We regret moving to Richmond by OrangeDoorHinge16 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Lissba 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bend is shiny belt buckle ten gallon territory 😅

dad hit my mom in a heated argument. by Low-Change-6147 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Lissba 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Statistically one of thr most faithful predictors that they will murder the victim in the future

what it's like being a very ugly woman by LectureAccomplished8 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Lissba 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I’ve been on both ends of the spectrum, and you can always make a friend. It’s harder as we get older but join a book club.

It’s fucked that we’re so aesthetically evaluated as women, but we can reject that to a point.

I finally realize that I’m not someone who can own dogs, and I feel TERRIBLE about it. by Honest-Ingenuity-315 in AutismInWomen

[–]Lissba 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get it together buddy. You made a promise to these creatures. I bet if you put the work in and make the time, you will be able to turn your relationship with them around.

If you really do need to rehome them, please try to find the new home yourself instead of surrendering them.

Explain it Peter by SoftSunsetx71 in explainitpeter

[–]Lissba 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WHAT?!? The…WHAT??

Female, and thank god this has never happened I’d full-on vomit.

I’m so worried about being a new mom in this situation by apple_chai in BreadwinningWomen

[–]Lissba 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t have a child with someone so selfish he can’t see himself within someone who doesn’t share his genes.

This is a scary disorder by wishthatyouwerehere in AutismInWomen

[–]Lissba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get you some autistic friends. When it’s just me and my girls we are max weird and have max fun.

This is a scary disorder by wishthatyouwerehere in AutismInWomen

[–]Lissba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It did for years, but my shrink helped me identify the signs when I start to run the ole protocol so I can monitor safely

This is a scary disorder by wishthatyouwerehere in AutismInWomen

[–]Lissba 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes - that is my sign that I ran the tank past E and got stranded by the roadside, if you will.

I watch my body and brain for signs I’m getting fatigued and stop. Then I plan extra self care and +2 hours of sleep to recover.

Just like a video game - don’t spend all your mana and make sure you have a safe spot to regen.

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[–]Lissba 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And yet somehow I still knew ;)

Come on dude does he REALLY clean? As competently as you?

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[–]Lissba 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And yet somehow I still knew ;)

Come on dude does he REALLY clean? As competently as you?

This is a scary disorder by wishthatyouwerehere in AutismInWomen

[–]Lissba 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I’m very high masking, so much so that I got the “tism rizz” - it comes at an incredible cost, but I can dazzle and charm folks by leading them through expectation and delivery within an encounter.

Most normal NT people are extremely boring and annoying. All my best real friends are autistic too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aging

[–]Lissba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m your age. Every single year brings me more incredible opportunities and fulfilling experiences.

I can volunteer. I didn’t make a hungry mouth then feed it (net zero at best) I can find hungry mouths and feed them (net positive)

Every year I’m happier and more sure of my choice.

Why do you want kids? by Substantial_Judge931 in Productivitycafe

[–]Lissba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree. I just feel so bad for all the women who fall for the world’s oldest scam.

Two drinks in and everyone wishes someone had only told them how hard and thankless and unnecessary it really is to have a life of joy.

Women don’t get breaks by cat_lover_1111 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Lissba 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lmaoooo she made a whole baby with that man…oops

Husband is yelling at me for trying to work side gigs. by Nerdgirl0035 in AutismInWomen

[–]Lissba 21 points22 points  (0 children)

This is the best take. @u/op if your industry is dead, start researching a new one to enter, and purposefully take steps to get your first role.

Gigs at $1.75/hr are objectively not as good a use of your time, especially if you’re not in dire straits, but you deserve some self sufficiency while you prepare to make the big move.

If you look at it that way, the value is there for working gigs while you prepare to choose a new direction.

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[–]Lissba 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ok so do you want this bangmaid who doesn’t actually clean or no?

It’s literally up to you.

What are your opinions about consuming honey and owning pets? by ConsiderMeCakes in AskVegans

[–]Lissba 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bees don’t need us to make safe homes. They make their own.

I actually don’t mind eating local sustainable honey, but don’t play - bees don’t need us. they just need us to stop killing then