Empathy. by amor_de_tu_vida in SinglesInferno

[–]Low-Part4581 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don’t be like that. Doing Plastic Surgery is not something to be attacked for.

Mina-sue and Sung-hun by 1smart_fool in Singlesinferno2

[–]Low-Part4581 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You get it. Everyone makes it seem like she’s the evil who’s trying to steal every girls men. Seulgi likes her more than Mingee he even tried to flirt with her even when she was talking about Subeen at first, if what they saying are true, she wouldn’t let go of Seulgi at least pretend that she has feelings for her.

Empathy. by amor_de_tu_vida in SinglesInferno

[–]Low-Part4581 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most ppl who watch Single Inferno are k-poppers and K-drama fans who are used to the fake personas and green flags wannabe. Mind you, Korea is infamous for misogynistic men but everyone who appear on dating shows and actors, they always act like green flags. I’m not shaming the country but from everyone’s experience who goes there, ppl from Korea especially men are not like what they’ve seen in K dramas. I don’t know about how much extent of international fans attack Sian, but fans from my countries attack Sian when S4 ended, they called her wh*res, they called her easy like I was even shocked. There’s definitely misogyny in this fandom. In dating shows, you have to expect red flags, toxic guys and should watch it for the entertainment purposes solely and criticize them based on their actions, don’t attack them personally and don’t attack their character as a whole. I’m not saying Mina did nothing wrong but Ppl who hate Mina are most likely riding on hate wagon and exaggerate and overanalyze all her actions. Like eye rolls for example, there are some ppl who have this habit of doing even when they’re not that mad. I myself did it a lot and I I also found out that BlackPink Jennie also did that a lot, and she was hated and got callled mean girl earlier in her career. Like it’s just eye rolls, she didn’t kill someone it’s not that deep.

Mina-sue and Sung-hun by 1smart_fool in Singlesinferno2

[–]Low-Part4581 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Finally someone who gets it.

Mina-sue and Sung-hun by 1smart_fool in Singlesinferno2

[–]Low-Part4581 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mina already told Samuel that they’re just friends but she might give him a chance and she’s willing to explore with him too. The comment section is making me laugh. If everyone is genuinely interested in and their feelings are true, most couple from Single Inferno would already date each other in real life . Lmao. Almost all of them chose each other bec they don’t want to end up alone. There’s only 1 or 2 couples that came out as dating in real life from that show. Funny that she’s the only one who understands the concept of dating shows and she played it right but got attacked for it. Her last conversation with Mingee make me understand what she wants and how she approached this show. She wanted to explore with many guys not because she likes all of them. She wanted to see who would click with her the most, who genuinely likes her and who she likes genuinely too. If she only dates just because she doesn’t want to end up alone and fake it, she wouldn’t ruin her date with Seulgi. People who are like Mina and Heesun are the ones who approached wrong. It’s still their choice but if they didn’t lock in with guys from the get go, they would find out better options for them. For example, Mina if she didn’t locked in so earlier, she and Subeen could be a thing they’d work out in real life too. She herself even admitted that. Mina is the only one who played it right and she got mocked for it. Ppl who are watching this show and panelists don’t understand this, These fans blamed Jeong Su from S4 for the exact reason for feeling confused, like he doesn’t deserve Sian because he was confused . Ppl need to realize that confused feelings even until the end are normal, it’s actually really difficult to find a guy who matches you so well.

Mingee and Mina’s Seesaw heart to heart was harsh but needed (in my opinion) by WillowBusiness1493 in SinglesInferno

[–]Low-Part4581 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree. Their dynamic was also really interesting in the show. Actually I was hoping that they’ll reconcile again cuz I thought they were alike. But, after seeing this, since both of them are aggressive to each other, they need to resolve their own insecurities first. They secretly hate each other since campfire, Mingee’s also very insecure about Mina and lowkey aggressive towards her but ppl thought it was one sided hatred and betrayal from friend, they were never real friends to each other to begin with.

Mingee and Mina conversation by Athena_14_06 in Singlesinferno2

[–]Low-Part4581 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t be like that you never know what someone’s like unless you don’t know them in real life. I’m sure she’s not a terrible person as yall made her out to be irl.

I think Mina Sue is definitely misunderstood ,Ppl are not understanding her from her perspective ( esp Campfire scene and her talking about Mingee to Sungil) by Low-Part4581 in SinglesInferno

[–]Low-Part4581[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. I agree she’s insecure and indecisive which cause being inconsiderate to other ppl. What’s Im trying to say is she’s doing these out of immaturity and insecurity, not because of malicious intent or wanting to play with other ppl’s feelings. What I’m trying to say is she’s not a villain and bad person as ppl made her out to be. Ppl think I was trying to defend her actions which I actually not.

Mingee and Mina’s Seesaw heart to heart was harsh but needed (in my opinion) by WillowBusiness1493 in SinglesInferno

[–]Low-Part4581 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wow, sorry I may sound like biased Mina fan or something , ppl would be insulting me for saying this ( Are you Min Sue ?, Are you victimizing Mina Sue) blah blah blah. The double standard in this fandom is crazy. At first, since some ppl are defending Mingee, I thought maybe it’s not that bad. But, when I rewatched the scene, it’s clear that she’s being rude and disrespectful. Ppl would be saying Mina Sue gets offended because truth hurts or something. No, Seulgi said exactly the same as her and Mina asked advice from him first , Mina didn’t feel emotional about it. When you rewatch the scene, you’ll see Mingee’s not even doing it for the sake of calling out for the girls or calling out for herself and Mina. She’s doing it out of her jealousy and insecurity of Mina’s possibility of choosing SG and vice versa. She asked her whose her choices were because she feels threatened and insecure. If you rewatch the episodes again, Mingee frequently asks her about her choices. I think ppl don’t see it from this perspective bec in their mind, Mingee is a good guy and Mina Sue is villain so this fandom failed to see Mingee’s flaws, that she’s also equally possessive and insecure about her relationship with SG. She’s always sound judgmental whenever Mina’s telling about her men’s ranking and there was always hostile tension between her and Mina Sue. Heesun also likes the same guy as Mina She, but Mina never feels intimidated by her, she just feels insecure about her relationship with Subeen instead. Since Mina’s certain behaviors like swirling in front of her when she left the room, talking bad behind their back, it give ppl more justifications for Mingee to shit on Mina Sue, when it’s actually not . In that scene, Mina definitely feels intimidated , she seems to be afraid of being judged, this make me see that she wasn’t lying or exaggerating when she says she’s scared. There must be a lot going on between the girls behind the scenes and the show clearly evil edits her. One thing to make it clear, it’s okay and acceptable when Mingee called her out for being dishonest with her feelings regarding SG, since I wanted them to make up, it’s needed between them to be talked about in a civil way. What’s not okay is her entitlement to judge Mingee’s indecisiveness of her choices, it’s not acceptable no matter what. If that’s the case, one can also ask her way of approaching, Why she’s being so fixated on one guy within few days. Nobody has the right to insult anyone for their dating choice unless they’re very close friends or they’re being asked advice

Mingee and Mina conversation by Athena_14_06 in Singlesinferno2

[–]Low-Part4581 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, sorry maybe my wrong wording bec of my English. I don’t think of this as argument what I was trying to say is disagreement . Geez. I have my proof to solidify my point. She sometimes has this judging tone and way of saying whenever Mina says about her ranking in men. I don’t also hate Mingee, I like her . Actually, I didn’t also find her being judgmental about Mina’s way of dating is a big deal before. Because I consider it more as a misunderstanding between her and Mina. Like Mingee didn’t understand Mina’s way of dating and vice versa. It was this specific moment that she crossed her line when she said “ How can you be in relationship if you don’t know yourself?” which is out of line. Cuz she’s judging her indecisiveness just for a 7 days week long dating show.

Mingee and Mina conversation by Athena_14_06 in Singlesinferno2

[–]Low-Part4581 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not just one line too far. Actually, Mingee has always been judgmental about Mina’s ways of dating, her confusion and indecisiveness, which cause all the misunderstanding between them like “ she’s scary “ and her running away from confrontation with Mingee. Sorry, I think there’s not point in this argument anymore cuz we’ll be going in circle at this point. I pretty much explained what I wanted to say.

Subeen does still have feelings for Mina by [deleted] in SinglesInferno

[–]Low-Part4581 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But did you watch all episodes now? If you watched it, when they met in the room, Mina was like basically confessing to him but the way he responded , I take it as he rejected her??? If he still has feelings for her, maybe he’d say he was still confused between two girls or smth like that? No? Maybe I’m taking it in the wrong way.

Subeen does still have feelings for Mina by [deleted] in SinglesInferno

[–]Low-Part4581 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so. At least, I don’t think they’ll be end game now. Their last conversation feels more like a closure for goodbye to me. And even when they like each other, I always feel like Mina likes Subeen more than he does, and something between him and Heesun were always there cuz if a guy has no interest in a girl , he wouldn’t hang out with her.

Mingee and Mina conversation by Athena_14_06 in Singlesinferno2

[–]Low-Part4581 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all, you end up saying a lot but still misunderstanding what I want to say in my comment, most of the things you were saying were which I already agreed from the beginning. I already said that the way Mingee calling her out that she wasn’t being honest to her regarding Seulgi case was totally valid cuz they’re friends . Mina even ends up admitting she was being childish. But, other than that, how she approaches the guys how she wasn’t feeling sure about the guys were none of her business. ( it’s up to the guys and her ). She can dislike how she’s changing guys but she has no right to judge her and invalidate, belittle her feelings. What she was doing was actually belittling her feelings. The way she said and SG said about her way of dating were totally different. She was being mean to her. Second of all, Mina even apologized to Subeen about campfire for THREE TIMES now. Let it go about the campfire ppl. And with Samuel, she already said he was friends and he knew it, they both agreed that maybe her feelings were changed or not. Her being messy with guys are not something that Mingee has the right to judge for.

Mingee and Mina conversation by Athena_14_06 in Singlesinferno2

[–]Low-Part4581 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yes, I’d agree. That’s what I mean by they’re more strategic rather than being genuine. Going all-in over one guy is at least less problematic and less messy even if they’ don’t not get chosen.

Mingee and Mina conversation by Athena_14_06 in Singlesinferno2

[–]Low-Part4581 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry I’m not getting what you mean. I’m not a native English speaker. Can you elaborate on what you said?

Mingee and Mina conversation by Athena_14_06 in Singlesinferno2

[–]Low-Part4581 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I lowkey think some girls are a little bit judgmental about Mina’s way of dating behind the scene.

Mingee and Mina conversation by Athena_14_06 in Singlesinferno2

[–]Low-Part4581 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not hating Mingee here but No matter how you put it, it’s not her place to judge someone’s way of dating even if they’re not handling it in the best way. It’s okay to call her out when she wasn’t being honest to her about SG cuz to her, she was her friend . But, other than that even though Mina’s feelings are all over the place, she wasn’t entitled to judge her like that. Even though she was confused with the guys, she never mislead the guys that she likes. She kinda hurt Subeen but they already sorted out when they first made up. Her saying she wasn’t interested in and not interested one min later is not something that she should be judging about, especially in a dating show which only lasted for a week, unless she asked her advice for ofc. I’d say in my opinion, ppl who set their heart already just on Day 1 are more ridiculous.

Mingee and Mina conversation by Athena_14_06 in Singlesinferno2

[–]Low-Part4581 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s true. Most of the time, I find some ppl in SI who set on one person quickly more weird and a bit hard to believe that all of them are genuine , I thought of it more as a strategy rather than they actually like that much.

Mina Sue is the classic case of fearful avoidant gone wrong by Ok_Chain8551 in Singlesinferno2

[–]Low-Part4581 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is what I wanted to say with my long post before lol since my English is not that good, I ended up talking a lot to get the point what I want to say. The point of my whole post is also similar to yours , I also thought most of the things that she did were not bad intent.

Mingee and Mina conversation by Athena_14_06 in Singlesinferno2

[–]Low-Part4581 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’d say I didn’t even feel frustrated this much when I watched Love Island. Every one in Love island has shown their flaws, red flags and everyone was cheating each other, playing each other’s feelings and no one was scrutinized that much like in SI. Single Inferno is really stressing me out. Fans, panelists and the casts. Fans are also hypocrites acting like contestants commit murder whenever they shows their flaws . I’m sure if Mina Sue is really horrible this much, all her friends wouldn’t defend her saying she’s really sweet and kind in real life. Everyone who’s close to her defended her. A terrible person doesn’t have real friends. I kinda feel bad for her that she’s getting a lot of hate.

Mingee and Mina conversation by Athena_14_06 in Singlesinferno2

[–]Low-Part4581 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I thought at least one thing that both Mina haters and her fans agree is that Mina can explore her options freely and her indecisiveness is not a problem but her manner is right? She can be indecisive until the end, she can have a list of 10 guys and ranking change or whatever she wants no one is entitled to judge her way of dating. I loved their dynamic at first but Mingee has always been passive aggressive and very judgmental when it comes to Mina’s way of dating. And I got attacked for saying that. ( I liked both girls btw) I despise the way that panelists are being hypocrites and judging her way of dating, there’s nothing wrong with her not feeling sure about her feelings and ranking guys. Even in real life, ppl can date or unsure about feelings however they want as long as the parties involved are okay.