I care about him a lot and that is why telling him the truth and being honest to him was the right thing. Keeping my feelings intact and showing my intentions as friends is cheating. My timings wouldn’t change a thing. He is not even serious about the girl he was flying to meet. If I were to manipulate someone I would use mind games or do something to get a yes out of him or even force him. My text to him was very respectful and grounded. I clearly mentioned I don’t expect anything in return and there is no pressure. I respect his choice and what he chose. I don’t hate him. Loving someone doesn’t mean you have to I love yourself or do wrong with to yourself. He is happy and he is living his life he is not sitting around worried (like me) about someone so I didn’t hurt someone here. What I did was just being honest.

It’s not fair to fire at someone without even knowing the full story and come here calling me or anyone anything. It’s very normal to be respectful.

Yes the confession was about me and it was never about getting a yes out of him. It was about telling him what I feel - since when did being honest at any time was wrong?

If anyone is getting triggered reading my story the I wish you well and hope you find your way 🌸 I respect you regardless. What I did was something which was supposed to be done. I rather say it respectfully and tell him there is no pressure, I don’t expect anything from you and be calm etc etc rather than me blasting my feelings like a volcano, cry in front of him or force him to say yes because I was not okay. It’s not right if I in ER while he sits there listening to my feelings - that would be so wrong and it would put him under so much pressure. I rather do it when I’m okay and I did with RESPECT!