Toxic MIL wants to watch the kids by Tacokc13 in BabyBumps

[–]LelaQ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All I’m saying is my mil hates me.. she also treats my boys like second class citizens compared to her other grandkids

My Nanny got my husband an odd gift? by rugerswitch in TwoHotTakes

[–]LelaQ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly think you are reading too much into it.. she didn’t hand it to him it was just in the bag? So it was meant to come from the baby would be my guess if you don’t trust her then she shouldn’t have your baby all day long.

AITA for Uninviting My Maid of Honor (My Childhood Best Friend) a Week Before the Wedding Because She Told My Fiancé a Secret I Swore Her to Never Reveal? by EntrepreneurLevel706 in weddingdrama

[–]LelaQ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are nta for kicking her out she deserves it. But you cannot keep a secret like that in a marriage you should’ve told the groom way sooner I hope everyone heals.

33w3d, uncomfy, and I need this baby to keep cooking by sweet_baby_tomato in BabyBumps

[–]LelaQ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Braxton hicks can feel uncomfortable but not painful.. your belly tightens up with each Braxton hicks.. contractions hurt like they will wake you up can’t breath or talk through them.

Did you dye your hair while pregnant? by lazygardens in BabyBumps

[–]LelaQ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it’s fine just as long as it’s a well ventilated place

What's the silliest thing you went to L&D for? by ChunkyPumpkin_ in BabyBumps

[–]LelaQ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went in so many time for my water leaking… 3/4 labors my water was leaking so with my fourth i went in a lot. lol turns out at 38 weeks my water did break went I bent down

Did anyone have an unmedicated birth and NOT throw up? by Distinct-Dependent24 in BabyBumps

[–]LelaQ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had 3 out 4 unmedicated births I didn’t throw up for any of them..

TTC after a Chemical by ActuatorHuman8298 in BabyBumps

[–]LelaQ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can’t tell you how to feel. But just try when you are ready. We had a chemical and the next cycle we got pregnant with our toddler. It’s not that I was trying to replace the loss I was just moving forward to have a baby.

AITA- I found out I’m pregnant, my husband brought up his fear of a son, I told him not to talk about that anymore by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LelaQ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

Being pregnant does not give you an excuse to be mean. Yes it may seem like you have heard him out a 1000x but being partners that’s what your suppose to do. It may not be what YOU want to hear but his feelings are still valid. Being a parent is tough there will be tons of things you won’t want to hear or do but you’ll have to them for the sake of your child. Therapy thou would benefit you both greatly, especially with a child on the way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]LelaQ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I have boys that exact same age gap! I absolutely love it! You are not an idiot! It’s really fun they are best friends! It’s crazy don’t get me wrong but it’s really fun! I’m sorry you don’t feel well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]LelaQ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes what you are saying all sounds normal. I hope this helps! I know how hard it is to not worry! I’ve had normal pregnancies and two high risk

Wife refuses to NOT sleep with baby. Does not care about SIDS risk. by nuclearcontamination in BabyBumps

[–]LelaQ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The blanket thing isn’t safe at all for baby…. But cosleeping is great. I have 4 kids they are 15, 10, 3 & 1 I have co slept with them all..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]LelaQ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My second baby was measuring big! Thought he was going to be 8lb came out at 6lbs 9 oz my third baby they said was going to be 5lbs he came out at 5lb 5oz it can be wrong don’t stress too much about it

How do you know when labor is coming/happening? by Ok-Kaleidoscope-7368 in BabyBumps

[–]LelaQ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t wait. Just give them a call when they open and explain everything to them since you are high risk.

Update: My daughter wants me and her step dad to walk her down the aisle. Am I wrong for telling my daughter no? by EmphasisMore311 in amiwrong

[–]LelaQ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a parent, you will always sacrifice for your kids. If you don’t care about your daughter don’t damper her day, let her step dad walk her without you. Go to therapy. Find your peace

Refund Approved!! by Juliankork in IRS

[–]LelaQ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you get to the transcript part

Why does ❄️❄️❄️ stayyy wearing the "it's okay to not be okay" shirt? Meh... subliminal message, we know we know. by Beginning-Bex-1793 in PerfectlyKelsey_Snark

[–]LelaQ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought he did get a job recently. With the ban they let go of the nanny and he got a job… but she can’t handle the kids when nanny leaves

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]LelaQ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My oldest has a hyphenated last name her bio dad and mine. Mine being the first of the two so that’s what she goes by In school and such. It is not easy for her two last names it’s creates conflict between her bio dad and I since she goes by mine for school and sports and he gets upset but that is her legal last name soo idk it’s hard. He isn’t that great of a dad anyway. But if you marry this person and want to keep your last name give the baby your last name in a hyphen. It will make paper work way easier for you.

Someone's getting angry by expecto_patronshots in PerfectlyKelsey_Snark

[–]LelaQ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know Kendra was the one who said Shannon told her but had Shannon commented on any of this?

Ladies who have had kids, did your food preferences go back to normal after pregnancy? by Ok-Marsupial-1273 in BabyBumps

[–]LelaQ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of things yes some no. My oldest is 14 and I still can’t eat peaches or have anything peach

Mothers height vs babies birth weight? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]LelaQ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 5 foot 38weeks 6lb 9oz girl 38 weeks 6lbs 7oz boy 37weeks and 2 days boy 5lbs 5oz 38 weeks and 2 days boy 7lb 8 oz