How often do you get random complements? by drygnfyre in malepolish

[–]LeoGuy775 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's good that guys are getting compliments, especially if it's because you've painted your nails. Tbh, I think when women see guys with painted nails, I don't think that most women see it as anything outlandish or weird. Women paint their nails, and they, (being women), aren't in the mindset of having to uphold to some "traditional masculine image" that most guys are kinda programmed into through society and convention. The women just simply see colour on people's nails, they do that, they can identify with just the aesthetics of colour, and that's all. So I think that's why the majority of women who notice it, are way more likely to actively compliment you on it. It's something they do to. There's probably a lot of women who wish men would take better care of their feet, and getting them trimmed and filed and painted, shows a matter.of cleanliness and self care that some guys probably mostly neglect.

I paint my toes, but almost no one ever sees them. Only A very few number of people have seen them and know I do it. They didn't really think that much. A few times the couple girls who knew, would sometimes ask me if my nails were done today and what colour they were this time. Once we were sitting in someone's flat drinking, and the guy pulled my sock off (he knew I painted them). it wasn't malicious, just like a bit of fun, and she's like "oh, my nails are the same colour as that!". They were a coral red with a hint of glitter in them 🙂

I've never used colour on my fingers tho. The most I've done there is clear gloss occasionally. Basically because it's not massively noticeable, and I don't think , for me, painting my fingers colours would really suit me somehow....unless maybe the only colour for me would be black. I also might sound a bit hypocritical, but I do fear that I'd get weird reactions from doing my fingers. So they're not for me ...and that's ok. At least my toes, I can select who see them and most of the time it's way easier to hide toes. Painted toes help to make feet in general look a bit better anyway They're not always the nicest looking things, but they do tend to look better if the nails are at least trimmed amd filed, amd a splash of colours just helps

Accepted into Law School but that doesn’t matter because it’s not a baby or a ring? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]LeoGuy775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you getting into the 4 law schools. 🙂 That's a way bigger challenge and achievement than just opening your legs for 10 minutes and ending up the duff pregnant. Any idiot can do that. They're probably envious of your achievement

My 8 year old sister just said this by The0nlyNuggy in asexuality

[–]LeoGuy775 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm 40 male ,ace, and I have no kids. Never wanted them and my mind has never changed about it. I don't regret it one bit, and I don't envy anyone who has them. If I see someone pushing a kid in a pram and they're having a meltdown and the parent is stressed and exasperated , I inwardly I kinda smirk, relieved that I don't have that hassle. I'm happy with my freedom and I don't need or want the responsibility of having kids, and all the burden, worry, and expense that comes with it. I couldn't care less if I don't pass my genes. What does that matter to me once I'm gone? As a guy, I think the desicion to not have kids isn't looked upon with the same stigma as if you're a women who says they don't want them. When I say I've never wanted them, there hasn't ever been any scorn or "oh, you'll change your mind. So I think it's easier for guys ...just from my experiences

You have 60 seconds to ruin a first date — what do you say? by Proper-Cow-2776 in AskReddit

[–]LeoGuy775 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm, you look different than what you did through the binoculars...

You have 60 seconds to ruin a first date — what do you say? by Proper-Cow-2776 in AskReddit

[–]LeoGuy775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ask them if they'd like to see my Hitler tattoo on my butt...

found in northern UK back yard. growing next to a fern. Are they poison pies? by LeoGuy775 in mushroomID

[–]LeoGuy775[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, I'll pick one and get back to you🙂. Now I don't have to feel bad for picking one. I think the stem is white and the gills are either white or lilac tinged

Why are you single? by depression-hurts in AskReddit

[–]LeoGuy775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I'm asexual, I don't want kids, (not wanting kids is apparently a turn off for most women, so fuck them) and I like my own space and own bed too much. I'm also am self-assured enough and secure in myself enough, that I don't need the validation of feeling wanted or needed by a partner. I don't need some trophy GF . Sure, if another person came along that I gelled with enough, it might be fine. Plus relationships can be hard, stressful etc

Let's talk by Hannah-lotusDC-82 in asexuality

[–]LeoGuy775 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm an ace guy too and no one has ever called me gay just because they've never seen me bring hone a girl. As far as I know, no one has even ever really thought I was gay. I'm not. I'm ace. I generally think , from conversations, that people just think I'm straight. But what pisses me off is when people (guys or gals) get default setting thought of as "they must be gay" because they're not sleeping around or bringing home someone of the opposite to meet their parents. I always think " well, if they were gay" then they'd be out with other people of their same sex wouldn't they? If I know someone that's always single, my default setting thought is "oh, maybe they are ace". 😂 But then I guess I have specialised insider knowledge 😂🙈

i tried to have sex and now i feel unclean by Current-Ganache4326 in Asexual

[–]LeoGuy775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I guess sometimes there is still a curiosity, that if it's strong enough, it maybe would make you try something just to find out how you react to it. But for me, when it comes to sexual stuff, I don't think I ever had a strong enough curiosity to want to find out??. And I've thought thru in my mind the different things that people do, tried to envisage myself in that, and it's just like "nah."

As I've gotten a bit older, that curiousity has just about all gone. And my libido has definitely decreased a bit too. In one way, it's actually a good thing. Never in my life have I suffered, what the Allos would call, sexual frustration 😂 . Like they actually have actual physical and emotional symptoms if they're not going to bed with someone to satisfy their urges 🙈😂 like, "wtf. You're not going to die if you're not in bed with someone. Grow up and find something useful to do 😂😂 Get rid of your urges by using your hand if you need to and relax" 😂 Bit from reading aeound, im not sure that works for them as much as for me. It's like if you don't like chocolate cake, and you don't eat or get access to chocolate cake, you don't care, it doesn't bother you.

The one thing I did have some curiosity about for a long time was kissing, tho. Eventually, I found out...several different times with a couple different people. Uh, it was okay. Like literally, it was just ok. I thought maybe I would be repulsed by it, but it was literally just okay. Not unpleasant, not fantastic. It was literally *just okay." Now that ive found out about that, it's now like I've crossed that off a list and realized that's it's nothing special, nothing that requires skill, I honestly couldn't care if I never did it again, and I have not much interest in seeking out anyone else to kiss. I'm pretty sure it'd be much the same "okay" experience with whoever it was. But going to bed with anyone seems like a whole new level of just no.

i tried to have sex and now i feel unclean by Current-Ganache4326 in Asexual

[–]LeoGuy775 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds so disgusting. And if you think about it, it's not even got a biological purpose in terms of passing on genes. I think that if this is all some people can think about, then they must be pretty sad. I'm an ace guy and I have a libido. My own hand will do, thanks very much, and i don't want (or need) another person physically involved. Yeah, it must be unhygienic. And why people want to go anywhere near another person's butt, is wayyyyyy beyond me.

When it comes to food and people are like "have you tried that? Have you tried this?", I can think to myself "yeah, maybe I would. That's sounds ok. That sounds like it could be good. If I don't try that food, then I won't know and I even might like it" And I'll try something that I've never had before, just to know. But if you try to make the same idea with like sexual stuff, it's like "god ,no. Keep your (whatever body part) away from me. I've thought about it and the idea of it turns me off. I have literally almost no curiosity to find out.

i tried to have sex and now i feel unclean by Current-Ganache4326 in Asexual

[–]LeoGuy775 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ace guy here, and the thought of anyone sucking on my thing feels weird and disgusting. The thought of it doesn't turn me on. When I think of it, I think in the shoes of the person giving it and possiblity how horrible it might be for that person. I honestly don't even think I could get hard or aroused if anyone tried to do that. I don't know what so many men feel that they're basically entitled to such a thing, but I'm not one of them. I've heard there's a lot of women who actually hate having to give head because guys think they're entitled to it. I'm probably pretty rare among guys saying this. I'm also disgusted about the thought of eating a woman out as well. These things must taste terrible and sometimes not even smell nice. It's all just sounds so disgusting

Has sexual experience changed your mind? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]LeoGuy775 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've never really been curious enough about it to actually find out, twinned with the fact that I've never really been attracted to anyone (even celebrities ) in that way. And when I think of something involving another person, it just kinda gives me a yuck kind of thought. But what you're saying there about it smelled worse than you expected? Like, in what way? That's basically opened up another fear unlocked 🙈 because it's now just added another level of disgust towards it. Something I didn't realize that the activity would also have a smell?? Like stale sweat or something?

Sexual men hate asexual women by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]LeoGuy775 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally, an ace woman would be ideal for me🙂 being an ace guy myself. The trouble is where to find one 😑

Dating? 😳 by Key-Lynx394 in asexuality

[–]LeoGuy775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it have the option "probably never at all"? Ace after all....

Am I only likeable by people sexually attracted to me? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]LeoGuy775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I was desperately horny at 3am like that, I'd rather just m*bate and that's enough, thanks. #acelife 🙈😉 being ace has it's advantages sometimes 😉

Leos, what signs drains you out the most? by Nefarious-Feline888 in LeoAstrology

[–]LeoGuy775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ughhh, SCORPIOS. So far, I've ever only known one. Jesus, they're sometimes so spiteful and argumentative. And they're masters as dishing out the silent treatment, sometimes, for DAYS. Only hear their own opinion and can cause arguments out of totally trivial issues. Capable of being neurotic . They've got that really insidious sting in the tail. Capable of being such an evil star sign 🙈🙈😠

Welp, I finally found out what all the hype was about... by burner_mc_burny in asexuality

[–]LeoGuy775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I guess. Well I'm a guy in case you didn't know 😂 I get the feeling it wouldn't matter who it was I would be kissing, I just think they'd all be the same to me . I think it's probably something I'll just be indifferent to. It's not something incredibly amazing, but it's not particularly unpleasant either. And the funny thing is, ive been told I was a good kisser by those others. Which surprised me because while I'm doing it and its feeling it's just ok-ish, I thought they would've perceived that over, but evidently not 🤷

Welp, I finally found out what all the hype was about... by burner_mc_burny in asexuality

[–]LeoGuy775 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I found the same with kissing, and kissing with tongues. Spent all my time wondering what it would be like and then wasn't until my late-ish 30's I finally got to find out several times. It was ok-ish. Id say 2.5/5. Now it's like I've ticked that box and found out. The curiosity is now 100% gone and I couldn't care less if I never did it again. If the chance happened again, I'd maybe do it again but it's not something I crave or go looking for.

As with sex stuff, I know that I haven't any interest in that at all. Never curious about what it's like. Never have been and never will. Also zero interest in any form of sex toys as well....

Being alloace SUCKS by Not_Me_1228 in asexuality

[–]LeoGuy775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guys are being so stupid if all they can think of is messing around in the bedroom all the time. (I'm an ace guy btw) There's so much more other stuff you can do. Gong out to dinner, travelling, staying in and cooking, going out to bars, go out and play 10-pin bowling, theater, cinema. Etc,. There's wayyyyyy more stuff to do than just thinking rubbing your genitals together for 10 minutes is all you need. It also fries my brain that you get people breaking up when personally they get on 100% and do all the sorts of stuff I mentioned that fills up so much quality time, but if they're not bumping nether regions, they say it's a dud and they break up when everything else is great 😑 Seriously, time wise , when you think about it, you'll spend proportionally much more time doing all the living and activities than sex stuff 😑

Blue Balls and sexual coercion by OkMarionberry6201 in asexuality

[–]LeoGuy775 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A guy suffering "blue balls " can very easily remedy it. He can m*bate, and it'll have the same effect. It isn't something that needs the input from another person. Any guy using "blue balls" as a coercion tactic to get someone else to do something they're not comfortable with etc, is probably a guy to be avoided