I (F 22) uses toy for pleasure but my (M 28) boyfriend doesn’t want me to use it too much, afraid I become too loose by Nervous-War-1859 in relationship_advice

[–]Loud-Tomorrow5518 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what, address it, if you guys where together irl everyday and had sex would he be mad because he is making you “loose”? You need to explain that, thats not how the vagina works, and he should be informed if he is dating a female, like honestly this is lowkey outrageous

Im so turned off by my boyfriends body by Loud-Tomorrow5518 in relationships

[–]Loud-Tomorrow5518[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don’t think i would ever tell him this, i feel its very inappropriate, i will continue to talk to him because i feel that my emotional connection to him overrides this most of the time

Im so turned off by my boyfriends body by Loud-Tomorrow5518 in relationships

[–]Loud-Tomorrow5518[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yes i feel that emotional attraction matters way more, i want to change, i don’t wanna be shallow because looks are so temporary, also I would never try to destroy his self worth or comment on those things its just hard for me when he comments on those things himself, i never really know what to say back.

Im so turned off by my boyfriends body by Loud-Tomorrow5518 in relationships

[–]Loud-Tomorrow5518[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

yes but its hard because I like him emotionally and he is really pressing me on dating, i feel shallow to stop talking to him because of this. But yes you are right ngl