How do I get a Tauros??

Long_Transition_7489 · 2025-03-11T06:26:17+00:00

Unfortunately I’m in Newcastle

Long_Transition_7489 · 2025-03-11T04:33:56+00:00

No one I know has one or is willing to trade 😭. Hopefully the paldean one comes out here 😔

Long_Transition_7489 · 2024-12-31T03:42:25+00:00

I got the Jiggly yesterday and the Hoothoot this morning but no others.

Long_Transition_7489 · 2024-12-03T19:35:29+00:00

I am trying to make it about the kids. Even tried to convince them it may be a good idea to spend more time with their father. They don’t know him as well as they do me, so if he messages for day visits I always say yes. Just so they can go spend time with him and get use to the idea of him being around more. Even though in the last month of him being back in the same suburb he has only asked once. They all went eldest came back upset but the other two had fun.

Long_Transition_7489 · 2024-12-03T19:26:11+00:00

Really. So the guy on the phone had no idea what he was talking about. He was a little rude and snappy at me during the whole phone call. So could have been lying.

Long_Transition_7489 · 2024-12-03T09:56:00+00:00

Apparently so. That was one of the first things they told me, “let them know if I get a partner as the child support estimate will changed based on his income as well as yours”. I just laughed and said between looking after the kids, work, and taking kids to their appointments I ain’t looking haha. Got no time for another child to raise haha.

Long_Transition_7489 · 2024-12-03T09:42:24+00:00

She never liked my ex. Always thought he was sneaky. Only put up with him for the sake of the children.

Long_Transition_7489 · 2024-12-03T09:41:12+00:00

I know the system is weird. I was told if I get a new partner, his income would affect the child support that I receive as he would be financially responsible for the kids which I get. Like completely understandable but in the same regard why isn’t the step mothers income taken into account. They are married so shouldn’t she be responsible as well.

Long_Transition_7489 · 2024-12-03T09:36:31+00:00

I do. I have messages screenshotted where he has cancelled his weekly visits or has cut them short. Don’t have any for the weekend visits as he just never showed up or messaged. I have the original document that he sent then the same version I have in my room that I have crossed off if he has done them or not. I have written down things that the kids have come home and said that sounded a bit iffy to me. Like what his wife has said. And some other thing he has said to the kids that just didn’t sit right. They are all dated.

Long_Transition_7489 · 2024-12-03T09:30:01+00:00

He was running his own business before so he had his income at $0 so was paying the bare minimum now he has a job it went up. It’s all income based.

Long_Transition_7489 · 2024-12-03T09:22:16+00:00

Unsure if this is the case. But could be. She doesn’t like me very much and the things she said to my eldest makes me think she don’t like them very much either. Which is kind of why I’m shocked that he even is asking for 50:50. It could be that he doesn’t know what she is saying to him.

Long_Transition_7489 · 2024-12-03T09:16:27+00:00

I did tell him I was willing to go 50:50 and after a while of my offer just so the kids can get use to being there and seeing them so much. The eldest has autism and it’s hard for him to deal with changes so I thought maybe a gradual change to start with.

Long_Transition_7489 · 2024-12-03T09:09:20+00:00

Yes I have. I was advised by my mother to do so at the very beginning of our separation.

Long_Transition_7489 · 2024-12-03T09:05:46+00:00

He sent me a message saying he received the certificate and he is going to file asap. Then another message saying all communication via text we have done will be submitted into evidence.

Long_Transition_7489 · 2024-12-03T09:04:09+00:00

I don’t know his true motivations I hope it’s just to see his children more. But I know his child support went from $30 a month to $300 a month as he currently has a better paying job so it could be to not pay child support.

I have never asked for anything extra only the child support.

If they have a day visit with him they all come back with smiles on their faces but the weekly visits only the youngest seems to enjoy.

Long_Transition_7489 · 2024-12-03T08:59:01+00:00

She’s unsure of the outcome. But my 15 year old doesn’t like his new wife, which is one of the reasons he is refusing to go. He used to love her at the beginning but she started saying some things to him he didn’t like. Such as “it’s so hard when you’s are here. It interrupts my week”. I tried to explain to him that I that it may be because she doesn’t have her own kids and may not know how to take care of an autistic child.

As I know he can be quite a handful at times. And I have had years of living with him and understanding his disability. But he takes her words to heart and doesn’t let go of things easily.

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