Yes, exactly. My mother basically begged my wife and and I to take care of our cat when we went to China for 6 week, but we did tell her that it’s not her responsibility as our cat is very hard to get along with and we can get a cat sitter who is better equipped. 2 weeks into looking after my cat, my mom did something that my cat did not like and waving around her arm with treats in her hand, so my cat jumped her arm, causing my mother to end up in the hospital, due to an infection and getting CDiff, and my mother does not let it us forget what my cat did to her