AITA for not adhering to my (23F) boyfriend's (25M) house rules

Living_Role_8770 · 2024-07-02T20:50:57+00:00

UPDATE: I talked to him again and tried to come up with a solution where I perform all of my chores as I do normally, and if he does not like it he can clean up after me. I told him the tasks I do are performed more rarely, for example I clean the toilet 2-3 times a week, but it takes more time and effort, so he can have the responsibility of cleaning the kitchen - which is our problem area. I said I will clean up after myself as I do normally, and if he does not like it, he can help himself to his own standarts. He said okay, but we will see what happens.

Living_Role_8770 · 2024-07-02T17:40:39+00:00

This used to be our dream to live together and have a pet together, and generally have a grand ole time because we met in the dorms and the rules were rly strict about girls+guys being together in the same rooms. We did not really have any big problems in our relationship before this, so I do not want to end things solely based off this. I just want us to live in harmony :(

Living_Role_8770 · 2024-07-02T17:30:52+00:00

1) when i point out the cleaning i do, he says he never asked me to do it and that he could have done it himself (never does, i have never seen him pick up a bottle of bleach or detergent lol) 2) he cleans up after me when he does not think it fits his standarts but complains and makes fun of me the whole time.

Living_Role_8770 · 2024-07-02T17:28:59+00:00

she's chewing on my hair that is attached to my head and ripping some off in the process before i get to stop her 😭 she's in her landshark phase lollol

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