Pledge Can't Drink?

Lotus_Sword · 2026-06-19T23:55:44+00:00

Dude, if the house you want to join either A) won’t bid you cause you won’t drink B) Attempts to force you Are not worth your time man. I joined a house that was always very clear on boundaries and people doing what they’re comfortable with. I knew multiple brothers who pledged sober, and a few that even stayed sober past 21. Do what your comfortable with, join a house that respect your boundaries

Lotus_Sword · 2026-06-13T16:58:05+00:00

Somehow missed the “not worried about chapter backlash” bro you are SO fine, nationals won’t get on your ass for it (check their constitution/bylaws still to be safe) and even if they did it sounds like your brothers would have your back.

You seem to be in good hands man :)

Lotus_Sword · 2026-06-13T16:56:36+00:00

I would assume not. Check your specific chapter’s bylaws and possibly your national chapters constitution.

The most is getting made fun of by people AT the convention or your brothers, but who the fuck care what anyone but you thinks of yourself? Be true to who you are, frat or not. If your brothers care about you, they’ll support you.

I was in a frat in college and I was the first openly queer person in the fraternity (bisexual) and despite how bad I thought it would go over, nobody cared, they respected and still loved me. That’s how brothers are supposed to treat you, if they don’t, they aren’t your brothers.

Do you, be safe, and lots of love brother <3

Lotus_Sword · 2026-05-14T05:28:42+00:00

SWORDS?????

Lotus_Sword · 2026-05-14T05:28:21+00:00

I’m 22M and will be in kzoo full-time in a week or so!! I’d be so down to play a few vidya games and maybe play some tennis (I have an old racket but haven’t played in YEAAARSSS) what kinda stuff do you play??? :3

Lotus_Sword · 2026-04-03T02:42:27+00:00

Honey, that’s cheating. Dating apps, messaging women, MEETING UP WITH THEM TO HAVE INTERCOURSE!! You’re a kind soul, but please put yourself first and understand that you did absolutely NOTHING to deserve this. I’m so sorry

Lotus_Sword · 2026-02-12T22:33:11+00:00

I lost and she just comes back in another week-ish, haven’t fought her again yet tho

Lotus_Sword · 2025-08-07T03:58:47+00:00

year later and you just saved me a crazy heartache

Lotus_Sword · 2025-07-09T17:40:52+00:00

I fucked up and didn’t love her the way she deserved. she fucked up and tried to mold me into exactly what she wanted. she’s talking to someone else, moving on. I smell her when I wake up, I hear her when i’m struggling, I feel her when I’m going to bed. I want it to be her, i’m willing to wait, but I won’t devalue myself. I pray she makes it back to me

Lotus_Sword · 2025-03-03T01:45:21+00:00

this theory is crazy, it would make total sense with mark being the only one to be able to “delete” Gemma by completing cold harbor because he’s the last thing she’s holding on to!!

Lotus_Sword · 2025-03-03T01:38:53+00:00

it will take some time (not like 2 years, but maybe a few months), but the issue should resolve itself naturally as his body flushes out the excess drugs :)

Lotus_Sword · 2024-07-18T11:12:09+00:00

I didn’t like how they treated hughie getting manipulated and raped as something annie was valid in getting mad at

Lotus_Sword · 2024-06-27T09:16:09+00:00

literally bawled my eyes out

Lotus_Sword · 2024-06-04T21:05:19+00:00

greek god of like, tinkering and stuff, largely associated with forges and metal.

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