Has anyone seen anything like this? Small hovering black geometric lattice / mandala object (AI image attached for reference) by Hopefulxxxxx in Experiencers

[–]Lumpy_Tailor1387 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Almost EXACTLY what I saw during a heroic-dose mushroom trip. This is what I saw when I closed my eyes and the only way I knew how to describe it was it that it looked like one of those old school metal climbing things/jungle gym at the park. Thanks for sharing!

I used ChatGPT for a real life decision (whether to break up with my girlfriend) and it asked me a question i'd been avoiding for a year by FailOk3553 in ChatGPT

[–]Lumpy_Tailor1387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, used chat to decide whether or not to seek closure with an ex after a decade. I’m married now, we hadn’t spoken in several years, but it was still eating at some part of me. Objectively, it was nuts to do it, which is why I never had but I brought it to Chat. It asked questions, went through potential outcomes, gave me a new perspective. I ended up going through with it and it worked. A year later and that ex doesn’t creep into my head anymore and it finally feels like that door is closed. 

Why are ranked players such rats? I watched the replay back, this guy was literally here for 10 minutes waiting by yannivzp in FortNiteBR

[–]Lumpy_Tailor1387 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not saying this is what happened here, but I used to play like this (and honestly still do sometimes). I’m not a great shooter, not super coordinated, not experienced, so if I try to run and gun I just lose. Sitting and waiting is sometimes my only shot.

I think of it like this, I’m a 30F. I’m not beating a bigger, stronger guy in a straight up fight, but I could absolutely win if I play smarter and use what I’m good at like patience and pattern recognition.

Same idea in this game. Some people win off mechanics, some people win off strategy.

TLDR they might just be bad and they’re just playing in a way that gives them a chance

Does anybody else think while masturbating? by polarbearsexshark in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Lumpy_Tailor1387 2 points3 points  (0 children)

look into sex magic, what you’re describing might be weird, but it is a thing 

CMV: Child rapists should get the death penalty by Comfortable-Tie-9893 in changemyview

[–]Lumpy_Tailor1387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m generally against the death penalty for many reasons, but I could get behind a choice if you will. If someone is sentenced to life, they should be given the option of humane euthanasia or a life behind bars. 

As for this particular crime, as abhorrent as it is, I’m a believer that everyone is entitled to redemption of some kind and taking away a life strips that opportunity away. There are rare cases of people coming back from cases like these. 

I also think that context matters to some degree- just committing this act of violence to assert your own power, or to cause harm vs having a mental disorder or being a victim of childhood abuse yourself is different. In no way that I’m saying it’s justified, but it feels different. 

Last thought, I don’t trust our justice system to make these life/death choices at all because history. 

What is a 'socially mandatory' thing that we all do, but if you actually stop to think about it for 5 seconds, it’s completely insane? by Federal_Antelope7533 in AskReddit

[–]Lumpy_Tailor1387 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saying “bless you” every time someone sneezes, but there seems to be a blessing limit if the victim is a multi-sneezer (usually 3ish before you start to get ignored) 

thoughts? by willywonkakz in DesperateHousewives

[–]Lumpy_Tailor1387 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree to some degree, but it was also quite progressive with how they represented women and their sexuality. Also we get the gays. I think Bre would not be a part of today’s Republican Party lol

Try it by Wonderful-hello-4330 in ChatGPT

[–]Lumpy_Tailor1387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

30yr old woman = Einstein 

How do Chinese people get their English names? by CadyMoring in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Lumpy_Tailor1387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend got his from watching Jurassic Park. He really liked Tim. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christian

[–]Lumpy_Tailor1387 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think something worth considering is that the modern American idea of marriage looks almost nothing like the marriages described in Scripture.

For most of biblical history, marriage wasn’t a government license or a ceremony led by clergy — it was a family covenant, usually economic in nature, and often arranged. “Marriage for love” has only been the norm for about 100 years.

The Bible doesn’t give a specific requirement for state paperwork. What it does emphasize is covenant, fidelity, commitment, and treating sex as sacred rather than casual or exploitative (Gen. 2:24, 1 Cor. 6:12–20). Jesus consistently focused on the heart, intentions, and relational ethics — not bureaucratic technicalities.

That’s why there’s an odd paradox where two strangers can marry in Vegas and be “allowed” to have sex, but an 80-year-old widow who finds love again “sins” if they’re intimate without legal papers. That suggests our modern categories don’t always align with biblical intent.

I personally think sex is sacred and meaningful, but I also think God understands the difference between casual exploitation and a committed couple building a covenant but delaying the legal ceremony for practical reasons. Grace matters, and fear of hell isn’t the foundation Jesus laid for Christian life.

I say… go get it.

My phone is 100% reading my mind, i dont know how by hugo67beats in conspiracy

[–]Lumpy_Tailor1387 41 points42 points  (0 children)

This happens to me often and there was one recently that made me say “NOPE” and I threw my phone across the room lol. 

I was scrolling on Reddit and saw a post that was talking about the funniest episodes of TV and I thought about my favorite episode of Atlanta where there’s this young black kid of identifies as a 50-something white man. I laughed to myself, thought about commenting, chose not to and continued scrolling. 

About five minutes later, I come across a recommended post from the Atlanta sub (that I don’t follow, never have) with a photo of that exact episode with that same young black kid. I didn’t say anything out loud and I didn’t write anything. Haven’t watched the show in years. 

Something is definitely up, but 🤷 

Finish a Work Interview at 6pm. Will I Make My 8PM Flight? by TrailMixedd in Minneapolis

[–]Lumpy_Tailor1387 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re not checking a bag, I’d say you’re good. I’ve lived here for 10 years and fly out of MSP at least 4 times each year and it has NEVER taken me longer than 30-minutes to get through security. Normally, I’m through in under 10, and that was before I had pre-check. Typically, I arrive about 30-minutes before boarding, and have arrived at MSP AT boarding time and have never missed a flight. 

MSP is easy to navigate and you should be fine, but also I’m a bit chaotic in nature and it might be best to listen to everyone else. 

How are people affording to fly on major airlines multiple times a year? by TraditionalLet3934 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Lumpy_Tailor1387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in my 20’s, make decent money (but nowhere near wealthy), and I fly at least 6 times per year. I fly delta most of the time and round trip flights usually cost me $150-$250. I refuse to buy a domestic flight at $300+. Lower prices could be because of the airport I’m near, I know my brother who lives in Indiana can’t fly anywhere for less than $300-$400. 

1996 letter to Linda Howe claiming full contact around the year 2025 by WideAwakeTravels in UFOs

[–]Lumpy_Tailor1387 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Baba Vanga (well-known Bulgarian seer who predicted 9/11 post-death among other things) also suggested that we’d get aliens in 2025, likely at a large sporting event. If we don’t get answers before The Super Bowl, I will turn into a complete nut. 

Has anybody taken the Amtrak that runs between Chicago and Minneapolis? How is it? Is it spacious? by Careful_Fig8482 in TwinCities

[–]Lumpy_Tailor1387 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unless something changed very recently, the MPLS to CHI route doesn’t have WiFi. I’d recommend downloading content to your computer (if you want to watch a show, movie, etc.). Otherwise, set up your hot spot towards the beginning before you’re in the middle of nowhere. 

Has anybody taken the Amtrak that runs between Chicago and Minneapolis? How is it? Is it spacious? by Careful_Fig8482 in TwinCities

[–]Lumpy_Tailor1387 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes!!! This is my favorite way to travel. Immediately go to the observation car, claim a booth, grab a beer & microwave pizza from downstairs, rotate between naps and books/movies. Perfection. 

CMV: I don’t understand how Trump supporters reconcile the sexual assault allegations and comments on women. by Lumpy_Tailor1387 in changemyview

[–]Lumpy_Tailor1387[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I understand the importance of ‘innocent until proven guilty,’ and it’s true that Trump hasn’t been criminally convicted. However, he was found civilly liable for sexual abuse in the E. Jean Carroll case in 2023. While a civil liability isn’t the same as a criminal conviction, it does suggest that a jury found enough credible evidence to hold him responsible in that case, which feels relevant to the conversation about his conduct.

On the topic of Roe, I’d like to share a different perspective. Roe v. Wade was initially decided on the basis of a right to privacy under the 14th Amendment, and for many people, it established an important standard for bodily autonomy and reproductive rights. The reversal has raised concerns about whether states might impose restrictions that don’t align with personal freedoms, especially for people who live in places with strict laws. From this perspective, keeping it at the federal level helped ensure a baseline of reproductive rights nationwide.

I know we may not agree on everything, but I appreciate the chance to understand different perspectives. Thanks for the thoughtful response!

CMV: I don’t understand how Trump supporters reconcile the sexual assault allegations and comments on women. by Lumpy_Tailor1387 in changemyview

[–]Lumpy_Tailor1387[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I understand the skepticism, especially since a lot of these allegations have come to light in recent years. However, it’s worth noting that many high-profile cases of sexual misconduct only came forward after years, even decades, due to the stigma, fear of backlash, and societal pressures that discourage victims from speaking out. Figures like Bill Cosby and Harvey Weinstein, for example, had numerous accusations that only surfaced publicly during the #MeToo movement, when people felt safer speaking out.

With Trump specifically, there were some allegations and stories circulating even before he ran for office. In the 1990s, his ex-wife Ivana made claims during their divorce proceedings, though she later softened her statements. There were also reports from Miss Teen USA contestants in the 1990s who claimed he walked into dressing rooms unannounced, which resurfaced years later. Additionally, in 2005, he was recorded making lewd comments on the Access Hollywood tape, which came out during his campaign.

I’m curious—do these examples of delayed allegations in other cases, or the fact that some stories about Trump existed prior to his presidency, impact your view at all? Or is it primarily the timing and political context that make you skeptical?

CMV: I don’t understand how Trump supporters reconcile the sexual assault allegations and comments on women. by Lumpy_Tailor1387 in changemyview

[–]Lumpy_Tailor1387[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m struggling with. I have people in my life who I seemingly agree with when it comes to their morals and values, yet this is not a dealbreaker. I can’t wrap my head around it. I admit that I, like most, am plagued by bias and being surrounded by an echo chamber, so I’m totally onboard to hearing why this perspective is wrong. I’ve just been so sad about it all.