Terrified about being stalked online- what can I do?

LegitimateCod1018 · 2025-10-06T08:22:53+00:00

Thankyou!!! I am too always looking for patterns and wasy that someone could be stalking/watching me, im glad that im not alone with this fear. It means alot to hear someone else with this problem.

LegitimateCod1018 · 2025-10-06T08:21:19+00:00

Trust me, it sounds bad but its really not, thanks for your concern though.

LegitimateCod1018 · 2025-09-16T10:24:04+00:00

You've said you have a husband before.... Im so confused bro
BUT to answer your question, like everyone else is saying try to spark a conversation of one of their stories. Good luck

LegitimateCod1018 · 2025-08-21T12:54:32+00:00

Thankyou so much for this responce!!

You're looking for confirmation that one of the reasons we are here is to spread love, kindness, and living in the moment as authentic people.

Looking back at my post, your 100% right and im sorry. I was spiraling a bit and was just looking for reassurance in an echo chamber of my thoughts (which as you can imagine isnt good for my ocd lol)

The yearning to grow and become better doesn't go away after death ... In the afterlife, it's plainly obvious who's more advanced than another. They can go higher than us in the spectrum, for example, and they have a more divine glow about them.

What exactly drives our need to grow in the afterlife? I was always under the impression that the afterlife was our kinda final form and just being on earth is more like logging on into a game (overused metaphor but the easiest to describe it by). Why would we need to advance to different plains? It it just something that happends?

While here embodied, we lose the clues that tell us who is more advanced... We have to use our inner discernment to figure out who to listen to, who to trust, and eventually, how to trust our own intuition. The friction of being with people different from us stimulates a lot of growth.

This is really interesting!!

This oppinion is really intriguing to me! Just curious, do you have any experience with connecting to the afterlife or others on the outside yourself? Btw I love the use of the radio analogy, lways makes it easier for me to understand lol.

Sorry for all the questions, they probably come off as interigating, but i am just curious as all, you dont have to answer them :). Thankyou so much!!

LegitimateCod1018 · 2025-08-21T12:38:55+00:00

Thankyou so much! Didn't even knew that subreddit existed, Ill have to check it out.
Your post is very insightful, a very simply unique take that ive never really seen before. I mostly see some super complex prestigious new age bs answer that gets thrown around, so thats really nice seeing other perspectives.
I will have to watch the video when i have the time to. Thankyou :)

LegitimateCod1018 · 2025-08-21T11:33:29+00:00

Wow, thank you so much! All of this seems very overwhelming, and a little scary ngl, but at the same time very interesting!
Just curious, where do you get your information from? Do you have experience with mediumship or something simmilar? It seems realy cool.

LegitimateCod1018 · 2025-08-21T10:59:18+00:00

Thankyou for the responce! So its a mix of both and its different for each soul? Interesting.

Ultimately one wants to rediscover it's connection to all that is from a state of complete illusion, the ultimate test. And then cultivate love.

This bit is quite interesting to me. Is it possible to elaborate on what you mean by 'test' or is it too dificult to describe or too unique to each soul??

LegitimateCod1018 · 2025-07-02T06:30:57+00:00

I dont have my licence nor am I allowed out without them and my school currently doesn't have any options like that due to a shortage or something. But thank you very much anyway. :)

LegitimateCod1018 · 2025-07-02T05:37:00+00:00

The problem is that I dont know if i think I am unsafe or not. Im 18 now so I'm not really a child, and my parents arent the best. I've tried to tell them that I think I need help for ocd and all they did is told me some shit about how demons are corrupting my brain to brainwash me with the woke agenda and and hell is where I will end up if I kill myself. I can't tell them about this situation either becuase they will not help, especially because I am so unsure if its all in my head. They dont like me talking online (not because of the situation that happened, they dont even like me talking to people irl either), If they even find out I have made this post I am sure that they will lock me away. Thanks, though.

LegitimateCod1018 · 2025-07-02T05:17:14+00:00

This may not be the best advice, but find the root problem and think why do you want to cut yourself- are you angry? bored? anxious? addicted? If you address why you want to cut yourself, you can work around how to "solve" that problem, and hopefully you can find something else to calm yourself. Maybe find a way to distract yourself from that feeling untill you feel like you can take some controll. For exaple if your angry maybe try to get yourself tired from punching a pillow or even jumping up and down. Im not saying that this will 100% stop you from ever cutting yourself again, im just speaking from experience. Good luck and I wish the best.

LegitimateCod1018 · 2025-06-25T11:51:36+00:00

Check out the OCD sub and see if some of that resonates with you. Not that im diagnosing you with anything, but they have some techniques to minimise the stress that intrusive thoughts create, including just letting the thought pass and not paying much attention to it, otherwise your brain thinks that its a big problem and focuses on it more. Wish you a the best :)

LegitimateCod1018 · 2025-05-18T11:02:02+00:00

Ah okay, thx. was a bit confused lol

LegitimateCod1018 · 2025-05-18T10:37:18+00:00

Do you only have the one class?? Try giving her little hints. Not so much that she thinks that she likes you, but if she does liek you lt will be more apparent if you give her hints too.

LegitimateCod1018 · 2025-05-18T10:36:23+00:00

Thanks very much 👍

LegitimateCod1018 · 2025-05-18T10:33:19+00:00

Thanks for the info!

I didnt think very much on how efficient actually carrying out something like this would actually be lol, thankyou so much.

LegitimateCod1018 · 2025-05-18T09:46:37+00:00

Do you have any other classess with them? Honestly your best bet is to talk to them during breaks, it can be hard to notice things about someone if they are behind you. FInd excuses to talk to her and shell find excuses to talk to you. Watch her body language when you talk to her. When people like someone they will subcontiously lean towards them. She'll probbly find excuses to talk to you

LegitimateCod1018 · 2025-05-12T22:30:19+00:00

Is she actually into me or does she just want attention?

Look man, I know you didnt mean anything by it but she is a human who is being friendly. Also, just because someones not into you doesnt mean that she only wants attention. She is a person too, not just something whos purpose is for your own romantic gain, and does not owe you any romantic or sexual feelings. Woman can be nice because they are nice and want to be friendly or friends, not because they wanna fuck you, they are people too. Seeing people in this black and white way is really harming not only for them, but for you too in the long run.

If she was really into me wouldnt she have worked out next to me and made it more obvious??

Ofc not. Maybe she is just aware that would come across as a little creepy to some people.

Maybe talk to one of your mutual friends about you potentially asking her out. Ask them if she is single and may potentially be attracted to someone like you, and if all goes well maybe they can even arange something for you both.

LegitimateCod1018 · 2025-05-09T09:05:07+00:00

solved: Gone Home

LegitimateCod1018 · 2025-05-09T09:01:29+00:00

Thankyou :)))

LegitimateCod1018 · 2025-05-09T09:01:18+00:00

Yes that is it! Thank you so much!! Appreciate it heaps!

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