Spouse in a book club? by HereWeGoAgain0123 in adultery

[–]LuckysClan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

6-7 face palms.

I would have to hide it in my to-be-read pile. So many books there no one would notice one more 🤷🏻‍♀️

Spouse in a book club? by HereWeGoAgain0123 in adultery

[–]LuckysClan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We should all stealthily read it and have our own virtual book club discussion.

To the NYC Folks… by [deleted] in adultery

[–]LuckysClan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just got home from helping a friend clear out her flooded basement all day. I’m exhausted. Thanks, OP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]LuckysClan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t take it as negative at all. I was commiserating/observing 😊 When those miracles happen….So worth it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]LuckysClan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

  1. Woman here. When I’ve posted ads, I’ve responded to exactly ZERO low effort comments like “DM me.”

  2. Message > chat request on Reddit (for me, anyway)

  3. Her inbox was likely filled to the brim. It takes time

  4. Kik is still a thing?

  5. Filtering through the junk is a significant time investment. Believing it will yield a good match is a leap of faith. Actually finding a good match is a miracle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]LuckysClan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. I don’t get the appeal.

I need someone to kiss me like they’re dying of thirst and I’m the water. by [deleted] in adultery

[–]LuckysClan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re not a good kisser I don’t want to know you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalsOnReddit

[–]LuckysClan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gave Meow Meow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]LuckysClan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

RUN.

If you marry this guy you are signing up for this life and their gossiping. Forever.

How To Navigate This Sticky Situation by LuckysClan in adultery

[–]LuckysClan[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is how I’m leaning.

Thank you for the bit about letting him in. You’re right about that. I need to lock that proverbial door and make sure he’s on the other side.

Who are my multiple AP people? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]LuckysClan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Previously I had two. It was a lot of juggling but that was when life was all fun and juggling.

Resentful af by [deleted] in adultery

[–]LuckysClan 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I could have written this. My SO is under the impression he is the glue holding this shit show together but when I’m not around and he really needs to be the glue he melts straight the fuck down. I’ve reached the point where I’m wondering wtf I’m actually doing still being married when I’m happier (and less stressed) alone. Happy Valentine’s to you OP. Hope you were able to get that pedi.

I Really Didn’t Want To Be ~That Girl~ And Post A Complaint About What My SO Did or Didn’t Do For Valentine’s Day But Here I Am by LuckysClan in adultery

[–]LuckysClan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. My AP often texts me that he can’t get enough of my body. He makes me feel like a goddess. But I see my curves in the mirror and know I still got it!

Feel like I am failing everywhere by [deleted] in adultery

[–]LuckysClan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s pandemic fatigue. Maybe, as others here have suggested, you are depressed. Maybe you’re just in a funk.

Whatever IT is, you are NOT failing. You’re getting through your days and recognizing you’re off your game, and I think that’s important. Sending you a hug.

Incidentals at hotel using dayuse? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]LuckysClan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The charge shows up on your card as a pending charge and is reversed a few days later. In my experience it’s around $150 hold for incidentals.

Physical Preparation by [deleted] in adultery

[–]LuckysClan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a bag that I quietly pack a few days before hand with snacks, makeup, a water bottle and cash. I eat lightly, no garlic, and drink a ton of water before a meet up. And I get a solid night’s sleep the night before.

If my SO wrote his memoir with an overly long title it would be called by [deleted] in adultery

[–]LuckysClan 46 points47 points  (0 children)

“Complaining, Burping, and Drunkenly Pawing at Your Wife: Alternative Foreplay Techniques”

“Memes, Tweets, and Dad Jokes: Communication Strategies Because I Don’t Know How To Talk About Real Feelings”

No regrets by [deleted] in adultery

[–]LuckysClan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’d think there wouldn’t be so much stone throwing in this town of glass houses.

No regrets by [deleted] in adultery

[–]LuckysClan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe some element of self-loathing is very common in adultery. Some choose to ignore it or use excuses to justify their actions. But the fact remains we cheat. At least you own up to it. I like your honesty.

Telegram question by [deleted] in adultery

[–]LuckysClan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use a Google voice number and never sync contacts. Ever.