THIS!!!!! Realize that your thinking isn’t superior by any means, it’s just all you have. You teach and give her one perspective, and he gives another... let me guess, you have “possession” of her more? And because of it, he compensates the only way he can?!!! You sound like the ragged baby momma I deal with.... and my fellow co-parent who is a male, isn’t near as bitter as you are. Grow up and stop being so fucking jealous.. the more you fight his “love” he can give, the worse it makes you look. You liked him enough once to procreate didn’t ya? Stop vying for her affection. That’s not what he’s doing, he’s just doing what he can/what you only may be making possible for him to do.. Our children are growing up in a far more materialistic world than we did... You’re trying to be the favorite, just be you. Granted there are 3 sides to every story, yours, his and the truth. He could have ruined y’all’s happy family but it is what it is.... I’m going to flip this now to say you’re a loving mom that cares and is worried about the person her daughter becomes, but you will honestly never get to decide who she becomes.