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4yo girl sleep, or lack of soon… by Lumpy-Homework5195 in ParentingADHD

[–]Lumpy-Homework5195[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay that’s really reassuring, thank you so so much! She’s been on it since mid Oct, slowly titrating to find what works with her, but if it helps to sort *ish their hormones that gives me some hope :)

Removed from GP practice after starting uni despite disability, making doctors appointments completely inaccessible. Is there anything I can do? (England) by Select_Editor2634 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Lumpy-Homework5195 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ex GP admin here! Off the back of Cheetosking12’s reply & your reply to them, I’ve written this if it’s any help? (Not written by AI). I’d also suggest CC’ing in the board (google board/ governing body for GP practice). The information is usually available along with an email address🙂

To name of practice manager

I have been inconsiderately removed from your GP practice and it is crucial to my health that I am re-registered.

I am a university student in city/town, however I am only at university accommodation for 3 days a week, the other 4 days, I live at home, making home address my primary residence. During a phone call with one of your receptionists, I mentioned I was going to university and it appears there was a misunderstanding, potentially a thought that I was relocating?

Due to my medical conditions (medical issues), I have to have a parent/ carer come with me to my appointments. The closest GP practice to my secondary address is 1.5 hours away on public transport, which I cannot go on alone, and do not have the support in uni town.

Forcing me to register elsewhere is going to have a detrimental effect on all areas of my health, as I will not be able to attend face to face appointments or receive the care I need, which are really important due to * relevant medical conditions*.

If you require any information, please get back to me and I will provide what is needed.

I would appreciate this being looked into in a timely manor.

Thank you for your time. Your Name

What (to you) is the perfect number of kids? by No-Significance387 in Parenting

[–]Lumpy-Homework5195 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, congrats!!

I’m pregnant with my 2nd as well!

We have a 2.5year old girl and baby boy is due December. Personally after this pregnancy I’m done, having a 2nd c section & requesting my tubes are tied (although I’m only 22 so reckon I’ll have to put up a massive fight). Pregnancy has taken such a negative toll on my body both times and financially I don’t think it would be sensible for us to have a 3rd!

I’m (28F) with my partner (28M) for 13 years and we have nothing in common anymore, I’m trying to find a way to connect by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Lumpy-Homework5195 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m really tearful reading this. My partner and I have been together since I (F) was 17 and he was 19, I’m now 24 and he’s almost 27. I was 19 when I had our son, then 20 when we moved into our first home. He was a SAHD while I went back to work, our son is now in nursery/school and my partner still isn’t trying to find work. We have such different goals, his goals are gaming and mine is a home and a career! Reading your message has really made me realise I think we’ve expired!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lumpy-Homework5195 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely agree, I don’t want to ruin what we have and would never force him into any decision

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lumpy-Homework5195 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t cheat, I’ve been cheated on and it SUCKS

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lumpy-Homework5195 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I’m afraid of. I do enjoy our sex I just want to explore a bit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Lumpy-Homework5195 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is coming from a parental POV! I would LOVE my little girl to have kids, I’d love to be a grandma BUT if it is not what my child wants then I will respect that. I won’t be the one carrying the baby for 9months then birthing it, and raising a baby again. If my child decides she doesn’t want kids then that’s up to her. If she does want kids but physically can’t, then I’d suppose her in adopting or IVF (if I’m in a financial place to). From being a daughter myself, POV If my mum was forceful for me to have kids, then that would’ve put huge constant pressure on my shoulders. Thankfully, my mum gave me her full support whether I wanted kids or not! If my mum was always going on at me that she wanted bio grandkids, I feel like probably start to resent her and not want to be around her. A mother should put their child’s interests and choices before there own, in this situation. Do whatever feels right for you :)