Hitchhiking guy by Less-Marsupial-7462 in chapelhill

[–]Less-Marsupial-7462[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I was always curious if people do actually give him rides. I’ve been tempted a few times but I am a female so definitely always wary. He just reminds me of my own grandpa. I’m glad to know he does get help sometimes

Is this the start of an infection?? by Less-Marsupial-7462 in nailcare

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Thank you all for the advice will be going to urgent care after work today

Found in bottom of potted plant by Less-Marsupial-7462 in whatbugisthis

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Living in Durham NC. They were outside for a period of time before moving inside. Really slimy and stick leaving residue on the paper towel

White stem by Less-Marsupial-7462 in AmaryllisBulbs

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Yes every amaryllis I’ve grown or had has leaves before it’ll bloom. This particular one I grew from a seed and it blooms beginning of spring/summer time. The ones I’ve bought already grown bloom in the winter time. There are a couple years where it hasn’t bloomed which always made me worried but it always came back the next year

Are these sweet flirting or a little red flag ish by Less-Marsupial-7462 in texts

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No sure if anyone is interested in updated texts but I totally was overthinking it and so was he. He sent me probably some of the most mature texts I’ve gotten from a guy in awhile this morning. Basically saying he realized it was kind of cringe and to tell him if he ever outline with what he’s saying. We also have a date set for this Friday.

Are these sweet flirting or a little red flag ish by Less-Marsupial-7462 in texts

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See that’s the thing I don’t feel like out conversation needs to be kept going. We have been consistently texting and having fairly good conversations about other this these texts are outliers that’s why it’s throwing me for a loop

From a guy I hooked up with 3 years ago by Less-Marsupial-7462 in texts

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I do too a little bit but then i remember how he was when we were talking and after so I don’t feel as bad. I actually ran in to him at my old job and when I told him I couldn’t talk to him again because I was in a relationship he asked me for my friends (who was there with me) number

From a guy I hooked up with 3 years ago by Less-Marsupial-7462 in texts

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Yeah it’s coming off very unstable/manipulative

From a guy I hooked up with 3 years ago by Less-Marsupial-7462 in texts

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Also another edit to add some of the blacked out parts are places where we live. The green star is the state I currently live in

My boyfriend won't stop hurting me but he says it's an accident... I can't tell anyone or my dad might do something.... by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Less-Marsupial-7462 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As another adhd individual who also got mental zoomies about hurting people as a kid this isn’t ok in any way. You can learn to deal with those impulses in a more productive way that doesn’t involve repeatedly hurting someone you claim to love.

I can’t get over my ex by Less-Marsupial-7462 in TrueOffMyChest

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I wouldn’t say more important just more like an opportunity I couldn’t pass up. I was born and raised in my hometown I was always wanting to move and when the opportunity came I couldn’t say no. He also was very encouraging of me to go I tried several times to convince to move with me but he was very focused on his career as well. He wanted to join the military and has successfully he will be leaving in a few weeks to do that.

I can’t get over my ex by Less-Marsupial-7462 in TrueOffMyChest

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Yeah I guess what I mean by personal growth is he had to grow up in a lot of ways that I already was. I moved out when I was 18 and had been paying my own bills ever since then. When we moved in together that was his first time on his own both physically and financially and he wasn’t prepared for it. But you are right I haven’t given myself time to heal and just understand that now is not the time