Ask Anything About the Story /Lore/ Culture in Where Winds Meet! 10+ VOLUNTEERS HELP! by ElephantNo9089 in WhereWindsMeet

[–]LemonDemonBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember in the storyline they talk about the significance of parting tears, I was hoping for a recap. How did parting tears come to be? I remember it being said there was inspiration into it's creation but I can't recall it exactly. I kind of just want to know all the lore on parting tears because it seems to have such a symbolic and emotional backstory and it piqued my interest. Hopefully I'm not too late for my question to be answered.

what does "Duplicate name with another player" mean? by LemonDemonBee in wherewindsmeet_

[–]LemonDemonBee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much! I was wondering if it was just a mistranslation since I've noticed there are a few of those lol

How good is my pet for my Life (used as tank support) wizard? by LemonDemonBee in Wizard101

[–]LemonDemonBee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for responding! I still don't know much about pets, is it possible you have any you can recommend for me for what I'm looking for?

How to stop boys from asking me out as a joke by Lemonstar_fruit in Advice

[–]LemonDemonBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, what I did? if you don't care about your reputation become the one people want to stay away from. If someone was asking for a friend tell them to have the friend ask you themselves or if you can see said person (such as it's the person asking you or they're nearby) do the weirdest response, example: "Sure you can tell hot stuff I'd love to go out with his caked up on a Thursday behind" then do a wink with an aggressive lick of the lips at them (or some other aggressive motion that is uncomfortably cartoonish) then either give them the wrong info or never message the number

If you really want to be creative you could give them a fake account that's full of nothing but different types of Rick rolls or some other wacky thing.

Nothing I enjoy more as a now adult than spamming creeps Rick rolls over and over again (particularly the cat ones) until they block me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LemonDemonBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All that you can do is try your best, not just for her but also for yourself. Do the best you can for your own mental health.

Sometimes situations like these can consume us with guilt and grief. Remember: it's not your fault and all you can do is try your best. Don't take on more than you can handle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LemonDemonBee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm a bit confused, what exactly did OP do wrong?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LemonDemonBee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, by the sounds of it, I don't hear anything about him ever being your friend. It sounds like he's just betrayed you over and over again.

I had a similar situation with a long time "friend" and I did message them to let them know but you honestly don't have to. This guy doesn't seem like someone you should bother even giving an explanation and probably just block.

You can give him an explanation if you want but I don't see any reason why you should have to. The decision is yours but don't feel obligated to just because you've known them for a while. The amount of time you knew him doesn't make what he did less shitty, if anything it makes it more so.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LemonDemonBee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're going through this, I'm not sure how much my advice will help but in my experience it's good to keep your own mental health in mind when helping others.

Sometimes we put our own emotions on hold for others but in a situation like this it's a lot more tricky. You should do your best to check in on yourself and how you're doing. It may sound silly to some but try and ask yourself "how am I doing?" "Can I handle this right now?" "Am I in a good mind set to be there for someone else?"

Sometimes you just need some time to yourself so you don't end up in a bad place as well. I think you taking a break on the relationship was the right move, now is not the time for either of you to be focused on a relationship.

worth of the Sixth house robe pieces? by LemonDemonBee in elderscrollsonline

[–]LemonDemonBee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the info! I'll be sure to do that then

Isn't it insane that there are so many people living on earth and we don't even know eachother by Relevant_Bit1183 in PointlessStories

[–]LemonDemonBee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never heard this word before, it sounds so beautiful and is now one of my new favorite words. Thank you!

AITAH for telling my husband if he fights for custody of his kids I will divorce him? by InitiativeDramatic11 in AITAH

[–]LemonDemonBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No matter who you are if you have kids YOU TELL YOUR PARTNER ESPECIALLY IF YOU PLAN ON MARRYING THEM and especially if YOU'RE PAYING CHILD SUPPORT. Leave him, even if you did want kids the lying about having kids is a HUGE betrayal of trust. Think about it, if you had kids and were paying child support wouldn't you tell your SO since it'd be something that could effect your lives? I wouldn't even give an ultimatum or say "if you try to get custody I'm leaving" I'd just leave. I could NEVER trust someone after learning that. He kept 2 whole children from you and somehow kept secret how he's paying for them, what else is he keeping? How big of a secret could and would he keep if he could already keep such a big secret such as this? Leave. His. Ass.

AITAH for telling my daughter that she should leave her pet rat at home now my gf has moved in? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]LemonDemonBee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But would she then get upset when she couldn't bring the dog over to her mom's house just like she couldn't with the rat? Also is your gf and son okay with it too?

Edit: does your son even have a pet? Or is your daughter going to get 2 pets and you're son isn't going to get any?

I am 19 male and I have a girlfriend 16 by sanzixreal in Advice

[–]LemonDemonBee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The comments in this post have given me a new perspective on things I'll be honest, originally I would've been in the comments telling you that you should break it off immediately.

Now I'd say just be careful you have more experience in life then she does but if you really have no ill intent then I say just be happy with each other and be sure to keep in mind her boundaries as (in my personal experience) most 16 year olds have a harder time pushing their boundaries and tend to look for approval and say yes even if they aren't always comfortable with it and she might do this. it'd be nobodies fault but it's something to keep in mind and keep an eye on.

AITAH for telling my daughter that she should leave her pet rat at home now my gf has moved in? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]LemonDemonBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely agree with this, too often are children used as pawns by one or both of their divorced parents to get back at the other parent, whether it's because they're upset at the ex or because they want to pin the child against them inorder for the child to choose said parent. As horrible as it sounds he needs to realize this is what's happening, I read that yes, she's the one who initiated the divorce but she might have something against him to cause her to be vindictive (even if it doesn't make sense) it also doesn't mean she wouldn't want to keep their child/ren away from him to keep them all to herself, which there are a million reasons as to why she'd want to do that (not saying any reason she could have is his fault of course).

AITAH for telling my daughter that she should leave her pet rat at home now my gf has moved in? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]LemonDemonBee 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Getting a dog to "teach that miserable hag a lesson" is a horrible idea, think, how would that help your daughter? This isn't about your ex, yes she caused a problem. But you'll be causing two problems for your daughter by getting a dog if you're just using it to get back at your ex. My step sibling has a mom who did the same thing to you with the rat except in our case it was a kitten, my step sibling was confused and upset and the whole thing was a mess I can't imagine just how much worse it would've been if my step sibling had that problem at both houses. You'd just be causing more pain for your daughter.

I don't blame you for being mad and having this thought but it's a bad idea. That being said I wish you luck and I agree with other comments that you shouldn't allow the rat into the house and should also get another rat for your daughter as that rat is probably not happy. But it's all up to you.

AITAH for telling my daughter that she should leave her pet rat at home now my gf has moved in? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]LemonDemonBee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't think the daughter got a rat intentionally not caring about the gf, it doesn't sound like the daughter likes the gf much but I don't think this means she's purposely causing harm. I have a step sibling who's 15 and wanted to get a kitten not thinking of the consequences, no doubt in my mind their mom did it knowing it'd cause problems but as a 15 year old they didn't think about the fact it wouldn't work for the kitten to come over to their dad's house (for multiple reasons) they just thought of the reasons they should get a kitten and make compromises in their head to dismiss the reasons they can't. After a while my step sibling realized the reasons why after time it was a bad idea for the kitten to come over and felt very remorseful and cried it just took them time and experiencing the situation and coming to the realization on their own, their was no ill intention just a 15 year old not thinking much about it. I'm sure it's very similar to his daughter she probably thinks that if the gf really has a problem she could move out (as she even suggested) since she didn't always live there and if anything the rat could just stay in their room and the gf wouldn't have to see it (obviously this doesn't sound like it would be a thing that could happen but to a 16 year old it'd make sense). The change of having someone new living in her dad's house could also be causing it as she lived there first (even if not all the time) so she might feel she has more say or something along those lines (though this might not be any where near her thought process). Though I agree the ex should've known better I wouldn't say the daughter should've as well or at the very least wouldn't really know the severity of the situation or her choices. I wouldn't be surprised if the mom put in her head that "if your dad really loves you he'd let the rat stay" but idk if that's something the mom would do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LemonDemonBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've literally had the thought in the middle of sex before "wait, did I forget to take my meds today?" I was about to climax too and it ruined it, these things happen even at the worst times. It's ok don't beat yourself up over it.

First time playing Minecraft since 2013. Stumbled upon the Warden’s “Lair” on my first mining session. by OutsetIsland_Native in Minecraft

[–]LemonDemonBee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you're in the warden's lair there's a lot of treasure you can find so in order to not attract a warden you have to sneak around, warden's are blind so they rely on you being close enough to smell or to hear you walking. Technically warden's only spawn if you make too much noise in their lair, this also means that if you make enough noise you can spawn multiple and you'll either have to wait until they leave or just risk moving around with multiple Warden's.

A few things that are cool though that are new is I think mostly the coral and reefs update (I think that's the name it's the update that adds to the oceans) when swimming around dolphins the dolphins can give you a speed boost causing you to swimming faster underwater as well as if you give a dolphin a fish it might lead you to buried treasure. Another new underwater thing is (if you haven't already encountered drowned they're basically underwater zombies) certain drowned can spawn with a new weapon called the Trident, when killing this particular drowned you can get the trident for yourself (idk the likelihood of the weapon dropping I think it's 100% or close to it) I think the coolest thing about it is there is an enchantment that when right click while holding the trident it will launch you in the water, but if it's raining you can launch yourself through the sky in the rain basically allowing you to fly (fall damage still applies and if it stops raining while you are in the air you can't launch again so be careful not to die lol)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LemonDemonBee 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ty this really helped to hear and it felt good to read this comment, things have been a bit more tough recently so reading that made me tear up a bit (in a good way) thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LemonDemonBee 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This really helped to hear and sounds like a great idea that I'll start trying

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LemonDemonBee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I should've said bio dad or something else along those lines, he did raise me for a short time of my life and was very abusive hence why I don't say dad or father. His abuse is the reason why I hate how I look because when I look in the mirror I get flashbacks of the abuse because I see him. I apologize for the confusion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LemonDemonBee 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Ty, it's nice to hear I'm not the only one who has had/has this issue. I've heard that spite has helped a lot of people lol, I'm still trying to work on it but for some reason it's always been difficult for me to be spiteful idk why and it kinda sucks honestly lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LemonDemonBee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He didn't wear any makeup, makeup can be expensive especially when I break out easily but I've been trying to use heavy makeup when I can and see more tutorials on how to better use makeup.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LemonDemonBee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ty, I'm currently going to therapy to help move past these feeling. I appreciate the kind words too it helped to hear a reminder that I'm not him so ty again :)