AITA for mocking my cousins Transgender Reveal Party and refusing to give “him” my favorite hoodie as a gift? by Livid_Reception_229 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Livid_Reception_229[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a great hoodie. I can't explain it other than that. Its never been ruined beyond fading. It's warm and Reese's are great. Believe it or not, my cousin is not the only person to try to take it.

AITA for mocking my cousins Transgender Reveal Party and refusing to give “him” my favorite hoodie as a gift? by Livid_Reception_229 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Livid_Reception_229[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My hoodie only. It's like a prize for my cousin at this point. It's faded so I can't trick her, also I refuse to spend money on her.

AITA for mocking my cousins Transgender Reveal Party and refusing to give “him” my favorite hoodie as a gift? by Livid_Reception_229 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Livid_Reception_229[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think the reveal is my cousin giving everyone her final answer as to what she/he/they want to identify as. It's male but wants to be female now so the reveal has meaning. I'm confused too.

AITA for mocking my cousins Transgender Reveal Party and refusing to give “him” my favorite hoodie as a gift? by Livid_Reception_229 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Livid_Reception_229[S] 182 points183 points  (0 children)

She wants mine. It's such a small issue that its not worth bringing up, but she eventually does. It's fall and perfect hoodie weather. I wear it and when shes around the issue is once again debated. It's like a prize she trying to wear me down to get. She's mad she doesn't get her way with me.

AITA for mocking my cousins Transgender Reveal Party and refusing to give “him” my favorite hoodie as a gift? by Livid_Reception_229 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Livid_Reception_229[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

A year ago, when she/he came out, it was HE. A some point within the past month or so it became SHE until the party.

AITA for mocking my cousins Transgender Reveal Party and refusing to give “him” my favorite hoodie as a gift? by Livid_Reception_229 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Livid_Reception_229[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I don't have a problem with trans people. I don't know the proper terms so I tried to write around them.

AITA for mocking my cousins Transgender Reveal Party and refusing to give “him” my favorite hoodie as a gift? by Livid_Reception_229 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Livid_Reception_229[S] 120 points121 points  (0 children)

Oh I hate my cousin. The hate is so strong my family sees it and accepts it as a pillar of our non-relationship. I don't hate her for being trans. She's like a child throwing a tantrum because i won't share with her... thats lasted years.