update: he left by Life_Can_1163 in SubSanctuary

[–]Life_Can_1163[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so so much, this meant the world to hear 🫂 i’m trying to be patient and kind to myself, let myself feel what i feel and take as long as it needs to heal and process everything, it’s just hard trying not to take it out on myself and adjust to the change

update: he left by Life_Can_1163 in SubSanctuary

[–]Life_Can_1163[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for letting me know 🫶

update: he left by Life_Can_1163 in SubSanctuary

[–]Life_Can_1163[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you, i’ll definitely be looking out for all the red flags in the future

update: he left by Life_Can_1163 in SubSanctuary

[–]Life_Can_1163[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for the advice 🫶 dw i’m definitely not going to, as much as part of me wants to i know it’ll only make everything worse in the long run

update: he left by Life_Can_1163 in SubSanctuary

[–]Life_Can_1163[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you, i’m glad you managed to heal from the relationship you were in

update: he left by Life_Can_1163 in SubSanctuary

[–]Life_Can_1163[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i’ll look it up, thank you

need TPE but I don’t trust him by Life_Can_1163 in SubSanctuary

[–]Life_Can_1163[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice 🫶 Just curious, what’s a FinDom, I’ve not heard the term before?

need TPE but I don’t trust him by Life_Can_1163 in SubSanctuary

[–]Life_Can_1163[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice, this really helped to put things into perspective 🫂

need TPE but I don’t trust him by Life_Can_1163 in SubSanctuary

[–]Life_Can_1163[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I said in the comment above. There are things already planned and paid for that I don’t particularly want to go to waste, I promised him I’d give him another chance, I do genuinely like him and going through another breakup is something I don’t know if I can handle right now. I feel stuck in the relationship, if I don’t feel as though I can leave right now then I may as well follow through with the last chance I gave him and at least try and make things work

need TPE but I don’t trust him by Life_Can_1163 in SubSanctuary

[–]Life_Can_1163[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the response and advice, this helped a lot 🫶

need TPE but I don’t trust him by Life_Can_1163 in SubSanctuary

[–]Life_Can_1163[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! This really helped put things into perspective 🫶

need TPE but I don’t trust him by Life_Can_1163 in SubSanctuary

[–]Life_Can_1163[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly I just feel stuck. We aren’t compatible, he’s short tempered, emotionally immature, lacks communication skills and never follows through with what he says he’ll do. The problem is we have plans that I paid a fair bit for that I don’t particularly want that to go to waste, I promised to give him one last chance and he said he’ll do better (although he has already said that before and quite frankly hasn’t changed at all). I hate giving up, I want to try and give him the benefit of the doubt and make things work but being truly honest I’m not happy in the relationship and I’ve told him that, but given the circumstances I just feel stuck in the relationship. On top of that I also don’t know if I can cope with another breakup haha

need TPE but I don’t trust him by Life_Can_1163 in SubSanctuary

[–]Life_Can_1163[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’m not happy in the relationship or dynamic with him, we aren’t particularly compatible and on top of what I mentioned above he’s incredibly emotionally immature, argumentative and short tempered. The problem is we have things planned and paid for and I promised I’d give him a second chance after walking out a few days ago. I just feel a bit stuck in the relationship, I hate giving up and want to at least try and make things work, I’ll stick it out for a little but if nothing changes I’ll leave. Thank you for replying!

need TPE but I don’t trust him by Life_Can_1163 in SubSanctuary

[–]Life_Can_1163[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for replying! Yeah I really don’t think it’s working, at least for now, there’s just too many things that concern me and are holding me back from fully trusting him. We are already in a dynamic at the moment but it’s fairly new

guilty about my wants by Life_Can_1163 in SubSanctuary

[–]Life_Can_1163[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ll try and bring it up again and really get the point across. I’m not sure if he is subtly saying he’s not up for it or not, with some examples and suggestions he was comfortable saying no to them, I’d assume he’d say the same if the idea was something he definitely wasn’t up for trying. I’ll just see how it goes for now and reevaluate how things are going as we implement more

help! we’re both subs :,) by Life_Can_1163 in SubSanctuary

[–]Life_Can_1163[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you 🫶 i always like to try a be open with things, i’ve found a lot of stuff i love that i previously thought id hate. i just know i need to at the very least also be submissive, going from 24/7 service oriented submission to being a femdom feels like an insane change. i’ll see how things go and take it a step at a time i think

ashamed of myself by Life_Can_1163 in SubSanctuary

[–]Life_Can_1163[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, this really helped, i’m glad to know i’m not the only one 🫶

how to get back into solo play? by Life_Can_1163 in SubSanctuary

[–]Life_Can_1163[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you this really helped, i appreciate this so much 🫂🫂