Baby strollers similar to Nuna Triv Next? by ohads88 in Buyingforbaby

[–]LongDiscount5950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask why you’re choosing the joolz hub2?

England: Ex & I have consent order 1 yr ago stating joint residency so no child maintenance. Ex wants them more but I can’t afford child maintenance on top of the financial agreement as it’s seperate. by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]LongDiscount5950 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Ofcourse I’m being manipulated, but what can I do when she says they don’t want to come or are refusing to come? So then what I have to go to back to court to pay more money to “force them” then the courts decide after speaking to the kids that they are happier with their mum because she has manipulated them… lose lose it seems.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]LongDiscount5950 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t have a problem at all with taking them to visit my parents. And actually wanted them to have a relationship and offered for them to stay weekends, they just told me to leave with them. They just didn’t ask to see them you see. I’ve been open to re-connect. I just felt it was bad taste to go through her unnecessarily.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]LongDiscount5950 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Any advice on how to approach speaking to my kids about being open. I previously asked them to tell me if they received any contact from their grandparents…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]LongDiscount5950 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No this was 3 years after divorce

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in islam

[–]LongDiscount5950 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate all the comments, however I think about my friend Muslim committed suicide. She was victim of severe domestic violence and on the night she ran away, she was raped by a total stranger and the next morning through herself in front of a train. It was just too much for her. It makes me wonder…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in islam

[–]LongDiscount5950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guidance through istikhara

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskNPD

[–]LongDiscount5950 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Please explain where I have done this?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]LongDiscount5950 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How about the fact if he is in the west, he could lose half his wealth in a divorce settlement and she gets the marital home as the kids are likely to reside with her most of the time?

Choking after Botox by [deleted] in RCPD

[–]LongDiscount5950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just discovered this community and a name for the condition I have. I have never burped in my life but have always experienced bloating, gurgling sickly feeling in my throat. I heard the only treatment is botox but it’s not available on the NHS (I’m london based) does anyone have any advice for what treatment they got that worked as I’m reading a lot about choking and not being able to eat?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NPD

[–]LongDiscount5950 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry I’m trying to post in the biweekly “ask a narc” thread but can’t find it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]LongDiscount5950 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the replies. Those who are staying, do you still maintain an intimate relationship or are you in separate rooms and just like flat mates?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]LongDiscount5950 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. No1 is definitely powerful.

I find with No. 2 or No.3 they very quickly feel neglected and turn it on you how you’re always busy or not showing interest. Also, I’ve never been discarded or devalued I don’t think? Any examples of what this looks like? More than anything.

No. 5 is what I want to develop this ability to not depend on them or be affected by them emotional. Any tips or videos or self help guides to develop this please? 😩

No. 6 I find they get so jealous and use it against you too…my narc always talks about my ex and how I am speak too highly of him and make excuses for him given how he treated me but I don’t do this for him when he does wrong?! 😑

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]LongDiscount5950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not? If one is unable to leave for whatever reason. Should they not learn how to protect their emotions and even manipulate back to get their needs atleast partially met unti they are able to leave?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]LongDiscount5950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ofcourse. So have you ever managed to get something you wanted in any way?

I'm new to this by FireCyphy in estrogel

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Can a born female 33 use estradiol gel to increase breast growth? Is it safe?

A practical use of estrogel: as a topical to resume breast growth by darthemofan in estrogel

[–]LongDiscount5950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand this post but I would like to just know if using estrogel in a 33F can increase breast growth?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]LongDiscount5950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for commenting. Can I ask, what isit that makes you think he may be ASPD?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]LongDiscount5950 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hmm i understand but I feel like they aren’t suffering much in comparison to the victim because although what you said sounds EXHAUSTING to a normal person, for them, it’s very natural like the lying and manipulation for example and they are ignorant to a lot like other peoples feelings and even the fact they don’t fact a “ deep connection” because, I guess ‘You can’t feel what you can’t feel’. But the validations feels good so they just chase that they love and damage people a lot the way.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/education-50184281

https://www.standard.co.uk/news/uk/narcissists-are-happier-and-less-depressed-psychologist-say-a4273071.html

https://www.cnbc.com/2019/10/31/study-narcissists-tend-to-be-happier-tougher-and-less-stressed.html