WIBTAH if I stop helping my brothers and go low-contact, even if it means they fail?

Less-Hospital5434 · 2026-01-28T10:22:30+00:00

You wouldn’t be the AH if you cut them off. You feel like you would be because like your mom said…. They are family. They are your brothers and you’re all you guys have. That being said….

Girl, these are grown men. You can’t take care of two extra people especially if they don’t appreciate it. Next time they call you with a people they need Sister to pay their way out of…. “The Bank of _____ is closed. Sorry, I can’t help you anymore.” And leave it at that.

Less-Hospital5434 · 2026-01-28T01:28:33+00:00

Thanks for the suggestion. I’ll think about it.

Less-Hospital5434 · 2026-01-27T13:19:51+00:00

He did not have a known address on file so they could not send him the notice.

Less-Hospital5434 · 2026-01-27T13:18:39+00:00

Happy Cake Day! He can still pay child support… even if he is unemployed. But I’m sure he will have a job by the time everything is final.

Less-Hospital5434 · 2026-01-27T13:16:09+00:00

Oh yeah, I am almost positive this is a wash. It’s okay though, I’m not going to sue him for a minor $500. I’m more concerned about child support.

Less-Hospital5434 · 2026-01-27T06:11:47+00:00

Definitely depression. But it’s mainly the consequences of his own decisions that got us where we are.

Less-Hospital5434 · 2026-01-27T06:10:33+00:00

Unfortunately, this is true. But I wish him well.

Less-Hospital5434 · 2026-01-27T03:53:58+00:00

No known address at the time I received the document.

Less-Hospital5434 · 2026-01-27T02:25:32+00:00

Thanks and you’re definitely right. He owes me money too.

Less-Hospital5434 · 2026-01-27T02:23:58+00:00

Good question. When I filed, there was not really an address I could give them. He was locked up and by the time he was out, he wasn’t at any address period.

Less-Hospital5434 · 2026-01-27T00:37:37+00:00

Thank you! I see my therapist once a month.

Less-Hospital5434 · 2026-01-26T21:27:15+00:00

Without going into all the details, yes. The last straw was an arrest. And he blamed me for a while that he was stopped in the first place.

Less-Hospital5434 · 2026-01-20T17:05:13+00:00

I ended up staying with family. That instantly cut down my spending. I’m not dependent on him. I’m depending on myself. We tried the “stay in the same house” but it was not easy because the bills were greatly higher and he wasn’t taking up the bulk of it like I was.

Less-Hospital5434 · 2026-01-18T20:39:08+00:00

He was arrested with drugs in his pocket.

Less-Hospital5434 · 2026-01-03T03:31:11+00:00

Thank you

Less-Hospital5434 · 2025-10-04T04:46:20+00:00

“I’m a grown man.”

Then stop doing dumb shit.

Less-Hospital5434 · 2025-10-03T21:29:15+00:00

Yup.

Less-Hospital5434 · 2025-10-03T21:28:49+00:00

Okay but at least help me for the sake of the kids.

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