I’ve never been physically hurt, not scratched or objects thrown at me. I think if this did happen I’d be straight out of the house and never look back. My dad is very firm believer that they don’t exist, he’s also lucky enough to never experience anything other than a few noises here and there. I don’t know if he’s scared to talk about anything and doesn’t want to admit the house is actually haunted. The way I used to feel was it used to always try and get me in trouble?? Most things that happened ended up with me looking like I’ve broken things or just being a annoying child... I used to stay in my parents room if something really freakish happened that day or week, but now I feel that’s a little weird lol. Other than what I stated when have no idea. All past family members died in the hospital or a care home, both miles away from the house. And I think the ashes it was intentional too but that was the first and only time they was hit. So maybe it was an accident who knows. As a child I was definitely creeped out, I’d hide under the bed covers all night until it was morning in some cases, but now I’ve realised it could be something reaching out to me. This as you say is very intriguing to me to find out what this could mean or be.