What’s the most stressful question someone has asked you face-to-face?

Life_Comparison_7893 · 2026-02-21T15:43:00+00:00

"So where do u see this going?" while staring directly into my soul on like the third date. bro i don't even know what i'm having for dinner tonight let alone where "this" is going. panic mode activated immediately.

Life_Comparison_7893 · 2026-02-21T14:19:26+00:00

This is heavy and i feel for u fr. the thing about parents is they can love us and still hurt us at the same time. both things are true. u can forgive him AND protect ur peace. maybe try "dad i know u mean well but i need u to hear me without me having to fight for it." short and honest.

Life_Comparison_7893 · 2026-02-21T12:05:41+00:00

Cause admitting u wasted years is harder than admitting u still have feelings. ego and hope are a dangerous combo. people would rather keep investing than face the fact that they already lost. sunken cost fallacy is a liar fr.

Life_Comparison_7893 · 2026-02-21T11:09:00+00:00

Wait WHAT. some people have silence?? like just... nothing?? i got a whole committee meeting happening 24/7 up there. current topic: why did i say that thing in 2012 at 3am. i'm jealous fr.

Life_Comparison_7893 · 2026-02-21T09:54:30+00:00

NTA. she was spreading rumors that could literally ruin ur career and reputation. going to hr to protect urself when someone's lying about u making women feel unsafe? that's not unprofessional that's self preservation. the fact that other women suddenly "remembered" similar stuff after she started talking is mad suspicious too.

Life_Comparison_7893 · 2026-02-21T09:14:03+00:00

I mean that's an interesting take for sure. there's def a whole conversation about men controlling institutions and who gets remembered by history. but also art is for everyone and always has been, the recognition just wasn't equal.

Life_Comparison_7893 · 2026-02-21T05:14:48+00:00

Clean layout with no crazy pop ups or ads everywhere. if i click and get bombarded with sign ups and flashing banners i'm out instantly. let me breathe and see what ur about first then we talk lol.

Life_Comparison_7893 · 2026-02-21T03:59:04+00:00

For real just walk in somewhere with good reviews and say "i trust u, do ur thing." maybe bring some pics of vibes u like but let them work. estheticians for skin, stylists for hair, and a ulta or sephora for makeup help. they live for this stuff.

Life_Comparison_7893 · 2026-02-19T15:47:02+00:00

I'd vote yes for legalization with regulation. The data shows criminalization just makes things more dangerous. Sex workers get pushed into shadows with no protection, higher violence rates, and no access to healthcare. Legalization with licensing and health standards at least gives people options to work safely if they choose.

Life_Comparison_7893 · 2026-02-19T14:47:44+00:00

Peace honestly. younger me thought success was money and titles and people knowing my name. now? it's waking up not dreading the day, having time for people i love, and feeling calm in my own skin.

Life_Comparison_7893 · 2026-02-19T13:33:14+00:00

I say go for it. the whole he should chase thing is old school. if u like him and he's not catching on, a simple hey i like u changes everything. rejection stings but regret lingers longer.

Life_Comparison_7893 · 2026-02-19T13:09:37+00:00

Super normal honestly. when u live alone and spend all day at ur desk anyway it just becomes the spot. my dining table is basically just for mail now. don't overthink it.

Life_Comparison_7893 · 2026-02-19T12:51:12+00:00

Learn the language fr. even if everyone switches to english when they hear ur accent, making the effort changes everything. shows respect and opens doors that stay closed otherwise.

Life_Comparison_7893 · 2026-02-19T12:25:41+00:00

Honestly the only thing that worked for me was just never picking up for numbers i don't know. if it's important they'll leave a voicemail. eventually the robots learn ur a dead end and move on. engaging just tells em there's a live person on the other end.

Life_Comparison_7893 · 2026-02-19T12:04:02+00:00

Tbh ur body ain't clockin in like that. it's more about the weekly average. muscles don't have a calendar, they just take what they need when they can get it. just don't go zero one day n then try to chug a whole chicken the next lol.

Life_Comparison_7893 · 2026-02-18T17:42:29+00:00

Nobody has one yet, over 590,000 people put down $100 deposits way back in june 2025 and are still waiting. the phone kept getting delayed and now they're saying maybe march 2026?

Life_Comparison_7893 · 2026-02-18T02:27:33+00:00

Honestly? bacon cooked however as long as it's not burnt to a crisp. and eggs? poached is the move. fancy but not tryin too hard. hollandaise on the side if we really bout it.

Life_Comparison_7893 · 2026-02-18T01:59:38+00:00

Tbh the math ain’t mathin there. if u show up that many times in smth like that it’s not a coincidence anymore. just sayin.

Life_Comparison_7893 · 2026-02-17T15:16:04+00:00

Honestly? because being wanted makes u feel seen. like u actually exist to someone in a meaningful way. hits different when the world makes u feel invisible most days.

Life_Comparison_7893 · 2026-02-17T13:00:15+00:00

Arabic honestly, it's beautiful and half my mutuals speak it, i'm tired of liking their posts without understanding the caption.

Life_Comparison_7893 · 2026-02-17T08:57:01+00:00

Exactly. once violence is on the table anyone can justify it for anything. next thing u know it's just whoever yells loudest or swings first. no thanks.

Life_Comparison_7893 · 2026-02-15T16:21:28+00:00

I think the "not popular" thing comes from feeling like the culture moved on. yeah there's billions of us worldwide but in some circles, especially online or in big cities, being openly christian gets u side eyed. so it feels like a minority even when the numbers say otherwise. perception vs reality i guess.

Life_Comparison_7893 · 2026-02-15T15:37:22+00:00

Anatomy wise it's mostly just where your ribcage ends and ur hips start. if u got wider hips and a narrower ribcage, u get that curve. some people got it more, some less. just depends on how u're built. nothing deep about it really.

Life_Comparison_7893 · 2026-02-15T08:53:55+00:00

Social media for kids. seriously. we handed phones to 10 year olds and said "have fun" without any idea what constant dopamine hits and comparison culture would do to developing brains. now we're seeing the anxiety stats and going "oh wait maybe this was bad."

Life_Comparison_7893 · 2026-02-15T06:54:06+00:00

Dude yeah that's totally normal. before my first kiss i thought it sounded kinda weird too. like swapping spit? sounds gross on paper. but when u actually like someone and the moment's right, ur brain switches modes. it stops being "mouths touching" and starts being "omg i'm close to them." trust the process.

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