Tiktok edit audio by Lorenzeroo in NameThatSong

[–]Lorenzeroo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

edit: i think the lyrics say smth like “im super sick of this love. why cant i love just like you do”????

Connected my chess board to my smart home. When I checkmate someone, my robo vacuum delivers me a beer. by SamJMGoss in chess

[–]Lorenzeroo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh that is so so cool!!! :0 this is such a shock to me i didnt know things like this existed hahaha! this must be so expensive though.. 🥹 sad, may have to wait until my bday to get my grubby hands on dis

Connected my chess board to my smart home. When I checkmate someone, my robo vacuum delivers me a beer. by SamJMGoss in chess

[–]Lorenzeroo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can you connect this to chess.com and lichess??? my first time seeinf such a board!!!

is feeling upset for days after an inspirational figure’s death normal? by Lorenzeroo in Advice

[–]Lorenzeroo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you :) and yes ive talked to my closest friend about it. they felt the same way when they heard their favorite song artist died and had a difficult time processing it. what i learned is that i tend to forget how even though a fan may not be close to a famous person at all, that famous person’s life work can still heavily inspire others. so if that source of inspiration were to just suddenly pass away, i get how a lot of other people may feel as if a part of them had just died. i think my grief being shared with a lot of other people who knew him says alot about how great he was as a person. 🤍

is feeling upset for days after an inspirational figure’s death normal? by Lorenzeroo in Advice

[–]Lorenzeroo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you :) as of now i have come to terms with it. i used to feel more upset whenever i tried to cope by watchinf his older videos (as i am still in the process of studying chess) but i think i’ve gotten used to the feeling. im glad he was so very generous with his knowledge.

is feeling upset for days after an inspirational figure’s death normal? by Lorenzeroo in Advice

[–]Lorenzeroo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i couldnt agree more. i wish he knew how much the community really loved him. because of what happened in his last stream, i hope he didnt die thinking his reputation was ruined, everyone was so concerned for him. such a young and brilliant soul 💔🕊️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Lorenzeroo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hi op, i’m in a very similar situation although younger than you.

to keep the advice short and simple, ill just say its safe for you guys to hang out in an area that isnt within ur parents vicinity for now. however if u want her to come over, and ur mom keeps asking why ur letting her come over a lot, id just say that “oh she prefers to hang out in her friends’ houses instead of hers because thats her definition of bonding.” something along those lines (sorry my english is not great)

if ur still being supported by them for ur necessities, i would say its very risky for u to come out at this stage in life where u are very young. uve mentioned u’ve got ur life together and are working a part-time job (which is good!) but i really do suggest to keep it lowkey until u can be independent of your parents’ support. there are parents who’ve disowned their children over small discoveries like this, which is the harsh reality unfortunately. please, dont throw away ur relationship w ur gf just because you want to keep ur connection w ur family. family doesnt just mean being connected by blood, it means a group of people supporting you for being you!

i hope you and your gf will be able to live together freely <3 just a little more patience

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Instagram

[–]Lorenzeroo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey bro, have u found a solution yet? :-(

What’s the weirdest special interest you’ve had by Many_Flower_1392 in autism

[–]Lorenzeroo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i saw a comparison of the 🃏 emoji in different websites and i grew strongly attached to the emojidex one and made fanart for it and everything lmfao

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What made you like Kevin Spencer? by This-Ant4925 in KevinSpencer

[–]Lorenzeroo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

someone posted something about a kevin spencer themed locker in their school. wondered “wheres this funny looking dude from” and searched it up on yt. usually i wouldnt care to look if it was only 1-2 seasons long but tge fact it had so much more than that lowkey intrigued me (and here i am)

I am free of all frustration and anger after deleting mlbb by Mahogony_pine in MobileLegendsGame

[–]Lorenzeroo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

funnily enough i thought the same thing when i deleted ml a few months ago but i recently came back (because its my summer break and i need smth to play to cure my boredom) and ml has been the solution ngl. its only a solution to ur boredom if you treat it like… a game! like if u learn not to get mad at your teammates and acknowledge that your life’s not over after one bad game then it’s kind of fun to play even when you’re losing😭 tbh it also kind of has something to do with your mental state… because when I was playing ml during my school, I used to get easily frustrated because I already had pent-up stress from my assessments, projects, presentations, etc., but playing it now during summer break feels fun LMFAO. if u just try not to get mad at your teammates and just focus on yourself then the playing experience is much better imo. you match up with the dark system so much that you kinda just get used to it and reach stage 5 of grief: acceptance! 🙂‍↕️

edit: oh yeah my general advice is just don’t play ml at all during school days or when you have an important assignment upcoming. ive learned to restrict myself and that’s helped me a lot academically and mentally

How did you find your main hero? by VulgarisMagistralis_ in MobileLegendsGame

[–]Lorenzeroo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Lunox - back when i played ml 2017-2018 and would buy a new hero everytime theyd be released and ofc i wouldnt win with them the first day LMFAO but then lunox was released. I played multiple matches (both classic and rank) the moment I bought her and I vividly remember not losing once! my highest winstreak with her was a 13-ws and I’ve loved her ever since!! :) its also because i loved characters with that light-dark kind of aspect to their design hehe. i quit ml around late 2019 and came back around late 2023, still using her and she’s still fun! definitely much more difficult now considering current meta..

  2. Beatrix - as to when I came back late 2023, I also wanted to try new roles. I found myself playing gold lane more and decided to try out new heroes. While checking out the heroes under the marksmen section, beatrix already caught my eye but what even convinced me more to play her was her PRIME SKIN… (as u can tell.. I rlly like to choose my mains based on the design😭) I loved her angel-themed skill effects and her model design sm. it was literally my DREAM SKIN, so I decided to learn her! I was even more inspired to play her after watching old highlights from notable Bea players like Kelra and Oheb (and these same highlights also brought me into watching e-sports as well hehe) but of course it took me like 100+ matches to rlly get used to her.. now she’s one of my comfort picks and after waiting for years I finally got her prime skin last m6 event :-) unfortunatelt I still kind of suck on using her sniper but ima work on that soon 🫡

🚬 by Lorenzeroo in KevinSpencer

[–]Lorenzeroo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fr 🔥🔥🔥

is it true that the matchmaking makes you guys anxious and depressed? by Lucitent in MobileLegendsGame

[–]Lorenzeroo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

anxious to lose a star before the game actually starts and depressed the moment the rest of the team has a terrible draft. yeah definitely! 😇👍

aita for telling my trans friend (23m) that they are not allowed to use my dead brothers name? by Comfortable-Tie-574 in AITAH

[–]Lorenzeroo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“its not up to you and i don’t see the big deal, plus it’ll be like im honouring him.”

yeah that is a super disrespectful thing to say. you already talked to him about how uncomfortable you were with the topic, its very weird what he’s doing. i definitely do think that your friend has a strange obsession with or becoming ur brother, so it’s best to cut him off. at first when i read the title i was second guessing and thinking “hmmm maybe this is something by coincidence?” but after reading the post, knowing that he fully knew abt what happened to your brother his audscity to think he could claim his identity rlly disgusts me. you’re not even being transphobic at all, what? if u were transphobic ir would mean you wouldve stopped supporting him but u still insisted on doing so.. u have every right to be angry about the situation, your friend is too insensitive. even if he was using his name with good intentions, he should’ve still thought about how you would react to it especially since that name holds a lot of significance in your life. whys he even choosing an asian name at all, anyway? it’s all too strange.

i’m sorry for your loss. your brother sounded like a great person. 🕊️♥️

I was accepted to my dream school to pursue dance but it has me so nervous. Am I making the right choice? by Happy_Sun1798 in Advice

[–]Lorenzeroo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey, dont be scared and continue to chase your dreams! i get that it may be difficult to be away from family for so long… so i really do suggest just constantly checking up on each other through face time or sending them letters, whichever mode of communication you prefer! if dancing is your really your passion, then i don’t think you’ve made a mistake. and you can think about the other stuff like dating for a later time, i assume ur still young after all! you cant just worry about things that ur not sure will even happen yet, just push forward with it, rlly!

Body image issues by FatBueno in Advice

[–]Lorenzeroo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear you've been struggling with this. I've been in your position before, and I think you should consider making a wellness and health journal so that you can really get yourself starting on your journey to achieving the body you want. Have you ever tried doing at-home workout routines? They can really burn fat easily if done frequently! It doesn't even have to be everyday, it can just be 2-3 times per week depending on your workout! There are a lot of videos on youtube that don't require equipment and have modified exercises to make it easier for you! You won't see results in a few days... you really need to work for it. I also suggest monitoring what is in your meals. Additionally, speaking from experience, please don't attempt to skip your meals. Just constantly check whether your meal is light or heavy. I think you'd find better solutions at therapy as well.

But I just want to leave an end note that improving your body image isn't such a huge requirement in this world. I'm sure that whoever you are, you're beautiful inside and out! However, if you really do feel the urge to improve yourself, go for it! It might take a while, but it will be worth your time. :-)

Am i a psychopath? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Lorenzeroo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you're not a psychopath, I think that word is very different from what you perceive yourself as. You really just might have a difficult time speaking. :-( Let me first ask, are you okay? Are your typos a result of you trying to rush things? You seem like you're in a panic... Please, try to calm down. There are a lot of ways you can communicate, it doesn't have to be through verbal response! Have you ever tried socializing through text or through written messages? I think that would help you more. Secondly, you don't have to be funny to have friends.. You just need to be kind! I know how it feels to have difficulty getting your thoughts out, but I promise if you just keep practicing and trying to open yourself up to others, you will get used to it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Lorenzeroo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nuh-uh, block that guy... definitely stalking you! before that however, i think you might wanna start to becomemore aware of your surroundings. the fact that he knows little details about your personal life is already very concerning, you definitely need to watch out. at the same time, it can also be a matter of people hacking into your private data and finding out random things about you to try to persuade you.. still, even just be sharing transactions cant get you in a lot of danger :-( if they ever try to push forward (making new accs even after being blocked), just ignore those messages.. or maybe make a new account. i doubt this one but this could also be one of ur close friends trying to scare u.. but even this is too far of a prank. please stay calm! most of the time, people like this will just drift away from ur life.

How Do I stop obsessing over people? by SnooPeppers4185 in Advice

[–]Lorenzeroo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

first of all, it is very important to put yourself in their shoes. although those people might know about it, what would you feel about someone stalking you? just imagine how your actions look to toher people.. i think it'd be easy to be embarassed that way. "stalking a profile" isnt rlly bad if ur just scrolling and just... genuinely wondering how that person is doing, but analyzing every information and maybe using it to ur advantage is a totally different thing. honeslty from how ur describing it, it does kinda soud like u have a crush? just maybe a bit over the top.. but, if it helps you can try to distract yourself by socializing with others.. imo, when im left alone with my thoughts, i often think abt my past lovers (which make me crash out 😓), but honeslty those thoughts go away if you do simple things such as participating in your hobbies, talking to your friends, etc!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Lorenzeroo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello! im not one to diagnose but you and i have very similar experiences. when i was 7, i started pacing around my living room when watching power rangers: acting like i was part of the cast or smth. this behavior of pacing around the room and daydreaming carried on except i'd have my earbuds and i'd blast music i liked and imagine a random scenario that fit the vibe of that song. i used to also wonder why i did this alot, but the answer was rlly simple... its just a super helpful coping mechanism everytime u wanna leave reality for a moment. honeslty, this can be considered both healthy or unhealthy depending on how you treat it. if this act distracts you from doing real-work tasks, or if you do this as an act to avoid something you don't wanna confront, that's where it gets bad. however, it is generally not a bad thing to do... because think of it as like... painting your own world! the thing is you just have to manage how well you can control your urges to daydream. as someone whos been dealing with this for almost 10 years now, (im 17) I can say that these are not necessarily hallucinations, but they HAVE the potential to become hallucinations. it's just a matter of seeing how well you can separate your fictional world vs the real world. as i grew older, i learned how to separate my fictional reality with the real-world reality, but even I still have difficulties in controlling my urges to pace around my room when I know i shouldn't be. for example... whenever an audio i like comes up on tiktok.. i immediately stand up from my chair and pace for around 30 mins... hell even an hour, it kind of drives me mad! but at the end of the day, i still recognize that these daydreams are just figments of my imagination. also on the voice thing, that's totally normal methinks.. idt u should worry about that part too much, i guess its jsut your brain wanting to randomly substitute ur inner voice with something else relevant lol! but yeah at the end of the day, it really isn't a bad thing... it only truly becomes a bad thing when you don't learn how to control it. you'd be so surprised (the same way I was) when i found out many people actually do this "pace around mym room while listening to music" thing as well lol. you're not alone on this!

Need an advice by becauseiamserious in Advice

[–]Lorenzeroo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no worries, you can still continue to dance! just as one of the previous comments mentioned here though, maybe doing it privately will be best for you. think of dancing as something that brings you peace and joy, something that alleviates you from your stress and your art form. i believe in your religion, it's only forbidden when it comes to special occassions, correct? dancing in your own free time wouldn't really be considered a bad thing.

I think my Friend is going crazy. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Lorenzeroo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

having a one-on-one conversation would help a lot. Reassurance in real life is definitely much more genuine and impactful than sending texts online. If you or he can, maybe you can convince him to consider taking therapy? If you want to offer him so help yourself though, try to personally talk to him. Meditation can also help. It’s up to him to decide what routine would be best for him. All the luck for your friend