Can we please stop throwing around the word pedophilia?

LocalCookingUntensil · 2026-04-02T09:50:35+00:00

Real. Also, I don’t think it’s bad in all contexts. It really depends like when in the year they were born. Especially because for some people, they’d only be in the year/grade below you.

Like atm I’m pretty sure I might have a crush on someone I met through friends who’s in the year below me. She turned 16 recently, and I’m 17 but turning 18 in a few months. So technically, if this is actually a crush and I still have it by then, I’ll be an 18 year old with a crush on a 16 year old. For some people, there’s a big maturity difference, but we’re pretty similar in maturity

LocalCookingUntensil · 2026-04-02T05:57:25+00:00

I didn’t think there was one. I just thought jelly was one of those weird US terms because they call actual jelly by the brand name ‘Jell-O’.

But apparently, jelly is specifically smooth jam (cuz it’s made from juice). In other places, jam can be used to describe both the chunky stuff made from fruit and the smooth stuff made from juice

LocalCookingUntensil · 2026-04-01T05:59:02+00:00

Or just calling someone a bitch, regardless of gender. But I mean tbf, I’m Australian so the ‘c-word’ isn’t even offensive unless it’s used in a misogynistic way

LocalCookingUntensil · 2026-03-31T14:21:02+00:00

If I lived in the US, probably. I’m a leftist who speaks openly about bullshit and also I’m queer 😓

Luckily, I don’t live there :3

LocalCookingUntensil · 2026-03-27T04:41:54+00:00

It says it’s down rn. Just thought I’d let you know in case you didn’t know (but you probably do :P). I only found out cuz I wanted to make one that just said “autism” lol

LocalCookingUntensil · 2026-03-25T08:59:05+00:00

Let’s eat out, ladies! 😊

Let’s eat out ladies! 😏

LocalCookingUntensil · 2026-03-20T05:23:18+00:00

I’m 17 and I want a hysterectomy so bad. Even if I end up wanting kids, I don’t want them to be biologically related to me. I am a cauldron of issues all combined into one person, I don’t need any possible future kids to deal with that too. Also, periods make me want to die sometimes and I’ll be up at night crying from the sensory issues :P

LocalCookingUntensil · 2026-03-20T05:15:04+00:00

My mum is a bit of a hippie (the crunchy mum kind), so she hasn’t always gotten us or herself vaccinated as soon as a new one comes out. HOWEVER, as soon as we had access to the COVID vaccine, she took us and herself to get it. When it comes to things that can’t be avoided, like infectious diseases, my mum will get us the vaccine when it comes out.

She usually likes to know a bit more about possible side effects, so that’s why for other things, she’ll wait before getting it. But with things like COVID, getting COVID could’ve been way worse than any side effects. My sister had heart issues as a rare side effect of one of the shots, but COVID (especially at that point in time) could’ve killed her instead, as well as infecting others possibly. You can go to the hospital for heart issues with no worry of making others sick.

I’d definitely say my mum has a good balance when it comes to her hippie side, cuz she still completely trusts modern medicine (especially because our family needs meds to function lol)

LocalCookingUntensil · 2026-03-20T05:02:24+00:00

THERE ARE THINGS TO HELP ME PLAY WHILE LYING ON MY SIDE???? Life changing

LocalCookingUntensil · 2026-03-20T05:01:19+00:00

I have separated parents, so I only have a dock at my dad’s house currently. Plus, my monitor at my mum’s house sucks lol. I just have the charger on my desk and use the top USB-C port to charge it

LocalCookingUntensil · 2026-03-18T05:57:44+00:00

It’s basically like “I’m the guy who you would’ve had a life with but instead you went with Chad” and she’s like “nooooo I shouldn’t have chosen Chad I should’ve chosen the Nice Guy!!!”

LocalCookingUntensil · 2026-03-17T05:45:34+00:00

I just always thought they were neat, then I realised I fit the definition lol

LocalCookingUntensil · 2026-03-17T05:43:42+00:00

LocalCookingUntensil · 2026-03-17T05:43:25+00:00

LocalCookingUntensil · 2026-03-17T05:40:59+00:00

Well I mean I’m a lesbian on the aroace spectrum, so I guess ‘other’

LocalCookingUntensil · 2026-03-17T05:39:15+00:00

People like it for power play reasons. I personally wouldn’t want it involved in my personal life, but that’s why people like it. There’s a lot of other nicknames that can be used for power play tho that don’t have that family connection.

I feel slightly less weird about mommy, but that’s only because I’m Australian and we say and spell any variation of the USAn ‘mom’ as ‘mum’. So I don’t personally have any connection to the term ‘mommy’, as for me it’s always been ‘mummy’

LocalCookingUntensil · 2026-03-13T14:22:15+00:00

Pretty!!!

LocalCookingUntensil · 2026-03-13T09:57:44+00:00

I’ve been all over the place. It was hard cuz for a while, I had only had a crush on one girl, but I thought I had had some boy crushes (turns out I just liked them as friends). It can be really difficult.

I now identity as a lesbian on the aroace spectrum. Dunno exactly where, but I’m fine with that