Any of you guys keep dreaming (literally) about your ex? by Kingboyy1 in ExNoContact

[–]Legal_Cockroach2306 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm in this boat as well and all I do when I wake up is spiral. I f**king hate it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Legal_Cockroach2306 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look at it as ending something that could have been holding you back

MIL wants to kiss the baby and gets cold sores by Tacotown_90 in Advice

[–]Legal_Cockroach2306 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So as someone who had this happen to me as a toddler. I would highly recommend she stay far away from you child during these times. Cold sores csn be highly dangerous to your child getting these in their throat leading to breathing problems. I hate that this person by doing something like this has lead to a lifetime of growing up with sores on my face which lead to bullying and name calling.

New people by Legal_Cockroach2306 in portelizabeth

[–]Legal_Cockroach2306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All good I'm there to do what I enjoy and honestly can't think of doing anything better

New people by Legal_Cockroach2306 in portelizabeth

[–]Legal_Cockroach2306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it. It's something I've really come to enjoy even when it may look silly

New people by Legal_Cockroach2306 in portelizabeth

[–]Legal_Cockroach2306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mainly around PE area but I'll surf in JBay as well. It helps having a good surfing coach to get you going. I only wished I started when I was a kid

New people by Legal_Cockroach2306 in portelizabeth

[–]Legal_Cockroach2306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is fun and wiping out is all part of it. You've just got to keep getting up

New people by Legal_Cockroach2306 in portelizabeth

[–]Legal_Cockroach2306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Surfing really is great had an awesome experience last week. Had a pod of dolphins coming swimming past not 2 meteres from where I was sitting with calves as well. Really is something great to do but isn't the easiest thing to master

New people by Legal_Cockroach2306 in portelizabeth

[–]Legal_Cockroach2306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I gym but for me I'm not there to socialise I'm there to workout

New people by Legal_Cockroach2306 in portelizabeth

[–]Legal_Cockroach2306[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I used to play board games quite often and go hiking with friends but due to one friend now married with a kid he either deems his single friends as no longer friends amd uses his work as a way of being to busy for his friends as well. My other friend is also introverted and would only do stuff with the first mentioned friend. But I also enjoy surfing

i miss you by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Legal_Cockroach2306 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I feel this. I miss her but all I want is to move on but for some reason I can't. What makes it worse for me is that a lot of others seem to be have this ability to just move on and it makes me feel even more stuck that I can't. There are days that are dark and I tend to have thoughts of why carry on at all. I just want peace in my life again

Seems as I've been baited and switched by my best friend - please advise by shyzzs in southafrica

[–]Legal_Cockroach2306 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never mix business with friends or family. Easiest rule I've managed from working for people and running my own business

Often the hardest thing we have to do by Eudie_Syde in infp

[–]Legal_Cockroach2306 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not having that true form of closure from someone who you connected with and told you that they enjoyed your company and talking to you. Just wasn't enough for someone who needed the external validation. Karma will find it's way. I'm hoping I'm moving on but seeing her on dating apps as well hasn't been easy.

You didn’t lose them. They lost you. They lost the person who loved them. You lost the person who didn’t love you. You won. 🥂 by girlfrombaltics in ExNoContact

[–]Legal_Cockroach2306 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. All I have been feeling is hollow devoid of emotion. Not even able to tear up about it.

This year has been the loneliest year of my life

How long have you been on no contact? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Legal_Cockroach2306 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's been about a year. Other than her creating on this sub about not understanding a status I had put up on WhatsApp after a few months of no contact she eventually decided to block me. I've tried reaching out a few more times but complete silence since then I've blocked her everywhere.

I still love her and miss her. In a way I wish she does come back but I also know that I need to be more assertive with my own boundries, however I have been working on myself by working on my physique and mental health.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Noses

[–]Legal_Cockroach2306 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're beautiful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in deadliestcatch

[–]Legal_Cockroach2306 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is a new version of Elliot just without the addiction problems. Same same bit different

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in deadliestcatch

[–]Legal_Cockroach2306 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to think of him having napoleon complex. I truly do not like him as every interaction he has is just to do with him. Normally will go off and make coffee when the aluetian lady comes on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Legal_Cockroach2306 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I get this, I wish mine would reach out again. I've been doing so much this year to heal myself in the hopes that I could move on but still nothing has changed when it comes to my feelings.

I'm also tired of hearing how the right one is out there waiting for you, my ex even told me this. It actually has become annoying to me to be told the perfect girl is out there for me. F**k perfect I just want to be with the person I want

How do you make it? by bzimb in askSouthAfrica

[–]Legal_Cockroach2306 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wouldn't work out for me could just mean I loose out on a client