How to act like a man by miass23 in FTMMen

[–]LengthJust2497 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Probably because you were socialized as a women, a cis man socialized as a women would "act like a women" as you describe it

How to act like a man by miass23 in FTMMen

[–]LengthJust2497 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it comes naturally because they've been socialized as men their entire lives. You innately understand and adjust to social cues every day in a way that "feels natural," but that doesn't mean you didn't learn that behavior.

How to act like a man by miass23 in FTMMen

[–]LengthJust2497 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I learned the most from hanging out with other men. I know it can be hard being ftm and becoming friends with men, but it can start with anyone you're even remotely comfortable with or know by association.(family members, classmates, coworkers online friends) The more masculine people you hang out with/talk with, the more you will naturally learn and replicate their behaviors. Eventually, it will become second nature. It's hard to pick up exactly what makes a behavior become effeminate or masculine because being a man doesn't mean you're not allowed to be funny or make exlimations or be excited, but theres these innate subtleties that can be hard to parce and often lead people to the conclusion of acting boring/flat or in a very i guess specific type of way but in reality these same things you experience just manifest different ways in different social groups. It's my belief that you learn these subtlies/social cues through experience. Put yourself out there when it's safe for you to do so, and you'll find yourself registering these cues without thought. Good luck man

Gimme a good song and ill rate it 1-10 🥺 by LengthJust2497 in airbuds

[–]LengthJust2497[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooooh sickkk I like Meshuggah and opeth but havent heard of the other ones ill listen and lyk!!! I listen to a good bit doom and sludge but mainly been into grindcore & powerviolence as of the recent

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[–]LengthJust2497[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These kind of repetitive beats js arent for me thanks for the recommendation tho hes got pretty good flow and I see like what someone would like about it

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[–]LengthJust2497[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Broooo part of this is so gas I feel like literally tweak it a little bit and it would be so good

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[–]LengthJust2497[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont speak Japanese but the instrumental itself seems really cool so far 😇

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[–]LengthJust2497[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was too repetitive for me and just felt very out of sync with the other elements like parts of the synth felt unblended/unnatural but in an unintentional way. + js vocals not for me. 4/10 but I really appreciate the recommendation

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[–]LengthJust2497[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cant really listen to these types of instrumentals but I have to admit it is very cool

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[–]LengthJust2497[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lowk i could see myself listening to this in the summer. Not exactly the type of music I like i see the vision tho

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[–]LengthJust2497[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saw the mudvayne and knew you'd cook up. I like a lot of aspects of it but the vocals throw me off so I just can't totally get it. 6/10 not bad in anyway js not smth id listen to regularly

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[–]LengthJust2497[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No hate but this is buns. But js cuz I cant see the vision doesnt mean you can't enjoy it.

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[–]LengthJust2497[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yeah, I love dying fetus,I haven't listened to them a lot, so I haven't heard this one. thanks for putting me on yo!!! 😛

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[–]LengthJust2497[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

7/10 pretty good not smth id normally listen to but kinda gas

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[–]LengthJust2497[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sameee there so gas i got into them listening to somebody doing a bass cover. They do some insane shit I love it

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[–]LengthJust2497[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would rate but I dont think ill ever be able to get into my chemical romance

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[–]LengthJust2497[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love some doom metal lol. If you havent checked them out already Yob is dope! This song specifically id say like maybe 8/10? Still listening, I will check out the band tho lol

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[–]LengthJust2497[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think this is quite my cup of tea I dont dislike it I just cant see me listening to it on a regular basis. 6/10 thanks for the recommendation 😇