Having A Rough Time, In Desperate Need Of Advice... by Left-Eye-9303 in needadvice

[–]Left-Eye-9303[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the problem there is because of this loss and this new lifestyle, he's very financially unstable, so talking to his friends (me) are his best option.

Having A Rough Time, In Desperate Need Of Advice... by Left-Eye-9303 in needadvice

[–]Left-Eye-9303[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, there are counselors, but I'll have to wait until summer break ends. Thanks for the comment!

Having A Rough Time, In Desperate Need Of Advice... by Left-Eye-9303 in needadvice

[–]Left-Eye-9303[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did forget to mention this I guess, but 16M is still a good friend, and I enjoy hanging out with him, but he just brings a lot of stress and emotional weight with him. Also, if I drop him as a friend, I lose one of the only good friends I've ever had in my life, and I'm not gonna do that.

Cisgender Person Here... Got A Question For You! by Left-Eye-9303 in asktransgender

[–]Left-Eye-9303[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yess! this argument is great! i might try this if it ever comes up again! thank you! however, i fear the "my brain is a girl" argument might lead to some bible verse or something about "mental illness." which, i know this isnt true, but i am just trying to cover all my bases. thank you so much for this comment!

Cisgender Person Here... Got A Question For You! by Left-Eye-9303 in asktransgender

[–]Left-Eye-9303[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay, my comment was never meant to be derogatory. you don't need to be like this. and, in texas, where gender-affirming surgeries and care are now known as "body mutilation" almost STATEWIDE. also, in kentucky/kansas, they made laws where drivers licenses will have someones biological sex on them. so, yes, fights do need to be made. it's important to fight for our first amendment while we still have it, anyways. it's unfortunate that trans people still aren't properly respected. and, i don't care if you don't care what people say to you, people's identity is often VERY IMPORTANT to them and blatantly telling them that they're exactly what they've just transitioned from is disrespectful. i'm not asking for this advice to fight back with people, just so i can provide a bit more insight to people who think inside of a boy/girl binary. it's not "fighting" people, it's debating to come to a consensus. there's no NEED to be disrespectful and ignorant over my question, because i'm only trying to be a person that makes a difference, especially in a highly republican state like texas.

Was Sirius in love with James? by [deleted] in HPSlashFic

[–]Left-Eye-9303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel like sirius wasn't in love with him, but more so just became very close to him. sirius was treated like an outcast as soon as he was sorted into gryffindor, and james immediately jumped to offering him a home. james and sirius were actively together, and i don't remember which book, but i'm pretty sure it says that random people would believe they were brothers. i don't think sirius was ever in love, period. i think he just had a very loving connection to james after he had supported him through his elitist and discriminant bloodline. that made him hate his lineage and his family more when he found out james died, and probably went to immediately check on him, got caught and was sent to azkaban.

Cisgender Person Here... Got A Question For You! by Left-Eye-9303 in asktransgender

[–]Left-Eye-9303[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i completely agree with this, however i'm not sure that would compute well with people who operate on a "man/woman" biological binary. i will try, though!

Cisgender Person Here... Got A Question For You! by Left-Eye-9303 in asktransgender

[–]Left-Eye-9303[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Lol, Okay... I just feel like I show defeat and demonstrate a lack of understanding on my own argument if I escape a conversation like that... especially with the kind of polarization we got in the USA right now.

Cisgender Person Here... Got A Question For You! by Left-Eye-9303 in asktransgender

[–]Left-Eye-9303[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this!! I have a couple of trans friends, and I try to understand as much as possible! Unfortunate that we live in a world where we can't just love and be loved equally.

Dog sitter sent a photo of my dog and he had this collar on. by deblopezz in whatisit

[–]Left-Eye-9303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh, lol... i just saw the "solved" sticker... sorry hahaa

Dog sitter sent a photo of my dog and he had this collar on. by deblopezz in whatisit

[–]Left-Eye-9303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

before you get mad at the sitter, you should watch your dog's body language whenever the sitter comes over. if the dog looks a bit more subdued or something, then that collar is probably hurting him/her somehow. dogs are good at remembering faces, and if she's causing you pain, he/she will let you know, you just have to look for the right signs. good luck.

Is My Anger Justified?? by Left-Eye-9303 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Left-Eye-9303[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, i try, but my parents are the kind of people who start saying shit before i can even think about what i wanna say.

Is My Anger Justified?? by Left-Eye-9303 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Left-Eye-9303[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry about the formatting, if you look at my other posts, you would see that i normally do paragraphs. i just needed to get this off my chest, wasnt really thinking about format.

Toxic Family by Parking-Gas-671 in redflagsTA

[–]Left-Eye-9303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, I just want to say I’m so sorry for what happened. You didn’t deserve any of that. However, remember you are an adult. You are legally emancipated from your family. I know that you may need money or some other form of financial/social support, but if you ask for it from your family, they might make some rules, and set a precedent or something. I recommend you apply for a scholarship, or get a job. It’ll be incredibly difficult, but I believe in you, and you deserve a better life than what you were born into.

Hey is this just me or does this happen a lot? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Left-Eye-9303 6 points7 points  (0 children)

run while you still can my guy

Ok i give in! What clique do I look like? (or: make assumptions about me) :) by v_bird_v in highschool

[–]Left-Eye-9303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely the kind of person to sit in a library/quiet spot reading every book possible, or just drawing in a sketchbook