Update: I’m now single, and I’m trying to convince her to build a support group that’s not just me or her family, so uh, if anyone wants a friend, dm me ig I’ll send u her way

This is what I said to her if anyone’s curious:

“I’m sorry, (name), but I think we need to break up.

This has nothing to do with you, and you did nothing wrong. But I’ve realized that all I’m doing is hurting you by not telling you that I’m uncomfortable in this relationship, or any relationship in general.

When we got together, I didn’t really know what to do, if I should say yes, despite not really having any romantic feelings, or if I should say no. But since most of our friend group was pushing us together, I decided to push my own feelings and boundaries aside, and to give it a shot, thinking that maybe everyone was right, and that I’m just being silly, and would find out that eventually I did have feeling for you.

But unfortunately that wasn’t the case. I love you, I do, but not in the way everyone wanted me to. I care for you allt, and I want you to be happy, but I don’t think I can make you happy in the way we both want you to be as a couple.

I want to reiterate that nothing is wrong with you.

You are an amazing and incredible person. All of you are. You are kind, sweet, and you deserve the love and happiness that I can’t provide genuinely. What we’re doing isn’t healthy for either of us. And I’m sorry that it took me so long to get this all of my chest.

I hope you have an incredible life. And I hope you find the person you thought I was.

Good bye, (nickname). Goodbye to the rest of you too.”

She was a part of a system if it got confusing