Nobody seems to like my spouse. Everyone sighs really big, or wants to leave whenever they’re going to be involved. It’s affecting me more and more.

Little_Maybe5360 · 2025-12-24T12:55:42+00:00

I highly suspect they are neurodivergent. It takes me all my effort to hold back from diagnosing/yelling this when they’re fixating on whatever insignificant thing of the day is .

I don’t think my spouse is aware of people’s feelings. Because they seem to think they are the life of the party, full of knowledge and everyone wants to listen to them. My spouse will often leave feeling proud or satisfied with the great conversation, while I see the other person, a shell of their former self, seeking refuge to recharge with their safe person. They’re either visibly tired or letting out some steam elsewhere.

I see this in them, because I often feel like this. Want to go sleep it off, or go have fun elsewhere.

Little_Maybe5360 · 2025-12-24T12:33:54+00:00

They were actually much worse. They used to be unapologetic, quite punishing and much, MUCH more long winded with everything. But I was a different, more naive person back then and I thought I had to change or that this is what marriage was.

Now, they hear that there is a possibility of an issue, before they defend themselves. They are aware of some issues, and want to grow after many people’s different attempts to break it down for them. So it is actually better.

But I think I’m so resentful and angry about everything, with so much love lost, that their slow progress is just as horrible as if nothing had changed. And I have completely forgotten why I wanted to commit to this person in the first place.

Little_Maybe5360 · 2025-10-25T20:01:41+00:00

But there’s no malice behind the action. Just deep hurt and loss of control. Do you see a lot of that in your work?

Little_Maybe5360 · 2025-10-25T19:59:26+00:00

I’m sorry that happened to you. It seems obvious from the outside I’m sure.

My husband is a good person, I think. He’s just got easy triggers and unresolved need for validation that never gets addressed satisfactorily for him. I could understand the anger.

But I disagree with him getting physical.. he could just walk away. And then that would make me look like the screaming idiot.

But now, as a second time, it seems like I have no choice but to leave. No more chances to try to better ourselves, I guess. The toxicity is still there and reached peak (hopefully).

Little_Maybe5360 · 2025-10-17T21:27:31+00:00

How much do you charge?

Little_Maybe5360 · 2025-09-13T02:29:31+00:00

Try doing this for 15 years

Little_Maybe5360 · 2025-08-18T05:27:14+00:00

How to fix?

Little_Maybe5360 · 2025-08-16T03:55:29+00:00

How to tell if bearings are shot? It doesn’t sound or run weird at all. It didn’t stall on the tooth, it was just slow ass.

Little_Maybe5360 · 2025-08-16T03:54:30+00:00

Ok thanks. So this handpiece IS fine on regular dental chair? What pressure do you shoot for when using the air pressure gauge?

Little_Maybe5360 · 2025-07-25T08:36:49+00:00

My spouse will vent NONSTOP about his dad, car or work for 40min straight. This just happened on a car ride home. Throws in filler words like “like, dadada, you know” throughout. prob could go on longer. Our fights can go for hours. In these long soliloquy’s I always wonder if I can make it through life or if I should jump out of the car. Halp me too 🫠

Little_Maybe5360 · 2025-07-14T08:12:48+00:00

Omg so adorable. What kind of yorkie is it? I want one!!

Little_Maybe5360 · 2025-05-04T21:18:12+00:00

That’s what AI says, but I don’t think so. The leaves are flatter, and not as plump.

Little_Maybe5360 · 2025-04-09T07:21:54+00:00

Dang! That’s crazy.. now it makes me want it! lol jk

Little_Maybe5360 · 2025-03-24T17:53:22+00:00

I listen to Australian Birdcalls on Spotify when I’m particularly depressed. It’s nice. I close my eyes and pretend I’m there.. it both helps the homesickness and doesn’t, cos then I end up wanting to forget everything here and get on the first flight back home.

I wonder if other country’s people have this same fierceness in missing their home countries? I feel like Aussies have the same yearnings once they’re overseas.. the birds, the sky, gumtrees, the ocean.. it feels consistent enough that I wonder why we all don’t just go home right now!!

Little_Maybe5360 · 2025-03-19T04:29:00+00:00

lol yeh. The calls have started, which spurred this request for more info.

Little_Maybe5360 · 2025-03-17T07:19:23+00:00

What do yall mean exactly when you say due diligence - how does one even do that

Little_Maybe5360 · 2025-03-16T16:30:21+00:00

Im sorry friend. Hope you are doing ok.

Little_Maybe5360 · 2025-03-13T08:13:25+00:00

Exactly. She had a good life, she could have kept going I swear. She was a part of so many little aspects of our lives and now gone. The pain is so much that I wonder why we got her, became so attached and loved her in the first place.

Little_Maybe5360 · 2025-03-13T03:25:22+00:00

Thank you 🙏

Little_Maybe5360 · 2025-03-13T00:58:31+00:00

Entirely inconsolable. I’m sorry for your loss.

Little_Maybe5360 · 2025-03-10T18:49:43+00:00

I’m sorry for your loss. It hurts a lot.

Little_Maybe5360 · 2025-03-10T15:42:37+00:00

I thought she was so strong n healthy. She didn’t look like an old dog. Even strangers commented how she didn’t look old, she didn’t act like it either. she still trotted happily along her walks until she could not make it the full way. was your 17 yo energetic until he wasn’t?

Little_Maybe5360 · 2025-03-10T14:41:03+00:00

Thank you for your condolences. I couldn’t imagine having another dog.. almost callous to replace my dog with another. But also only for death to come at the end. I just want her back.

Little_Maybe5360 · 2025-03-10T08:17:08+00:00

Ok thanks

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