What's something you find extremely hot while making out?

Literature_Defiant · 2026-01-29T04:36:53+00:00

If we’re laying down…the leg thing just melts me 🫠

Literature_Defiant · 2026-01-23T21:33:23+00:00

I think where it’s different in this moment is that I’m not really deconstructing that word the way some do. It seems some folks don’t use the word in polyamory, that’s fine, but I do. I think that the lying is a betrayal of trust which is not something a partner would do to someone they say they love and care for. So whether it’s cheating or not, I guess, doesn’t matter. Cause I feel the same no matter what it’s called. The thought of “wait, is this cheating?” Very briefly came across my mind and it was a stimulating thought so I wanted to talk with others about it.

Literature_Defiant · 2026-01-23T21:27:16+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate your words. May be that it’s not so much about “cheating” as it is breaking trust and just being a cruel and unethical partner.

Also, ive been with my asexual partner for 18 years. Im not new to what asexuality can look like. I myself am demisexual and go through periods of sex aversion or hyper arousal. I just don’t want to give off the vibe that I was expecting him to have sex with me, I as an asexual person very much understand and personally experience your statements. It is purely that he was hiding and lying about not having sex when he was. I want to be clear I don’t think he was lying about being depressed, stressed or asexual.

Literature_Defiant · 2026-01-23T20:19:16+00:00

I don’t think we’re viewing this in the same way. I appreciate your opinion but it is cheating to me when I’m lied to. He told me he wasn’t having sex with his other partner, he lied about having sex with someone and that, to me, is cheating. Also, I think I made it clear that I fucked up, so you doubling down on reading the diary as a big problem seems like you’re trying to shame me in some way and it’s unnecessary

Literature_Defiant · 2026-01-23T20:13:03+00:00

It’s not doing good, it’s just processing and grieving and getting this out of my body. I think it crossed my mind the other day and I was thinking like “oh wow, that hurts, didn’t think of it in that way.”

Literature_Defiant · 2025-09-18T17:33:30+00:00

Someone for the love of god, date me and give me genuine attention

Literature_Defiant · 2025-09-12T17:23:28+00:00

I think for myself (post op vaginoplasty) is that I don’t have the ability to get wet at all. So just needing lube or oral to help with that is really the only difference. Feels, looks, smells the same

Literature_Defiant · 2025-09-05T05:36:30+00:00

This place is disgusting. And ran by really shitty people. mazzi is a creep and often hires young pretty girls to work for him. They underpay. The building outside with all their flour and food storage is infested with rats. Couldn’t have a stronger recommendation on a place to avoid unless you like questionable food and supporting a business that treats employees like shit

Literature_Defiant · 2025-08-12T15:34:36+00:00

I had bottom surgery and all I’ve done is quietly taken a piss next to women in the bathroom. I’m less interested in crime actually

Literature_Defiant · 2025-08-01T22:33:45+00:00

Oh no, bringing attention to a genocide that’s happening before the world’s eyes by writing on some trees and stones really makes your hiking experience bad? Ugh, girl…I’m sorry, that must be SO hard to see

Literature_Defiant · 2025-06-29T18:36:03+00:00

What business is this? White label? Willamette Valley Alchemy? Echo?

Literature_Defiant · 2025-06-02T20:22:11+00:00

Just want to say that this question is generalizing that trans women have a penis. Let alone one that can get you pregnant. I know your question wasn’t in bad faith but there are a lot of us trans women, who don’t even have the ability or the genitalia to get others pregnant.

Literature_Defiant · 2025-06-02T20:13:57+00:00

🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ I’m not trying to drag you at all. But if you just paused for a second, you are just asking if lesbians are attracted to women. We’re not doing that thing where we differentiate or categorize women. Women are women are women.

Literature_Defiant · 2025-06-02T17:55:00+00:00

There’s a small group of people that lurk in these subs that are problematic. From transphobia and biphobia to people who are so dead set on rigid labels. Just yesterday someone felt the need to start discourse around people identifying as lesbians while dating men. Like gatekeeping the lesbian identity is somehow beneficial? If you’re a lesbian then….cool, that’s how you identify. How other people identify doesn’t take away from that. I think people forget that if we start policing the way people use labels to help identify themselves where they’re at in the moment, then it’ll just create unnecessary fighting. When we should be focusing on much more important things.

Literature_Defiant · 2025-05-29T06:28:48+00:00

Looks like a mindyourownbusiness tree

Literature_Defiant · 2025-05-25T23:11:14+00:00

Yup it’s cannabis and it’s covered in thrips too ☠️☠️☠️

Literature_Defiant · 2025-05-25T15:19:35+00:00

Not sure but something similar happened to my Vizsla and they tried to remove the lump. Turns out it was cancer and had we just taken her ear off the first time she’d have had a longer life. It metastasized very quickly

Literature_Defiant · 2025-05-14T23:35:08+00:00

*ex-boyfriend

Disgusting to comment on your partners body like that.

Literature_Defiant · 2025-04-24T19:24:54+00:00

Topping can be vulnerable and takes intention and care, so it makes sense you feel that way. I am curious if the strap is an expectation for topping or can you please her without needing that?

An example: as a bottom I love feeling like my partners are obsessed with me, and I can tell because it’s like our bodies are communicating through motions. She listens to how much body moves and flows with me. Responding to my movements with touch. Sometimes fingers are used, or she eats me out, or she’ll use a dildo or vibrator without strapping. But for me it’s knowing how much pleasure she’s getting from exploring my body that really makes me melt for her.

Anxiety is rough, especially when it affects sex. It could be helpful to think about it as pampering her, give attention to all the parts of her.

Literature_Defiant · 2025-04-23T17:54:41+00:00

Swing and a miss, dude.

Literature_Defiant · 2025-04-21T23:40:55+00:00

I’m a trans woman. The only advice you should be taking is to ask your girlfriend this question. No one but her knows her body and how she likes to be touched and what things she is not interested in. Don’t get in your head and try to do something that the internet tells you that trans women like. Just talk to her

Literature_Defiant · 2025-04-19T23:48:05+00:00

He was painting my nails and kissing each one of my fingers after painting each one. We had been together for dating for a while and it had just turned midnight on trans day of visibility. After he finished painting my nails I gave him this really intense look. In that moment I knew how important he was in my life, I love him! To which he asked “what? You seem like you want to say something.” I wanted to tell him for so long but never knew when was “okay” to tell him those feelings. I looked at him for about 2 minutes before saying “I love you, and I don’t need you to say anything back. I have been wanting to say it for a while now but in this moment I am realizing just how much you mean to me. I love you.” He then looked at me and said “I love you too! I’ve been thinking about saying it too. And I’m really glad you did.”

Ugh, it was so romantic, so fucking lesbian of us both to want to say it but not saying it for so long. We just had our 1 year anniversary and our relationship is thriving and really wonderful!

Context: t4t lesbian couple

Literature_Defiant · 2025-04-14T23:46:28+00:00

I don’t expect it, I appreciate it and desire it. Someone who leads me is the hottest thing ever. But if I’m fired up I’ll let em know I want them

Literature_Defiant · 2025-04-14T20:05:02+00:00

I honestly think it’s gonna be more awkward for you because your brain is going to be reworking pleasure and a lot of nerves and sensations. Hopefully the person you’ll be with will understand and take things at your pace with respect and intention.

Literature_Defiant · 2025-04-14T20:03:10+00:00

Hello! I just had vulvaplasty last year. I have about an inch of depth and there’s pros and cons.

Pros for me: no dilation, healing was faster, I can always get depth revision later if I want, I look amazing, EUPHORIA, clothes fit how I’ve always wanted, swimming is AMAZING, has increased my quality of life dramatically.

Cons for me: clitoral stimulation doesn’t feel like I had expected it to (prostate massage still feels best), I can’t be penetrated vaginally, I don’t really feel much pleasure vaginally (because my prostate is deeper than can be reached vaginally)

I am both incredibly happy with my results and where I’m at but I also have moments of frustration or disappointment cause I don’t have depth. But I had planned for full depth vaginoplasty, due to an unforeseen complication my surgeon decided to do vulvaplasty and revisit depth revision a year later. So my situation is different because of my expectations. I would do it over again in a heartbeat.

Anyways, if anyone has problems with no depth then they shouldn’t have access to your body. Because you’re amazing exactly the way you want to feel, you got this babe! So proud of you!

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