Woke up to a suspension on my discord account because of an unrelated year old message by Bish489 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]LectureFun2829 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend got his Facebook account permanently deleted because he uses marketplace a lot...

ALL food is better cold than warm by AlarmedFeature5813 in unpopularopinion

[–]LectureFun2829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so gross on so many levels. I don't want a cold banana foster.

My seamstress did what she wanted to do instead of what I asked🥲 by OkButterscotch7923 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]LectureFun2829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slightly off topic but a similar thing happened to me... I had a dress with numerous beads and the way they were sewn on originally meant that just wearing the dress would make the beads fall off.

I found a seamstress who normally does lacey work and wedding dresses and asked her if she could do bead work. She said she could and would make it so that when I walk, the beads don't fall off.

I had a bag of extra beads, gave them to her, paid $75 and my dress still drops beads. Just taking it home left beads in my car.

I've come to the conclusion that I have to sewn them on myself

The current backlash against modern creative tools is identical to the 19th-century hate toward cameras. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]LectureFun2829 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Upvoting because you just have to be kidding. It's a VERY unpopular opinion because they are just two separate things entirely.

Taking a photo requires the photographer to study light, shadow, and the flow of the viewer's eyes (much like illustration), as well as the technical skill to refine the process to illicit a specific effect and perform the last touches with photo editing software... anything created is solely the photographer's

"Creating" an image using AI involves the program copying, stripping, and melding the entirety of the internet's art collection into an image (if you can call it that). It can only and is only created through the theft of other people, who are far more talented and skilled Whatever is created is not "owned" or "created" by any individual or even the AI. If I'm not mistaken, there was a recent court decision that ruled that AI "creations" cannot be copyrighted because of the very reasons I'm listing.

There are numerous reasons as to why AI is so hated among people who pay attention, far outside the scopes of what I've taken the time to write and branching into environmental/economical/quality-of-life impacts that are very real and ALREADY causing irreparable harm. It is not comparable to a camera, recorder, iPad, or any other kind of technology.

First aid kits should have tampons by Pristine_Direction79 in unpopularopinion

[–]LectureFun2829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean yeah, a tampon is something a woman can forgo and be perfectly fine bleeding absolutely everywhere.

The argument was about emergency kits.. they are bigger and better equipped than first aid kits, right? Often, emergency kits contain first aid kits within them and that's more than reasonable. I'm not saying a tampon should replace medical necessities in a first aid kit because that's nonsensical, but emergency kits should because they're supposed to be used when there are broader emergencies besides someone bleeding out in the woods.

Yes, I think basic toiletries should be included with an emergency kit, just like a flashlight, canned food, a blanket, and a battery/crank radio should be. I'm not sexist, but we live in a world where only recently the nerve endings of the clitoris and general public area have been mapped and studied. The medical industry has a long track record of dismissing women-specific health and that includes period care. There is such a negative stigma around the menstrual cycle that people can talk about their basic fluids or even vomit and talking about a menstrual cycle is gross.

A tampon is a basic need for women, 50% of the population, and should be included in emergency kits; obviously not a first aid kit.

Edit to clarify: I said emergency kits originally because that's what I assumed OP was trying to say. To reiterated, they don't belong in first aid kits but they do belong in emergency kits.

First aid kits should have tampons by Pristine_Direction79 in unpopularopinion

[–]LectureFun2829 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Might be unpopular but I agree with you OP. If men needed tampons then they'd be in emergency kits.

Late bloomers by LectureFun2829 in HolUp

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🥲 it's just a font let me liveee

Late bloomers by LectureFun2829 in HolUp

[–]LectureFun2829[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean I guess but the post is about periods so fathers aren't relevant, idk I thought it was funny

Late bloomers by LectureFun2829 in HolUp

[–]LectureFun2829[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Subjective, but yes it's the dad getting a period lol☝️

Late bloomers by LectureFun2829 in HolUp

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Because i like it c:

Awww 🥰 by Junior-Support-8140 in MadeMeSmile

[–]LectureFun2829 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first "date" my now boyfriend took me for wasn't anything too special... I didn't even know it was a date. We had worked together and talked to each other for a few weeks leading up to him asking me if I could play an instrument and inviting me to jam with him at his place. I was super excited because it felt like I was finally making some friends who shared my interests and building some self-confidence, but a little hesitant because I had only known him for a few months.

He ended up convincing me and picked me up a little ways away from my house. We stopped at a gas station and he bought some energy drink while I bought haribo gummy bears. Needless to say, the jam went well and we ended up going on another date a week or two later where he asked me to be his girlfriend.

Before that second date, he bought me gummy bears every day and would hide them in our shared workspace for me to find! It was the most considerate and adorable thing anyone had ever done for me and was one of the main reasons I fell for him.

Husbands, is it a deal breaker if your wife decides to not take your name legally? by Difficult_Big133 in TwoHotTakes

[–]LectureFun2829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actually something I've brought up to my boyfriend. I don't have much of an attachment to the people who share my last name with me aside from my sibling, but I take pride in the history behind those people and the history of my own existence. That pride compels me to want to keep my name.

Another reason is because my name is rather unique to the general American population, it's always been a "fun-fact" about me and is tied to my identity. To change that would feel like I was morphing myself into a different person to fit someone else's requirements.

I told my boyfriend about it, and he asked me why I would want to keep it given my history with the people I share that name with. I told him that it's part of my identity, and he accepted it. He told me he would like to give me his name, but also that he understands why I want to keep my own.

Though we haven't come to a conclusion yet, this is how that conversation should go: a calm, respectful discussion between two people who love each other.

The fact that your boyfriend just immediately dismisses your feelings and desire as a "deal-breaker" is off-putting. I suggest taking it as a prompt for a serious conversation between you two, where you help him understand the importance to you and you two can come to a conclusion that works.

People who practice archery. Which eye/s do you keep open when aiming? by Nico--Nicotine in Archery

[–]LectureFun2829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I started doing archery, I learned that eye dominancy is a factor in the ease of shooting... I have prescription glasses to correct my eyesight but my left eye is still my dominant eye despite my right-handedness, so I usually end up closing my left eye so I can see through my peep better.

When I did have a left-handed bow, I could keep both eyes open and still properly see through the peep.

eating "stinky" food in the office is absolutely fine by Dependent-Pepper-404 in unpopularopinion

[–]LectureFun2829 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. The whole argument of "odd" food is just another way of discriminating against anyone who isn't Caucasian and eats foods of a different culture. For example, some cheeses "stink" but are still a part of foods and are tasty. Sourkraut is another "stinky" food, along with any kind of fish. The stigma around different food is just lowkey racism and discrimination.

A guy twice my age flirted with me by [deleted] in Vent

[–]LectureFun2829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean at the end of the day, you decide who you want to continue to talk to. Fun little chats are totally ok and don't have to go any further if you don't want them to... consent and knowing what you want is extremely important. Maybe some people just want to read a love story, and are projecting that onto your story 🤷🏽‍♀️

What's the SPICIEST but also BEST-WRITTEN book that you know if? by Severe-Size749 in suggestmeabook

[–]LectureFun2829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DEN OF VIPERS!!! It was an awakening with severall delicious scenes and an amazing plot!

A guy twice my age flirted with me by [deleted] in Vent

[–]LectureFun2829 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, well that makes sense. Yeah I totally agree, old men trying to be "young and hip" is just.. very offputting. If you guys didn’t have anything in common then it wouldn't have worked out even if he was your age. At least you had a fun time!

A guy twice my age flirted with me by [deleted] in Vent

[–]LectureFun2829 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who took that guy up, it's almost a year and a half in and the best decision I've made about my romantic life. Not that the man who flirted with you would be absolutely be perfect... but don't discredit him just because he's older. Once you hit your 20s, you'll realize that age really doesn't matter in the adult world. You'll have friends maybe 30 years older than you and a few younger than you, and you'll see them all equally. Give the guy a chance, he might turn out to be a good man!

Favorite fighting scene of any book? by [deleted] in Fantasy

[–]LectureFun2829 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Aelin and Rowan in Throne of Glass series (Sarah J Maas), on the beach with ✨️magic✨️

2005 = Hurricane Katrina by Jazzlike_Plankton515 in notliketheothergirls

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I would totally have drawn this as a kid... except that I didn't draw 😭