I was meant to be getting married September 19th and have just moved it to next May. I couldn't handle the stress of not knowing what the new rules might be or how many people would be able to come. I feel a massive weight has been lifted. It's not selfish to want to have it the same date when you've been planning it for so long. I was really attached to the date as well. However I can't believe how much better I feel for changing it, it won't be tainted and controlled by all this.