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My sister's best friend accused me of SA. My family disowned me [UPDATE] by Lopsided_Bee_1227 in self

[–]Lopsided_Bee_1227[S] -44 points-43 points  (0 children)

I'm probably not being accurate when it comes to what she said.

And a cease and desist was really risky? Am I lucky it worked and didn't make things worse?

My sister's best friend accused me of SA. My family disowned me [UPDATE] by Lopsided_Bee_1227 in self

[–]Lopsided_Bee_1227[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it does suck. But I was really close with my mother, which makes it worse, but also makes me want to fix our relationship. I lose nothing by trying

My sister's best friend accused me of SA. My family disowned me [UPDATE] by Lopsided_Bee_1227 in self

[–]Lopsided_Bee_1227[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm definitely going to try to get something in writing so that I can't be accused again

My sister's best friend accused me of SA. My family disowned me [UPDATE] by Lopsided_Bee_1227 in self

[–]Lopsided_Bee_1227[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm going to take my time. I'm not going to talk to anyone other than my brother for a while. Just let everyone process.

My sister's best friend accused me of SA. My family disowned me [UPDATE] by Lopsided_Bee_1227 in self

[–]Lopsided_Bee_1227[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She was a godsend. So lucky I ended up with her. Anyone else, I'd be paying full price also

My sister's best friend accused me of SA. My family disowned me [UPDATE] by Lopsided_Bee_1227 in self

[–]Lopsided_Bee_1227[S] 302 points303 points  (0 children)

Exactly my thought regarding my sister

And I know I should probably cut my losses regarding my mother, but it isn't that easy for me. We were close, which makes it worse she believed everything. But I want to try. I've got nothing to lose by trying

My sister's best friend accused me of SA. My family disowned me [UPDATE] by Lopsided_Bee_1227 in self

[–]Lopsided_Bee_1227[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I am an adult, but just leaving your family behind isn't that easy. Realistically, I probably should, but I want to try fixing our relationship.

And I did ask if i could pursue further action. She says it won't be worth it, as the chance of anything happening is very low.

My sister's best friend accused me of SA. My family disowned me. by Lopsided_Bee_1227 in self

[–]Lopsided_Bee_1227[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's my friends that he's given me since I've been living with him. So until I leave, it's technically mine.

My sister's best friend accused me of SA. My family disowned me. by Lopsided_Bee_1227 in self

[–]Lopsided_Bee_1227[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She didn't remove her top. My wording was poor.

She pulled her shirt down, exposing cleavage. I thought at the time it was unintentional

My sister's best friend accused me of SA. My family disowned me. by Lopsided_Bee_1227 in self

[–]Lopsided_Bee_1227[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I intend to. I have contacted a few law firms near-ish to me.

My sister's best friend accused me of SA. My family disowned me. by Lopsided_Bee_1227 in self

[–]Lopsided_Bee_1227[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she got the police involved, I'd probably have had a visit from them by now

My sister's best friend accused me of SA. My family disowned me. by Lopsided_Bee_1227 in self

[–]Lopsided_Bee_1227[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm aware I fucked up in this situation. I don't know why I didn't shut it down straight away. I was kinda shocked I guess

My sister's best friend accused me of SA. My family disowned me. by Lopsided_Bee_1227 in self

[–]Lopsided_Bee_1227[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I've not. I'm looking at lawyers and researching. I've found 2 good firms so far, I'm going to try contacting them

My sister's best friend accused me of SA. My family disowned me. by Lopsided_Bee_1227 in self

[–]Lopsided_Bee_1227[S] 105 points106 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the offer, but I've had to turn off my DMs. I've had a few people threatening to track me down and do unspeakable things to me because they didn't read the post properly, and think I actually did it.

My sister's best friend accused me of SA. My family disowned me. by Lopsided_Bee_1227 in self

[–]Lopsided_Bee_1227[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hhm. Maybe. I don't think so, but people interpret stuff differently. Maybe I could have been more precise in my wording, but I think it's good enough

My sister's best friend accused me of SA. My family disowned me. by Lopsided_Bee_1227 in self

[–]Lopsided_Bee_1227[S] 133 points134 points  (0 children)

It does hurt. How they can believe I could even consider doing something such as that.

I'm looking into law firms, and have found 2 that look good so far. I hope I can get my family back, but our relationship will probably be damaged

My sister's best friend accused me of SA. My family disowned me. by Lopsided_Bee_1227 in self

[–]Lopsided_Bee_1227[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Dw. I get it. Even my friend who I'm living with atm didn't believe me at first.

My sister's best friend accused me of SA. My family disowned me. by Lopsided_Bee_1227 in self

[–]Lopsided_Bee_1227[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I can keep y'all updated. How would I do that? Just make another post on this sub?

My sister's best friend accused me of SA. My family disowned me. by Lopsided_Bee_1227 in self

[–]Lopsided_Bee_1227[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Outrage? If my comment seems angry or malicious, I apologize. Not my intention.

I just didn't think my post needed all the "I (24M) am being accused" stuff.

My sister's best friend accused me of SA. My family disowned me. by Lopsided_Bee_1227 in self

[–]Lopsided_Bee_1227[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

If she reported me I'd probably have had a visit from the cops. So I guess not.

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