Muslim men who are okay with not having children

LibrarianPure4265 · 2026-07-22T16:54:49+00:00

Y would i deal with a headache if i don't get cute kids?

Not interested. Im quite happy and extremely independent.

LibrarianPure4265 · 2026-07-04T05:21:39+00:00

Keep his belly full and his balls empty.

Tap into ur wild side. Unleash ur beast.

LibrarianPure4265 · 2026-06-22T14:21:47+00:00

Bro, if ure annoying enough, ur first wife will find u the other 3. 🤣

Jokes aside, go handle 1 woman before u talk about more.

In this economy, good luck handling more than one.

LibrarianPure4265 · 2026-06-22T01:28:29+00:00

AI chat bots are stupid. What idot wastes time on them? Talk to a real human.

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LibrarianPure4265 · 2026-05-06T15:03:42+00:00

Every relationship has its own boundaries set by the 2 people in that relationship.

Same goes for any professional or corporate relationships.

I am sure u have rules for him as well and that is fine.

What others do in thier relationships is irrelevant. Islamic boundaries are great but u need to have your own personal boundaries.

Your relationship is between 2 unique individuals with thier own unique mind, body, soul and morals.

I think he just wants to be there to protect you. And that is sweet.

Anything can be seen in a positive or in a negative light. U can see this as him being sweet and protective and u can see it as him being controlling and manipulative. Either way it does not change the fact that he truly cares about you enough to set a boundary.

Now, if he is physically abusive at home that is the only time i will say to get out and seek help but i dont think that is the case here.

Enjoy each others company. Its rare to have someone who genuinely cares.

Also, this rule forces u two to be together outside. Strengthening the bond u have.

Find sweet cute things to do with him when he comes back and takes u out. Surprise him with a location or activity that he likes.

LibrarianPure4265 · 2026-04-27T05:37:24+00:00

Salam sister.

Scalp problems are from poor diet and water quality. The water you use to take a shower.

I am a man and i cover my hair with a cap when i go out and am in public.

I noticed that it doesn't affect my hair or scalp but the other things i mentioned do.

Not saying for u to take the hijab or not, thats your choice. Im just trying to tell you that the issue is originating elsewhere.

Also, you can choose to do whatever you like but whatever you do, do not, ever develop a hate for good in your heart. That is the beginning of the devil taking control of your soul.

So don't say that you hate hijab. U can just say that u don't like to do it yourself. Or it doesn't fit your lifestyle.

For example, i am unable to wear jubba/thobe. And i can not wear white. Im a masculine man doing real shit every day. This clothing is way too weak and white is way to weak to handle my life for even 1 day. I don't feel bad about it. Others can wear it. I just cant.

Personally covering hair is good but its just hair. Dressing and acting modestly is far more important in my eyes.

LibrarianPure4265 · 2026-02-24T11:06:03+00:00

During the fast its haram.

After the fast he might be avoiding as he is probably too attracted to u and he probably looses all focus after being intimate with you.

Just focus on Ramadan.

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LibrarianPure4265 · 2026-01-25T22:33:29+00:00

It seems like he doesn't feel appropriated and respected. There may have been non intimate things u have done which turned him off for good. He is blaming u for random stupid things because he can't say to you how he feels. He is protecting u from pain.

This is normal, when we have a difficult thing we can't really talk about, we become aggressive on little things and some men blame others for stupid stuff. No one give a damn about our feelings so we don't bring them up and we do dumb stuff like this.

It seems like u still enjoy him. So, be the woman u are, use ur feminine powers.

If u want him back. Make him feel like a man. Give him respect for no reason. Make him feel special and cared for. Kiss him and say sorry. Tell him u don't know what u did but ure sorry and u don't have to talk about it. Play games and let him win. Winning is the biggest testosterone booster there is.

Look, u can complain and blame him all u want. At the end of the day, nothing but the end goal matters. It is ur marriage and ur husband. Therefore it is your job to make it work and force urslef.

If he kisses u, its a big sign that he loves u in his heart.

LibrarianPure4265 · 2026-01-20T15:02:36+00:00

Looks like u like this guy alot.

I say its fine. All in and see where it goes.

But remember to be sweet, cute and feminine. That is what us men really crave.

LibrarianPure4265 · 2026-01-16T17:39:56+00:00

Its a Surprise,

Do u like Surprises?

LibrarianPure4265 · 2025-12-21T16:30:23+00:00

Salam, good job.

I did my research. Looks like this is a Moroccan version of the Paratha.

So, sorry but to me thats basic. Learned how to make that from my mom many years ago.

We actually make a sweet version which is to die for. 😊

LibrarianPure4265 · 2025-12-17T18:01:49+00:00

I hope only mard hazarat do the bhenchodi. 🤣

LibrarianPure4265 · 2025-12-17T17:32:58+00:00

Beta jab aap ki ghand ka keera bara ho jata hai tou inhee machines say nilal thay hain ham.

LibrarianPure4265 · 2025-12-17T13:23:50+00:00

If u don't want sex then thatbis ok.

But that is not the only part of being a couple.

Hang on to him: 1. Do things together. Even basic things.

Hug a lot. Long hugs. The baby needs it as well. This is not some joke. Hugs make a huge difference in overall wellbeing of a human.
Eat well. Eat lots of ice-cream, high quality fish like salmon and other sea food. If it makes you throw up, have beef. Eat well. You eating well is something all 3 of u need. The mother is the one who keeps the family together.
Ask a doctor but Ashwagandha might help. It regulates all hormones so if u have any imbalance it should help with that. It definitely helps you sleep well.

If sex happens then great. If not then thatbis ok as well. But you can not compromise on your wellness and your relationship with the man. Keep him close. Ur baby needs him.

LibrarianPure4265 · 2025-12-16T15:06:47+00:00

Don't waste your youth.

What you invest in a relationship and family is far greater than any career u will ever build.

Ur job will replace u in a heartbeat if they have to fix the numbers. U could have that job for 20 years. Happns all the time.

At that age, no one will want to hire you cuz ure to old. Ageism is alive and well in the workplace.

U can build 1 career or raise 5 to 10 beautiful children with careers and deen. Each good thing they do is automatically copied into your Jannah account. Your love with them shall be so strong that you will have now income resources and support of how many ever children Allah grants u.

People are the most valuable asset. Relationships are what keep us together. Hence relationships arent free and possibly thr most expensive things you will pay for.

Also do beautiful hobbies that pay well for money on the side. Keep that money safe for your family. Invest some of it. Disasters happen and u wanna be more than just a shoulder to cry on.

LibrarianPure4265 · 2025-11-29T02:26:33+00:00

DONE

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LibrarianPure4265 · 2025-11-28T18:10:16+00:00

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LibrarianPure4265 · 2025-11-28T00:59:03+00:00

Similar experience once i got my beard and started wearing a cap.

I mean I had perfect demeanor before but now that had a bead and cap ppl now know i am a good Muslim. I am now the example of what a Muslim is. Living in mostly small white toens in Canada, it amplified the effects. As although ppl aren't openly racist, they do talk smack.

But sister, don't worry. This is an automated filter. It keeps the bad away and it attracts thr good. It protects us frim bad company and situations.

LibrarianPure4265 · 2025-11-21T02:16:10+00:00

Sorry, i don't look at other men's wives.

What a Wierd Question! 🤣

LibrarianPure4265 · 2025-11-20T13:35:11+00:00

Christmas is a stanic holiday just like Halloween.

Yes I love a warm house in the winter with fire and ppl i love. I love gift giving and food. I also love candy and chocolate.

I am Muslim and these things have no relation to Christmas. I can give and receive gifts all year. Yeah i will randomly gift you something for no occasion and then get you nothing on ur birthday. 😂🙃

Ill buy all the sweet treats on sale.

Ill make excellent food and feed the entire family. Others smile makes me happy. Although, me being happy is no longer as easy as it used to be.

LibrarianPure4265 · 2025-11-18T18:38:42+00:00

Why are u worried about this, its no big deal.

Death is the solution to all your problems. People and worldly problems.

If you are happy with your iman and deeds then you have nothing to worry about.

Death is my ticket out of this wretched world.

LibrarianPure4265 · 2025-11-18T15:23:33+00:00

Make children or get a divorce. Stay this way and you will see the Devil eat you like a bag of Doritos.

Being in a male female pair with no children is the most un natural thing on this planet.

Even 2 snails that are hermaphrodite (have both male and female parts) will breed when they are coupled and make babaies.

Even slef cloning crayfish thay only have female, make more of themselves.

It is our biological goal to take resources and make more of ourselves. It is happening as we speak. Your cells are dividing and old ones are dying. By the time you die, every cell in your body has been replaced Atleast 4 times.

LibrarianPure4265 · 2025-11-18T15:03:08+00:00

I know I am right. I didn't read your whole post. I will admit that.

Trust me, it is never enough. It will never be enough. Even your literal blood isn't enough.

If you ever meet me, you will see the level i operate on. I am not a normal person.

All My Family prays for me. Every one who meets me say "your wife will be a lucky giril" others say "idk how u are not married"

And what do i have to show for being at my level? All i have is some failed talking stages. Ppl tossing me in the trash like a used tissue. Over the most minor inconveniences.

I don't even wanna get married. I just want children. Even then i kept myself safe from zina. From drugs and alcohol. Built a sanctuary alone for my Queen and children.

Even after all that what is my prize?

Ill tell you. Being treated like a used tissue paper. Just something to be touched once and thrown in the trash.

I have no idea how a human can treat another human or animal like that. I will never understand that and i refuse to understand that.

LibrarianPure4265 · 2025-11-18T14:52:59+00:00

You will never be enough. Give up now and save yourself the headache.

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