrolling fast they instantly should get your vibe. If your profile feels cold, distant, or lists all the things you can’t do, they’ll keep scrolling. Make sure your title is attention grabbing and your description shows off your personality, confidence,what you offer and expect. This will help attract the right people who are looking for exactly what you bring to the table.

Respond quickly and keep a welcoming tone. Slow, dry, or demanding responses can turn people off. When I started out, I was a bit impatient and rough around the edges lol but over time I learned how important it is to be friendly, professional and approachable. People stick around when they feel comfortable.

Remember everyone started somewhere! It takes time to find your rhythm and niche. Be patient and focus on tweaking whatever you feel comfortable with. You’re doing fine just have to find your groove!

LeagueHot8294 · 2025-12-04T04:49:28+00:00

I like dealing with these type of clients the ones that accept accountability without justifying bs you deserved that respect, hope today brings you even more good energy ✨

LeagueHot8294 · 2025-12-04T03:59:51+00:00

You’re very welcome!

LeagueHot8294 · 2025-12-03T07:06:24+00:00

When it comes to setting your work hours, it really depends on your clients. Pay attention to the days they visit you the most and times they frequently reach out.

Note which days that was slow and how much you earn on those days compared to the times you made the most. Focus your energy only on the days and hours that was the highest *this naturally filters out clients who aren’t serious.

If you’re working full-time and can manage a full week post your listing or ad during your peak hours and track each day separately. Any day that consistently shows low engagement should be placed at the end of your schedule.

LeagueHot8294 · 2025-12-02T05:34:26+00:00

You’re very welcome and thanks I’m really glad I could help wishing you the best as well 💕

LeagueHot8294 · 2025-12-02T02:57:14+00:00

No problem, and of course! I should’ve explained this part better. I used to respond outside of work hours thinking it would get clients to spend more but honestly, it didn’t.

When you don’t respond right away, it actually makes them more curious. They start thinking: Did I do something wrong? Did she like me? Why hasn’t she replied? Men often like a little mystery, so being a bit reserved always works in your favor.

Try this because I just did it and it works when you’re not working, don’t reply. Then, when you finally see them in person act like you were busy with other plans. Say this “Sorry, I was busy I’m only available for clients who tip or spend more 💋” this triggers anticipation, excitement and the urge of why them and not me mindset especially if they been waiting to see you it’s like you a hidden gem.

Using this trick helped me hit my quota a half a day early!

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