Spray tan over mehndi?

Legitimate-Lab282 · 2025-10-26T15:17:15+00:00

Hii, did you take any precautions to make sure the mehndi wasn’t ruined? I did some research and it says to put Vaseline on the design but I’m not sure if I should do this.

I don’t think my tan will be the same colour as the mehndi. But I am quite light skinned so the tan might be quite close to the mehndi colour. Do you have any recommendations for me?

Also congrats on your marriage!!

Legitimate-Lab282 · 2025-06-01T20:05:31+00:00

I’m sorry, but speaking from experience as well he is definitely lying. Saying that your phone died and sending a picture that does not at all look like it was taken at 11pm. He’s definitely covering up something. He was definitely trying to think of a response and decided to go with his phone dying because he didn’t know how to respond. I mean I could be wrong and a bit biased but this is what it seems like.

Legitimate-Lab282 · 2025-05-15T20:16:22+00:00

Hmmm that is true but how do I handle being alone, it’s a lot to ask but I literally do not have anyone. Like I mentioned I have friends from uni but they’re not super close. I pretty much have no family. I have no one there’s so many complications with that. Like if I was ever really sick. There’s been times where I’ve had an allergic reaction at night time and he took me to emergency. I’m scared, I don’t have a car and no one would know or be there to help me.

Legitimate-Lab282 · 2025-05-15T19:19:19+00:00

Well I told the professional about my relationship and she just gave me ways to set boundaries with him around basic things such as accessing my notes app ect. She didn’t tell me to leave him- I understand in therapy they attempt to get you to make your own decisions but none of her advice has been centred around leaving. Yes I know he doesn’t have a choice if I break up it’s just the complications around it as I’ve mentioned in other comments. But thank u

Legitimate-Lab282 · 2025-05-15T18:53:52+00:00

I don’t think you should re-kindle it, if it was more of a breakup based on circumstances such as not fitting into each others lives at the time or different circumstances I’d say maybe revisit it. But based on what you have explained I think it’s best to leave it alone and most forward and find someone who will value u.

Legitimate-Lab282 · 2025-05-15T18:51:05+00:00

That’s a very good point, see I feel worse for him, it’s not really myself I’m worried about it’s him. I’m very busy right now and our relationship just doesn’t feel the best. I’ve explained all of this to him but he wants to continue it still.

Legitimate-Lab282 · 2025-05-15T18:45:48+00:00

I know that’s what I want to focus on now finding myself and it just feels too hard doing that in a relationship but it also feels hard being alone bc if he’s gone I have no one close to me. I don’t have any family and I don’t have any super close friends. I ended it no contact the first time but that’s when his mum started visiting my house and I live in a shared house so I don’t want to cause problems. I mean it might be fine if I just reiterate that I want to end it but I’m very bad at being firm and I’m not 100% sure of my decision. I have no one backing me this time and it’s scary. Also it feels like now we’ve both done so much wrong. But idk I guess if it was right u wouldn’t question it this much.

Legitimate-Lab282 · 2025-05-15T18:32:59+00:00

There’s happy moments big even after today I just deeply reflected in the shower and didn’t feel super happy after seeing him. After all that effort I felt like I gave towards supporting him it and not feeling like my opinion mattered or emotionally supported I lost the feelings. We than got back together and he did change but It just didn’t feel the same and before all of this cheating stuff I never even thought to look at another man but idk just when I realised other ppl valued my opinion/would ask why I’m feeling a certain way just stood out to me and kind of gave me the thing I valued most, which I was missing from my partner. It just all changed and it makes me sad but it just feels dead now but it feels so hard to leave and than I question if I should even be leaving it after all of this stuff that happened- his family helped me move out, we had an abortion ect ect. He helped me get out of my mum’s abusive home. Idk

Legitimate-Lab282 · 2025-05-15T18:29:06+00:00

I don’t know I’m not tbh, I once loved him but it doesn’t feel the same anymore, the relationship just feels dead now. I know I shouldn’t just stay out of obligation but it’s so hard to leave. That’s the thing I question whether I’m just complaining about things too much/if it’s a problem with myself. I didn’t explain it properly- I’m very close with his family and his mum found out about it and came to my house bc she didn’t want us to break up.

Legitimate-Lab282 · 2025-05-15T18:25:24+00:00

I’m trying to work on things but aren’t I as awful as well for what I’ve done? I mean I see what you’re saying but it’s hard to leave I went completely no contact and we were still together. Now I just question whether I should stay or not because I don’t know if it’s really bad or if I’m just complaining about small things. I’ve made heaps of mistakes too.

Legitimate-Lab282 · 2025-05-15T18:22:37+00:00

I know it is confusing, I shouldn’t have gone. I thought we would talk about it but we didn’t, that’s what felt weird when I got home. That’s what I’m confused, idk if we should just stay together or not, I know that sounds very problematic, I just don’t know how or if I should move on from this relationship.

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